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it hurts...him?


Question Posted Saturday August 6 2005, 6:10 pm

okay so me and my boyfriend have just recently started haveing sex and well we we're both virgins..and of course its gonna hurt me when he enters me..but the funny thing is he has never been all the way in..he says it hurts him too? is that possible? is it suppose to hurt the guy if so why? or is it because he is NOT circumcized? i dunno if he is or not..how can u tell?

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XStLpRide2005X answered Saturday August 13 2005, 7:21 pm:
well when i had sex it never hurt me i mean i thaght girls get pain not boyz well mybe he is not happy with his size soo if he goes to deeb in it you might not fell nothing and be like did you start yet idk i never had problems like that talk to him or some

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Supermanlover45 answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 12:42 pm:
Yes, it is possible. Circumcized is where on the penis there's a flab of skin covering the top of it. It's possible to hurt the guy because like you said your a Virgin and so is he but it's because your too tight. It won't hurt him after a while. Hope I helped. (LoL I know you asked this a long time ago but screw it.

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ShanN*

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ilovehissmile answered Sunday August 7 2005, 5:38 pm:
yeah it will hurt some b/c of not bein circumsized and also if your really tight will hurt the guy some until your loose...sounds dereogartory but its the truth

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TheOldOne answered Saturday August 6 2005, 8:38 pm:
If he's not circumsized, and his foreskin is not loose enough, yes, he can experience some pain. If either one of you force him into you, it's even possible for his foreskin to turn outside-in, kind of like rolling a sock inside of itself; that's painful and a bit scary, but not dangerous (the skin can be gently pulled right-side-out).

His doctor may be able to prescribe some ointment which will loosen up his foreskin over time. It's also possible that she or he will recommend circumcision, but that seems drastic (although I'm not a doctor).

One thing that should help a lot is lubrication. KY or some other lotion, applied liberally to both of you, will make penetration a lot easier and more enjoyable.

Of course, just in case either of you is under age, I always add that I do not recommend that anyone under 17 or 18 have sex; personally, I think that most people under that age aren't really ready.

Good luck!

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vince_3387 answered Saturday August 6 2005, 7:54 pm:
either your really tight or his penis is too bi gfor your vagina and hes hittin the back of your pussy.

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karenR answered Saturday August 6 2005, 7:06 pm:
Painful sex is something that really needs to be discussed with a family doctor. Please encourage him to do so. It should not be painful.

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