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what are some things to do by yourself on summer
hi i am 13 years old and it seems like i never go anywhere with my friends i guess its because they are to young there like 12 but i have a 15 year old sister and she goes like every where with her friends i was wondering if i am just going to stay like this with my friends never going anywhere without there parents

well once they get older im sure their parents will lets them go more places with their friends alone. but maybe to start off you could see if they would let you and your friends go to the movies or the mall while they are still there just not with you. Or even if you would ride your bike somewhere up the street or for a ride with your friends. But i think it also has to do with how much the parents trust the kids.
hope i helped!

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is this wrong: that playing the guitar is hazartize to your fingers cause of arthrituos? Im not sure. Sorry for the dumb question
ill rate 5

well i play the guitar and mine still look fine lol but i dont think playing will cause authrituos. my dad has also been playing for like 30 yrs or more and i mean he doesnt have it. it just basically makes your fingers stronger and somewhat bigger. but i think thats a myth about the arthritous.
hope i helped!

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What does btw mean?

by the way

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Okay, what are some turn ons for girls?
WHat does a girl look for in a guy?
what do they like in a conversation??

thanks lots!
I rate high!

well i go for the eyes, hair and personality.
some turn ons? shyness, eye contact, guitarist or a sports guy. Umm.. a nice voice and someone whos easy and great to talk to.
and the conversations really depend on each girl. i like to talk about music and sports. or even like traveling and different places ive visited or filing or something lol.
h.i.h.

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If you're super skinny but A sized bra... would guys still go for that? I know it's personality that counts...but do they like it (you can't always have both, be skinny and have a huge ass/boobs)

hey small boobs are in lol and plus not every guy likes those huge ones.. plus some of them are fake too. so not to worry.

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what are the strings for the guitar tuned to on a piano? like the first is an a (i know it's not but what is it?) and what are the rest? and also i lost my last pick so what can i use thats around the house as a temporary pick??? thanks!

the guitar is usually tunes E A D G B E thinkest to thinest. but there are different ways to toon it.
you could just use your figers or you could try a coin i guess, but im not sure if that would be to rough on the guitar. you could try that round part of a key? im sure that would work.
h.i.h.

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i babysit this little boy and i am not so good with cooking. any ideas for cooking for a little boy. he likes chocolate and milk and he also likes cheese, but i don't know what to make for him that he likes or will like. any ideas? i rate really high!

mac and cheese is pretty easy. or maybe some rice o roni. even if you just make him a sandwitch.

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My 15th birthday is coming up and i have a theme every year but this year i dont know what to do for one because everythings usually to girly or to lil girlish please give me ideas! thanx!

well you could take a few friends to the movies or like a theme park. even skating or something or an arcade. if its warm a pool party would be kool.

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wut color is yur period supposed to be???

umm red? or a dark red i guess lol.

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Ok im 14 and i never got my period. i just want someone 2 tell me what happens b4 you do

Much luv thanx

well you get cramps in your lower stomach and your discharge gets heavyer. and sometimes you might even smell something different. it depends on the girl too.

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omg I axcendently stepped on my ferret and now its just like laying there and its still breathing but real heavy i dont know what to do becuz i cant like take him to a vet or nething cuz they arn't open now..i dont know if its like gonna die or what! help what should i do?
I LL RATE HHIGH!
stephanie

just be very gentle with it for not and wait til tomorrow when the vet or animal hospital actually are open. then if its still doing good then take it to get checkd.

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Ok, 13/m, Im out of town, my girlfriends birthday was four days ago and I dont get home for 3 more days... we havent been going out for long, but i still want to get her sumthin nice that says i love her and that im sorry i missed her birthday... any ideas?? thanks

well where ever you are now you could get her a small suvenier (sp?) and maybe a card that you either bought or made your self. i think that would be cute. im sure shed like it :)

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How do you give good advice? Should you include personal experiences or would that make things confusing. What are some good tips when you want to give somebody advice, like things you should make sure you do? I like to give advice and help people, but I'm not always sure how. I rate 5's for any answers - please help me out on this. Everyone should help so that anyone who reads can get better too. Thanks!

if youve been in the situation before that definatly helps. and even if your famly or friends have been through something that they talked to you about that also helps with the advice you give. and even something you could be going through at that very moment you give the advice helps. or something you predect or ar like 90% sure that it will work.
and thats most of it lol

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Aight, I just had my first taste of love, and now, I'm pissed off at people who look for just sex appeal or hotness. That's not true love, it's just how they look. How can I get un-pissed without seeing a therapist? Thanks, and by the way, I give 1s to wiseasses.

hah that sounds some what like me. i mean the reason that happens is because you're looking for true love not some fake get in get out relation ship. what you can try is ignoreing it. yes sometimes it might kick in again but it does help a little.
h.i.h.

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ya well for night i know ur supposed to wear pads but i have the dinky to go ones.. n i used my sisters but i dont want her ot know and now she like has none.. so i dont have any to wear at night and my mom is outta town with my dad (not like im goin to ask him) n i cant ask my sisters! what should i do!!!!!

i rate 5's

NO GAY ASS ANSWERS PLEASE!

oh and i have my period right now and idk what to do!!! about the pad thing

well you should be able to ask you sister seeming that she would understand since shes also a grl. (guessing thats shes older) but i mean i dont think would really act shocked if you ask her. Shes a grl too with the same thing. Just ask her.

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What is the song called that goes like this...

How the hell'd we wind up like this? Why werent we able, to see the signs that we missed, to try to turn the table?

??? ill rate 5s

oo i luv that song! lol its by Nickelback and its called Someday.

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does anybody kno any really good websites to get animal layouts for xanga? or just really good layouts? plz help i rate high!

well i have a layout site if you wanna check it out. http://www.xanga.com/layoutzdatrock/
and then i am also linked to a few good ones also if you wanna check those out.

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this morning i woke up by the voices in my head screaming at me-it scared the crap out of me!!!! this is an honest question is somthing wrong with me!?!?!

by screaming do you mean like in a dream? or just like with your eyes closed, sleeping. becuase it could probably mean a few different things. but im not sure what exactly..
good luck though!

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Im 14 male and i am running cross country..so i have to get a physical..is it bad??

not sure if its different for guys but its basically justa check up. like they measure you and take your pulse. all that fun stuff..

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