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Fighting In A relationship
hi im kate
i have a boyfriend called alex and we used to be really happy together. now we always seem to fight all the time
i can't take it anymore. i really don't know what to do
i have tried talking to him but can't talk with out fighting
please can you help
i would really appreciate it
thankyou
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kate
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it is possible he is loosing interest in you. if i were you i would talk to him about and tell him mayb you guys need to take a break and then try it agian in a couple of weks.
hope this helps.
♥ Steph
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I had this same exact thing happen to me and my boyfriend.
We ended up having to take a break, and be friends for a few weeks, and then we got back together, and things turned out to be fine.
you can also just wait it out, i also did that too, eventually, things turned around.
plusss, you can try to spend more time together, (if you haven't enough already).
sorry if i wasn't much help, but i hope all turns out well for the both of you. :]
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Sounds so familiar .. if two can't talk with out fighting chanced are you two aren't meant to be together.I know it sounds gay but it's true.Talk to him once more and tell him if you two don't stop you will break up with him .. maybe he will stop , if not then just break up because you might be wasting time like I was. ♥
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I'm not sure how long you've been with Alex, but fighting is normal in relationships. A lot of times, you'll go through a tough phase where the fighting is constant and you'll be fighting about everything and at times you won't even remember how the arguement got started.
What can help sometimes is taking time apart. When you spend a lot of time with someone, you start to get on each other's nerves.
You should also try changing the way you fight. When something bothers you, start out like this, "I felt ______ when you________" That way he'll know what exactly bothered you and how it made you feel. It's easier and he won't feel threatened or angry when you yell. If you find that Alex is not taking your feelings seriously when you say something along those lines calmly, then you should go home or hang up the phone with him. That way, he'll know that the only way he's getting your attention is if he's calm too, not angry and yelling.
If you feel like the fights are about something extreme and not just little things, then you have to decide whether that extreme thing is going to get in the way of the both of you being together. If it is, then maybe it's time to call it quits.
-TheTeenGirl
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Just break up with him,
it seems that the magic is lost,
and communication is the key,
and if you cant communicate there is no relationship.
Or write him a letter, explaining things,
and how since you guys are always fighting its not going to wokrk out.
<3
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It's possible you need a break from this relationship to sort things out and clear your head, which could help stop the fighting. Especially if he is not listening to you when you try and talk to him about it, it could be a serious reality check for him if you tell him you wanna take a break.
So either, break it off for now or try talking to him again, without fighting.
The one thing you need to remember is that not everyone who decides to "take a break" does not always get back together, despite everything. Just a risk to keep in mind.
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