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ok so i have been on and off with my boyfriend for about 2 months. He has dumped me 4 times and ive dumped him once and it's usually over a stupid fight and a day later he relizes what he's done and ask me to take him back, and i do. So it's summer and we dicided to keep in touch and stay togetasr. He recently got a myspace and is leaving all these girls picutres comments say damnn or cute pie, and gorgeous and stuff like that. I'll admit it i am jelous but should I be mad also. I dont want to confront him that would be way to awkward , i just dont no if i should be mad. Thankyou!
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talk to him about it dont jump to conclusion maybe these girls are his friends. if it is bothering you so much tell him how you feel. and while your at ask him what kind of realtionship he wants a long term or short. if you guys have been going off and on and it has only been 2 months mayb it isnt going to work out. you guys really need to work things out without breaking up with each other. hope this helps.
♥ Steph
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Girl..let me just say this...My boyfriend did the same thing cept he met up with one of the girls and cheated on me with her...
You have to talk to him about it. Ask him why he would be leaving comments like that, if he argues with you tell him "Look I am not trying to get into a big fight, Its just that reading those comments really made me feel bad. I mean would you like me to be leaving guys comments like that?"
Overall I suggest neither of you have a myspace, it just causes problems. I forgave my boyfriend and we both got rid of or myspaces. We have now been together for a year and 8 months and are happy.
If he wont get rid of his myspace and you cant take him leaving those comments, leave him (**FOR GOOD**) before he brakes your heart.
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umm YEAH.
you should be mad because it seems like your guy is a PLAYA.
This is just me, but i think you should drop him. Because he has broken up and then gone back out with you so many times he probobly thinks, "oh no big deal if we break up she'll probobly just come back." And it definitly seems like he has the upper hand in this relationship.
Obviously, your upset about him flirtin with ohter girls online, or you wouldn't have said anything about it.
So my advice - drop him, go out with someone else.
its a win-win situation.
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oh god, another myspace problem. lol i have seen people getting mad because they arent on someones top eight or they are sending people comments that they are hot. myspace is a place where girls can be sluts and boys can be emo. so yeah i have a myspace lol but dont let the fact that your boyfriend comments other girls because chances are, they live in like europe soo there is no way he can get to them. if it makes you feel better, comment some cute boys! and it give hima reason to ask about it and then you wont feel akward when you are like well why are you commenting all those girls! hopefully i helped!
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Yes, you have a right to be angry. You have a right to feel anyway you want. Though, to be honest, he's really not worth being jealous over. If you break up over every little fight, it's not a stable relationship. And if he was serious about you at all, he wouldn't be leaving those comments to other girls. I think you should break it off with him for GOOD. There's a word for this kind of guy, but to keep this G-rated, we'll just call him a "jerk". There are better guys out there, go find one! =)
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I would be mad. But then again, you guys don't really have a stable relationship. Maybe he doesn't take you seriously because you guys break up all the time. If you guys work on your relationship and stop fighting over everything, then I'm sure he'll stop doing that to other girls.
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you have every right to be pissed at him. but getting in another worthless fight will just result in you guys breaking up and getting back together. i think its time you find someone better who gives you all of the attention and isnt always so quick to break up. there is other fish in the sea.
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Think about it this way. Even though your boyfriend is leaving these other girls comments, that doesn't mean that he's trying to piss you off. Talk to him about it and tell him that it makes you uncomfortable. Also, At the end of the day he choses to be with you, and not them. Sometimes we look at the bad side of what guys are doing and don't give them enough credit for the good things that they do.
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If it makes you feel bad, then yes you should confront him. Some girlfriends might not care, but if you do...say something.
Dont get mad and start screaming...just be like "Hey when you post those comments, I feel bad..can you not comment them anymore? Or when you do comment them, dont say anything about how hott they are"
If he says okay, then great.
If he gets mad and says no, well...that means he doesn't respect you! Your his girlfriend, the only comments about hottness should be directed towards you. So if he says he still wants to comment those girls, I'd re-think your relationship with him.
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Not to break your heart or get you mad, but I really don't consider him a true boyfriend. You two fight a lot, and he's talking about other girls on his myspace. You have all reason to be mad. I would definitely be mad, and I think you should move on. He doesn't respect you at all. Find some guy that deserves you. Hope I helped!
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