about

well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




advice

does anyone know if verizon has a unlimitted texting package u can add to your plan cause right now i have 600 sent and recieved and thats not enough.. and if they do how much is it?

thanks to anyone that answers

my best friend has a plan were you txt and pix message anyone as much as you want (unlimited) for 10$ a month. you can call them and ask and they should give you all the imformation. hope this helps.
♥ Steph

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Could someone please describe to me "Planned Parenthood"?

Do they offer abortions?

I don't really understand what it is. I looked at the website and it didn't make sense to me.

alrighty here it goes


planned parenthgood is a place for mostly teens but people over 18 go there but it offeras everything you can possible need about sex. they can give you birth control methods as in condoms, borth control etc. and i am 95% sure they offer abortion UNLESS you live in a state that it is illegeal. they can cheeck you out for STD AIDS and all diease. hope this helps you out.

if yo got any other questions feel free to drop it in my inbox.
♥Steph

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ok so i heard that you can get into someones myspace without knowing there password, can someone tell me how cause someone went into mine and i didnt use my right email address and i NEED to get in! so please help

hun i am sorry but that is probably how someone got ur password you didnt give them your real email and the person who had that email can get your password sent to them.. =( i am sorry.

and that isnt true abotu you can get into someones mypsace without a password.
♥ steph

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I think I might be pregnant.. I had sex with my boyfriend without using a condom..about 2 weeks ago..He was supposed to pull out in time and he claims he did.. but "down there" was wet like "his stuff" was all over it... as if he pulled out as going ...!
I know this was a STUPID thing.. to not use a condom and whatnot.. but its too late.. and i want to know if you guys think im pregnant!?
Im like paranoid now.. and feel dizzy all the time.. ! My periods not supposed to come for a while either.. so I dont know.. plus, its realllly irregular and I dont even know when to expect it!
HELP!!!

relax i have been in ur sitatuion about a month ago. being paranoid can cause yuor body to act like you are pregnant and that wouldnt help the situation. i am gonna tell you what i did


i used a condom but it broke but my bf took it out bf he cumed but instead he was fuckin around and cumed on me down there and i didnt think i was going to get pregnant because it wasnt in me but he thought i was and went crazy. all he could think about is i am pregnant and he needs to drop out of school etc. i missed my period and that is when i got scared i went to planned parenthood (i SUGGEST you go there ASAP) and took a pregnance test and foudn out i wasnt and they gave me birth control and condoms.(everything for free and they dont tell anyone about it)i got my period 2 days after i went there and the reason that i was late was because i was stressed out about the whole situation and was going crazy..

go get a pregnace test because a baby starts formin in 4-5 days there is a greater chance you are pregnant because you didnt use a condom but it is cool we all learn from our mistakes i just hope you dont do it again until you are ready for a kid..


if you need anything else feel free to drop it in my inbox and i will get back atcha as soon as i can..=)

take care

♥ Steph

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If i'm 16 and i lose weight will my boobs go saggy? i already have stretchmarks on them which i hate, will these get worse if i lose weight? and do many other women have this problem?

p.s i'm not like really,really overweight!!!!
Vick

yes it is possible but there are ways to avoid it.

you gotta eat 5-6 times a day at least then you can have a lot of protein and when that happens you wont be loosing as much fat off your breast.

if you dont eat much your body will go to stavation mode and your body will start eating away from your bones and of course your breast. hope this helps and good luck.
♥ Steph

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I heard that after 3 years of going through your period, you stop growing. Is that true? I also want to know if there are any possibilities of still getting taller, because I'm a bit shorter than average height, but still want to become taller. What can I do to become more taller?

nobody can tell you when you will stop growing they can only give you a ball park number but nothin else. everythign else isnt true. hope this helps.
♥ Steph

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what is the legal consent age for sex? some people say tis 16 and some say its 18. which one is it?

it usualy depends on where you live but it isnt like your parents can do anything about it because it was your decision and not thiers. hope this helps.
♥ Steph

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okay. this morning. i woke up and went to the bathroom because i had to pee. lol, and when i wiped there was blood on the toliet paper. it was on the toliet paper not in the toliet, and it wasnt alot. and im sure it was blood. idk if ive started my period yet. please help.

either you starting today or tomorrow it is perfectly normal.

i get it all the time when my time of the month comes =)

♥ Steph

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i dont want to tell my doctor im sexualy active but i want birth control. i think im going to tell him my period has been going on for 15 days for the last times i had it and that i normally only get it for 5 days. or if i DO tell him i am sexualy active will he tell my mom or is it between me and him?

ope unless your mom is in the same room as you. but if i were you i would suggest goin to planned parenthood by yourself and gettin everything you need. they will give you everything you need for free and wont tell your parents no matter what. hope this helps.
♥ Steph

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Is there any way i can make my hair lighter without highlighting or coloring?

the sun! when you out to the sun it is like gettin a tan for your hair. some people without having to color there have highlights or it looks like it from the sun.. hope this helps.
♥ Steph

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do girls like it when you look them in the eye when you talk to them

hell yea. i think when a guy does that means he truely does love me and cares about and is tellin me something that he emans wit all his heart. but

if you always do it it is possible for it to bother people.

♥ Steph

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ok to start off i am about to run away.
well heres my story. i had this boyfriend who i loved soooooooo much. we went out for 3 months. but he started rushing things a little much so broke up with him. 5 times. and the final time before we broke up i started liking someone else. now this guy is liked by my two faced good friend!! woo! anyways and me n him really liked each other..so that night we went to the movies and what do you know my ex-boyfriend went too. but that night after me n the new guy talked to my friend and she was like w.e is good for you guys..he asked me out to my face. it was like prince charming. but my ex bf was crushed. i dont blame him. he still loves me soo much. and so me n the other boy went out for a while almost a month. he broke up with me today..hes like well i loved you and i still do and he just doenst make sense. and the two faced girl is making me feel like crap after she was like no no go out!! and she was all nice to me. now she has people thinking im some slut. which is so not me! he was on myspace and he made a buliten sayin oh i lost the perfect girl. wow huh? well its my summer vacation and my ex bf asked me out and like i still love him but i still havent gotten over the other and i don want more problems. any advice??? thank you soo much

it is ummer take a vaction off boys. go out enjoy urself you still got a lot mroe time on your hadns dont worry. tell both guys that you want a break.(this will also prove that ur so called friend is lieing about you being a slut) clear you mind of off any guy. go out wit some friends to party and have fun. hey mayb you will meet another guy.hope this helps.
♥ Steph

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why do so many people hate emos?

because some people thing that you shouldnt waste you life being sad all the time and you shouldnt think about killing yourself but be happy and live your life to the fullest.
♥ Steph

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15/f...well here goes..

there's this guy i like who supposedly likes me. we've been talking for over a month,(i've known him for a few years though) but he has yet to ask me out. i asked him about it, and we argued and to sum it up he pretty much said forget we ever started talking, which wasn't what i wanted to happen. so we started talking again that day, once we both calmed down, and we somehow decided that we would be better off just friends with benefits for now. i'm not sure if that's what i want, but i think that maybe if we do that a relationship could develop. i think i may love him, which doesn't seem to make any sense, but i wouldn't say it if i didn't mean it.
then there's this other boy, who i've fooled around with before, and i've known him forever. i know i love him, but i don't know if it's the same kind of love, he's kinda like a brother? i dont know, it's hard to explain. but i think he's wants something with me (relationship-wise).. i just don't know what to do, because i care for them both. i would just like someones honest opinion on this, like, what would you do if you were me?

I would never be someone's friend with benifets. it is basically being a fuck buddy.. (no offense) but think about it you guys are friends but you wont be anything more but he can come to you and treat you like his girlfriend whenever he wants to and then go back being friends with you. it isnt a good idea.

as for the other guy maybe not a good idea if you think he wants you for something else..

you need to find someone who loves you for you no matter what you wear, how you act, someone who cares about you no matter what.

♥ Steph

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When having sex, is it more effective when wearing a condom to pull out as well..so you have the protection of the condom..and the guy isn't even comming inside of you..Or does it not make much of a difference?

it really wouldnt make that much of a differenct because the condom should cold the cum which shouldnt go in there for you wont have a high rise of becoming pregnant.=)
♥ Steph

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Ok well I just started using tampons and I wanna know if you can wear a tampon in the shower? B/c i gotta take a shower but I like just put a tampon in an hour ago and I don't wanna waste it.

Thanks!

you can take a shower with a tampon in you. hope this helps.
♥ Steph

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ive heard that if you can wear a tampon comfortably it means that your body is ready for sex is that true?

nope that isnt true. the way someone came up with this i can understand bc why someone would say that because when you use a tampon you can pop your cherry and it will make a penis go in easier..but it isnt true that because you use a tampon you are ready for sex.
♥ Steph

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Okay so were reviewing exponents and I'm not very good at them so how without a calculator do you solve the following

2^3.5

2^-3

2^-15

< p>2^30

2^-1.5

None of this is doing my homework for me i just dont understand how to do these w/o a calculator. Thanks so much!

I will rate for any help!

i think i can help you with this. when you have exponents all you do is multiply each problem by the base (the first number) as many times as the exponent says..
for instance 2^3.5

write it out like 2x2x1(half od two is one)

so the answer would be 4.

sorry if this didnt help. it would help if you write out the numbers.

♥ steph

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ok so i have been on and off with my boyfriend for about 2 months. He has dumped me 4 times and ive dumped him once and it's usually over a stupid fight and a day later he relizes what he's done and ask me to take him back, and i do. So it's summer and we dicided to keep in touch and stay togetasr. He recently got a myspace and is leaving all these girls picutres comments say damnn or cute pie, and gorgeous and stuff like that. I'll admit it i am jelous but should I be mad also. I dont want to confront him that would be way to awkward , i just dont no if i should be mad. Thankyou!

talk to him about it dont jump to conclusion maybe these girls are his friends. if it is bothering you so much tell him how you feel. and while your at ask him what kind of realtionship he wants a long term or short. if you guys have been going off and on and it has only been 2 months mayb it isnt going to work out. you guys really need to work things out without breaking up with each other. hope this helps.
♥ Steph

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hi im kate
i have a boyfriend called alex and we used to be really happy together. now we always seem to fight all the time
i can't take it anymore. i really don't know what to do
i have tried talking to him but can't talk with out fighting
please can you help
i would really appreciate it
thankyou
from
kate
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it is possible he is loosing interest in you. if i were you i would talk to him about and tell him mayb you guys need to take a break and then try it agian in a couple of weks.
hope this helps.
♥ Steph

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