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Q: What are good kinds of sraightners? Preferably under $50.00. Thanx in advance!!

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Q: OK listen boy friends brother told me that my boy friend says that i never call him or any thing and he was mad at me for leaving his house to be with my friend this one time and his brother said people were tellin him that im a big hoe and before i went with him i sucked alot of guys a yeah ok so i went home and called him to get it all straightin out and his sister picked up and i asked for him and she sed hold on and i heard her call him and he told her that he'll call me back well he never did i just don't know what to do with that i mean he says i never call but when i do he says he'll call back and he never does! can some one please help on this?? thanks

Well that can be a hard one but if I was in that place i'd go over there and talk it out with him because if you are talking to him in person rather then on the phone then he knows that you obviously care because you took the time out not only to talk but to go over there

Q: okay im getting really sick of the pencil eyeliners cause they always smudge, what is a good brand for liquid? ty so much!

N.Y.C its really good eyeliner

Q: Hey! Ok: so I have hundreds of pictures in my a box in my room. I take a roll at every other week. My question is: How can I display them in my room (without frames) I have some along my mirror. But what is a cool way of hahging them up? Thanks so much!

Well.. im starting my whole wall with pictures.. its really cool.. trust me it looks tacky at first so that is why you must start alot at once! trust me lol

Q: Hi I am christian, and I have a friend who is jewish. I want to get her a "holiday" present, but I am not sure what to call it, or if she would think it was rude. I am also not sure when i should give it to her. I don't know when haunaka is. What do you think?

Just let her know that you dont know what to do but you'd like to get her a present and if she acts confused just let know that its just for the heck of it and haunaka i think is already over. I think it would be ok if you are good friends i would just talk to her about it and let her know where you are coming from i think it lasts 7 days though. 12/7-12/14 but put yourself in her shoes.. would you b mad if you got a simple present?

Q: i cant focus- anyone have any good ideas how to??

act interested.. concentrate

Q: I like this guy who is a musician...actually he's in three different bands. So, every weekend he has shows that he plays. Being supportive, I come to see him play, but since he's playing we hardly get to talk, and when we do he's worn out and tired. Our conversations are pretty much meaningless online , and I don't like to call guys- I wait for them to call me.
Lately he's seemed pretty distant. Is this a sign for me to back off, or is he waiting for me to make the first move?

It may be.. but sometimes people do that playing hard to get i would just call him to see whats up and then go from there but if you get continous signs then back off

Q: ok....i no its right before christmas...but is it rude to dump my boyfriend... i mean i don't like him anymore...im worried about breaking up because im worried he'll do stuff to himself...he said he would try suicide if we ever broke up....but at the same time im not happy! PLEASE HELP ME!

Well that can be touchy just make sure you remain goooooooood friends! You dont want to put someone in that possession! but if you think he was serious i would tell someone about that cuz that can be a serious cry for help. But i think it was 75% of the people that talk about it dont actually do it and the people that dont say anything about it and dont show signs do do it. So maybe this one is serious but you judge on your own! but dont keep leadin him on though cuz that can be mean

Q: okay so ive been goin out with brian for 4 months and i really really really likehim alot i think that i may even b falling in love but im not quite shua cuz i dunno wut love is like buti knoe i luv to spend time with him and i luv to look at him and i luv to talk to him but im scared cuz like i always find my self flirting with everyone! and i hate it! i mean i feel un loyal or w/e wut am i gonna do??! how can i make it stop?

You cant really stop yourself from flirting. Its just pretty much a natural thing. ANd its possible that you are experiencing love now. Just depends on how long it lasts. Just think about what you say to people

Q: i need help im a guy and my hair is like out of control its super wavy and when i try to grow it out it compacts and wont go down how can i straighten it out or fix it please?

Well you could use this glorious stuff called after party-bed hard TIGI.. its from MJ capelli's and its in a hot pink clearish bottle.. it works well.. but it takes alot of edge off and it makes it smell good and look healthy n its soft to!! So its good for alot!! Hope I helped!! :) -trix

Q: PLEASE DONT DELETE THIS QUESTION AGAIN..IM SCARED!!!! my belly button has been red for awhile now(yes my mom knows about it)and its NOT peirced and has NEVER been peirced and it like gets better but then it gets worse again and now its starting to like peel...anyone have an idea of whats happening or how i can help it get better and go away?!? plz dont delete this question!! :)

its probably dry! dont worry! it could be something in the laundry detergent to! ask your mom to change the laundry stuff!

Q: my ex boyfriend and i have fights and don't get along very well, and he can be quit of an asshole. But the problem is- were still deeply in love with eachother (sounds weird.. but its really true) We have had problems in the past but we are so in love its like crazy. I lost my virginity to him and we were so close. But we've been broken up for a while and somtimes we fight. I just don't know if i have to move on because he's not 'right' for me?.. [even tho i love him :( ]or i should still talk to him more. Its so hard and i can't get it off my mind ..help

Day-ja voo! Or however you spell it lol. But he is my boyfriend and we do fight alot and still love eachother.. ALOT.. and i cant even seem to come across the fact that its time for me to call a break on this.. but i just wont because i love him so much. And we have had problems in the past. Such as breaking promises. Both sides. And your case is the reason i wont take a break. I would talk to him more And i understand where you are coming from like not being able to get over him cuz that can be hard.. ill take the jamie thing when me and jamie broke up every sad song got me thinkin "jamie" its hard but i would talk to him more if you think something is there.. But if you feel you may just get hurt in the end then dont put yourself in that place!! good luck and if you'd like to help me with my dilema with my current bf.. and me thinkinng we need a break just not having the courage to do feel free to give the advicenator some advice :) thanks!! good luck!! hope all works well!! -trix

Q: Today I found out that my boyfriend may be moving away. There is still a chance that he will be staying but if he does move, I don't know how I am going to cope. It would be very hard to visit him as I am too drive so I would only get to see him once every month or so, probably not even that. If he does move, how do I cope? Is it worth carrying on the relationship or should I just end things? Thank you.

Well just know that he isnt dumping you for another girl and that he still likes you so stay close in touch and talk alot thru IM's letters emails texts whatever and just talk as much as you can! that happaned to me and my bf taylor awhile ago and i was like at a loss of words.. i didnt know what to do but he moved back a yr later and we went back out but i moved on after we went out the 2nd time because i relized what was there at on point had changed over the time he was gone so that may be the same with you but your probably thinking o I can never get over him!! but i did over taylor

Q: ok, i've been realli sick this past week. i havent gone to school at all and my mom said i cant go tomorrow either. but whatever.. the thing is, i love to drink water and its mainly the only thing i drink. i really havent had water forever cause its making me feel worse. what other drinks might be good for a really upset stomache?

i drink milk and apple juice!! :)

Q: how can i become a faster runner with in 1 month?!?! im kinda lazy but i really wanna run so i will put my mind to it and get up every mornigna t 2 if thats wut it takes but please help

Just practicing running.. Its good to have strong legs to. And the determination helps alot.

Q: I have this one friend, but she gets really annoying sometimes. She'll talk on and on, and i never get a chance to say anything, and im not the quiet type. She always dominates the conversation, and is always being bossy. Most of my friends think she's annoying too, but i dont want her to have no friends, but also dont want to be her friend out of pitty. what can i do?

Well I would just say you talk to much... lol and go from there she might take it as a joke most people would but if you said it enough and others said it enough she'd begin to believe it you know?

Q: My friend and i are both in theater arts, and she got the role i wanted, and i tried not to be jealous of her, but i am. i know she's really good, and deserves the part, but i get mad at her whenever she brings it up, because shes almost bragging. I just really wanted the part, and now she thinks im mad at her, and i guess i kinda am. wat can i do?

Dont be mad at her for her talent. But maybe if she didnt try out in the first place doesnt neccesarily mean that you'd still get the part. And if you arent the back up of that role then you werent going to be picked anyways. Just keep trying out for more plays and you'll eventually get to the part you want! good luck!

Q: Back in August I missed the registration date to go back to school. (I should be a junior in high school.) I was pretty much just having a bad year and didn't care about going back so I've been out of school all this year. I was wondering if I could go back now or if I would have to wait until next year to go back. I could make up the work that I've missed instead of just waiting until next year and being a whole year behind.

I would think by now that they are half way thru.. you would have to take the school year over again. Or maybe you could ask about going to school now and taking summer school and getting full credit or whatever. I would talk to the principles about that

Q:
I don't believe in anything but still feel I need a spiritual playground to frolic in... What should I do???

I would talk to a priest about that. I bet you do have some kind of belief in god your just not letting yourself to believe that or think it

Q: What's the step below going out? This guy said he likes me and wants to be the step below going out, because he doesn't think "going out" at this age is a good idea. We're more than friends though, I know that.. Any ideas on what it could be?

Well he sounds kinda clueless lol there is no "step" below going out. but if you dont like what im gettin at then ask him

bio

My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"