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Q: Ok, so whenever my best friend has another friend over she won't talk to me (I mean like online). Your probably thinking "ummm, it's rude to talk to you while a friend is there." But she talks to other people! I know this because if I IM her on the bottom it will say (their screenname) is typing. Then she just stops typing when she realizes it's from me and immedatly puts up her away message. Then someone will ask me if I know why she went away without saying anything. My question is how should I confront her? Do you think she is hiding something from me? Thank you.
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I would just be like how come you dont talk to me online? People ask me why you went away so dont say that you arent talking to others. i jsut want a explanation!
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Q: I like this guy and i thought he liked he but yester day he called me and he said'' I need advice, i like this girl and i think she likes me ... but do you think i should ask her out?'' well i thought he was talking about me, but then i found out it was this other girl. i dont know if he acutually likes her or not because she is not his type at all. Should I just let it go or should i say something?
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Maybe he was just making it sound like he liked somebody else that way you didnt really have a idea that he was talking about you
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Q: ok so i have this friend john and i like him. there was a dance on friday and since alexia (my friend and his ex girlfriend) couldn't go she asked erin (another friend) to see if i danced with john. And i did just 1 little slow dance. And then l8ter at the dance erin was talking to him while i was dancing and then for the rest of the dance he was like avoiding me. i am wondering was he just trying to protect me from alexia getting mad at me, (she would get mad even if we talked) or was he avoiding me because he didn't want to be around me?
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Maybe he heard something. Maybe one of your friends like him and made a lie up about you. I would talk to them and see if they know anything
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Q: i have these pimples around my nose, like everywhere on the sides of my nose, so it make my nose look really red and all that and the pimples WONT go away! i have tried sooo much stuff and it DOESNT work! its really pissing me off and they have been there for like ever! i cant even remember my nose being pimple free! do you know any good pimple creams or something that will help me! PLEASE!
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Go to the dollar store and get these nose strips and they work really well!! and you get like 3 for a dollar!
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Q: I have an oral presentation to give on monday (it's powerpoint) and i'm terrified... like this is one of my biggest fears ever. Whenever i go to give a speech or something my voice starts really quivering and shaking and it sounds like i'm crying. Is there any way to stop this from happening? also... any other advice on giving speeches would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!!!
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Well you just got to keep practicing. The way to get around public speaking is to practice a couple times. And write it how you want and keep practice because you wont always be looking down at your notes and wont freak. Just know what you doing and saying and keep your eyes focused on a friend or friends
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Q: ok this morning i woke up and i have this HUGE zit on my chin! and the really bad news is.. i have a date tonite.. is there anyway i can get it to go away really fast?! please i need your help and thank you in advance
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Maybe its one you can pop.. but try covering it up!
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Q: well there this guy at school and well he like likes me he ask me out and i thought i liked him and i told my sis that i did then my sister had told him i said yes then like i broke up with him then like he is trying to give me money and expensive gifts and well i havent excepted them but im confused what should i do.
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I would tell him that you dont want any of the gifts. It wouldnt be proper anyways if you didnt like him. You really dont have to do anything other then tell him that you dont like him not like that not right now. You just want to be friends. And your sorry. You had mixed feelings.
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Q: i've known my best friend,kelly, for 4 years now. and since we started high school she has changed, she doesn't tell me anything anymore. we still talk and hang out together and she gives me ride to school and i drop her off at her house after school. there is another girl ,jill, and she stays over her house all the time. and she tells jill everything. but jill says that some other girl,chris, is her best friend not kelly. so i don't know what to do. i feel so left out. kelly doesn't talk to online or on the phone she doesn't tell me personal stuff or anything. oh also kelly talks s**t about jill when she isn't there so i don't know whats up with her!
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I would comfront Jill about this and talk to everybody about it and tell them you dont know whats going on and exspeacially in high school you all need eachother. You all need to stick together. You need eachother. But kelly doesnt sound like the best friend figure to me.
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Q: Theres this one girl in my dorm...she CANT spell. A freshmen in college and she cant spell little words, she simply doesnt know how. The word good, she spells gud. She cant even spell little words and this concerns me. She isnt doing well in her classes at all because of this reason. Me and my roommate edit her papers and we try to tell her that she really needs to learn how to spell properly, but she doesnt care. She cant rely on me and my roommate to save her but on every paper. Should I tell her to go to a tutor (which she probally wont go), or let her fend for herself? I tried to help her learn, but I get mad at her everytime I try.
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For christmas I would get her a spelling thing. Not just that but could help her and let her know that you are concerned. Maybe she actually has a problem with spelling. She may have dislexia.. or something like that. But you need to figure that out before anymore conclusions come about
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Q: I used to be best friends with this girl but we fell out because I spent too much time with a new group of friends and my boyfriend. Now I just hang out with my boyfriend and the new group but my ex friend has started taking over. She's poisoning my friend's minds against, flirts with my boyfriend and is just generally taking my place. There is no way that we can ever be friends again but she's destroying what I have with my other friends too. What should I do?
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Q: i use nyc eyeliner and everytime i use it it comes off easily so i have to bring my eyeliner to school and put it on there. my friends thinks its annoying cause i need to go to the bathroom or use their mirror in their lockers to put it on. whenever my friends put the eyeliner i use on, it stays on for them but it doesnt for me. i tried many kinds of eyeliner but i still cant find one that will stay on, someone please help!
p.s i dont want to use liquid eyeliner or very expenisive eyeliners
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Q: I have a rat and my brother gave me another one and put them in the same cage and they started fighting and one of them has cuts under his chin so I was wondering if I should just let them heal or do something about it.Thanks
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Well i did that with my guinea pigs and it took like probably a month or two for them actually to get use to eachother but now when i pick beanie up.. oreo squeaks until she comes back into the cage so i usually end up picking them both up so i would just leave it and go from there. I just tap beanie and oreo on the nose and say no no thats bad. And i dont know if they can understand my words.. but they get the point that its bad
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Q: I would assume this would go under mental health, cause I am sure it is all in my head.
Everytime I get extremly upset, I get really nausous feeling. I am in the middle of a pretty bad pending breakup (only time will tell what will happen with that) but everytime something happens that would upset me, or I dwell on something that may have upset me in the past, I actualy do get sick. I dont go one day without throwing up, and recently, I feel nausous all the time, so I cant eat, therefore getting dry heave. What can I do to stop getting sick?
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I would maybe go to the dr. for that
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Q: Ok so I have this bf. Here's a sophomore and I'm a freshman. Some days he treats me good by talkin to me, holding my hand, walking me to class, and all that cute stuff that gurls like guyz to do. Then other days hes a total dick. Sometimes he wont even say hi to me and if i do get the chance to talk to him he juss walks away cuz he doesnt like to hang out with my freshman friends. I've learned how to blow it off but it still pisses me off. A couple weeks ago one of my closest friends said she saw him totally flirting with my worst enemy. I confronted him bout it and he totally denied it. I really want to beleive that hes telling me the truth but alot of people have told me that hes always all over other gurls. The people that tell me this are some of my closest friends and I know that they wuld never lie to me. All of my friends say that I should break up with him because he doesnt treat me good and I'm starting to beleive them. I still kinda have feelings for him but I'm not shure if I still wanna be with him. Plz help!!!
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Well. think about it. Are you going to be with this someone for the rest of your life? Well i dont think so because hes older and he will go to college and your younger and got your whole life ahead of you. Plus friends come first and guys arent everything. He may seem like your everything in all. But you gotta let go and knowing that your friends are there.. is the best ever!
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Q: I've been with my boyfriend for 3 months :) well.. this being our first christmas together. i need some ideas on what to get him.... i mean.. he's.. honestly.. Smokes weed.. and cigarettes..
He's 16.. and he always wears the same cologn and those Beanie hats with like skulls and stuff on them..
I don't wanna get him a beanie he already has.. but I have no other ideas.. can someone help me??
PLEASE
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Q: today i woke up with a sore throat, runny nose, watery eyes, and just A BADDDD COLD! its the begining of winter break and im tryin soo hard to get better by atleast monday....is there anything i can do/take to get better? im taking halls cough drops and dimetap so far....is there anything better?
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Q: what is a good way to get a flat stomach?
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Q: 'i'm being sexually harrassed by this guy i know, and so is every other girl in myclass except for two. His sexual harrassment is getting me in troubel with some of my teachers. It's cometothe point that i'm afarid to be alone with him because i'm afaird of what he'll do to me. He's grabbed by breast slappmy ass, rubbed on my crotch and other things. he's messedwith other girls in my class but he seems to dothst tome the most.Lately he's stop but i'm afarid he might start up and do it again. I tell him what he's doingis wrong but he doesn't care.Iused to think of himas my friend untill it all started.Now i don'tknow what to do.
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Q: Okay here's the deal I'm a freshman in high school. I know, I know ugh freshman. Anyway this's the deal I like a guy, and he's kind of a senior. He's taller than me and we... sort of get along. We argue about almost everything, I love it. Only thing, he has a girlfriend and there's a three year age difference. Now I know some of you are going to tell me to move on and try to find someone my age, but I really like him. =(
And I don't want to tell him I like him at least not yet, I love him and his friends, and I like his girlfriend too. So if I say something then they're all going to act ackwardly around me.
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He has a gf?.. well i would just back up then. I would wait for that to pass by and wait it out and give it awhile
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Q: Hi
I'm a 13 grl. I have a boyfriend and we've been going out for 5 months.. I really love him and I always want to be with him and he feels the same. We say we r going to get married someday.. well! I have a best friend and we've always kinda've liked each other and our friendship is growing.. my bf is going to high school next year and im going to be stuck behind for a year... he skipped a grade. but he's still my age. well! I don't know wut to do bc i want to kinda give our relationship a break when he goes to high school and get back together when i get there... but he wants to stay together.. and i dont want to break his heart or anything. please help!!!
confused girl
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Well... if you feel like you have something speacial with your boyfriend then i'd keep it going but if think you may have more .. waiting between you and your best friend then i would take a chance with that
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bio
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My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.
I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.
I've been there done that im sure
ex. (with the number of expierences)
-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)
Like I said "been there done that"
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Gender: Female Age: 17 Member Since: June 3, 2004 Answers: 3661 Last Update: December 20, 2009 Visitors: 222289
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