How do I get my boyfriend to open up to me? Like as in tell me how he feels. Everytime I ask he always says "you know" I know I do but I just want to hear him say it and like how do I get him to be more I don't know umm....open about his feelings....problem is he has never been that way! Help please?!?!
Supermanlover45 answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 12:24 pm: How bout this... Ask him what he feels for you and if he say's "You know" Then just say No, I don't know because you won't tell me and it would mean a lot to me if you told me in your own words how you do feel about me so please tell me how you feel. And if he tells you then after he's done expressing himself tell him that you would like it more if he were more open with his feelings for you and everything. Hope I helped.
SoNotLegal answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 2:11 am: Just tell him that you really want to hear him talk about his opinions and have discussions with him. Ask him how he feels more often, and if he says, "You know," then just say, "In a way I do, but I want you to tell me exactly how you feel about this." And you can't expect him to be completely open about everything -- he IS a guy. Be patient with him!
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Teza answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 2:07 am: Since he has never been that way its hard for him to share his feelings with basiclly anyone. So it will take him some time to get comftrable with that. You have to tell him that you will not judge him and that you love him and will always be there for him. He has to know that he can trust you no matter what. So accept that fact for now until he gets more comftrable with sharing his feelings. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
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