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well i have been looking at all the posts on here. and i am one of the ones confused about what i want. as in girls or boys. i mean i love boys, dont get me wrong. but i have been thinking about girls. i cant experiment with anyone. all of my friends think that kissing another girl is gross and everything. but i really would like to try. i dont have anyone to try with.
any advice?
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you have a sister you could do it with her or ask 1 of your frinds!
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Well, making out with someone is never as pleasureable as it would be if you really cared for the person, but I'll assume you know that already.
It's okay to question your sexuality, just as it would be perfectly okay if you were bisexual or a lesbian. These things tend to become more clear with time, and as people get older they lose a lot of their immature reactions to things that are different.
Maybe the girl you find will be a completely new person, not a friend you have a lot of history with. Hooking up with friends is always risky because it could make the friendship awkward, but if you met someone outside of your group of friends it could be more comfortable.
So join a new club at school. Spend some time places you like to be - alone. Talk to someone you might not normally approach. And most of all, just be open to people around you - the right guy or girl could be just around the corner.
Best of luck.
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The older you get, the closer your friends become, the more they'll be open to doing wild and crazy things... even if they get a bit tipsy.
I've never had those emotions, and if I do, I'll just look at some Abercrombie & Fitch models and realize how much I luff guys.
Hope I helped and good luck!
XOXO
oPreppyo
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WELL. Sometimes I have thoughts like that. And it would indeed be interesting to try and kiss another girl. See if you can find a girl that wouldnt be weirded out to try that but at the same time, wouldnt think youre her girlfriend or love partner or something like that. As in you could still be friends even though you kissed. Hope this helped. ♥Rebecca
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You may be Bi-Sextual you never know. I guess for some chicks it's normal to think about both girl and boy but still be straight. But if you want to kiss a chick then yeah I think you may be just BI. It's not a bad thing I have friends that are BI and they are kick ass. But yeah. Hope I helped. Hope you find that one chick that will let you experiment with them. Sorry if I didn't help it's only because I didn't understand what you was asking but it's all good.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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The desire to experiment is normal for a lot of people. But if, like you said, you don't have anyone to do it with, then you are out of luck for now. Don't let your friends make you think your interest makes you a freak or disgusting. Some of them will probably get curious sometime in thier lives too. Just be open to meeting new people and keep your eyes peeled for someone who shares your curiosity.
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