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i've known my best friend,kelly, for 4 years now. and since we started high school she has changed, she doesn't tell me anything anymore. we still talk and hang out together and she gives me ride to school and i drop her off at her house after school. there is another girl ,jill, and she stays over her house all the time. and she tells jill everything. but jill says that some other girl,chris, is her best friend not kelly. so i don't know what to do. i feel so left out. kelly doesn't talk to online or on the phone she doesn't tell me personal stuff or anything. oh also kelly talks s**t about jill when she isn't there so i don't know whats up with her!
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I would comfront Jill about this and talk to everybody about it and tell them you dont know whats going on and exspeacially in high school you all need eachother. You all need to stick together. You need eachother. But kelly doesnt sound like the best friend figure to me.
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Trying talking to her about what's going on. She might not realize she's hurting you. If nothing changes, then get better friends, because clearly, she's not being one. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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Friends can be sooo confusing. you have to just ask her about it. You have to! cuz if you don't and you ask someone else about it then she'll tell Kelly you don't think your BFFE anymore and word gets around. So yuo have to confront people to their face or things get really confusing. Trust me, my friends are like that a lot. If she won't give you a straight answer, maybe it's time you find some new friends.
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You should talk to kelly how your feeling and ask her how come she never talks to you like she did before. So try talking to her about it!...xoxo!
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Usuall I would say friends aren't everything but this is an interesting case. She talks behind Jill's back but hands out with her all the time. I had something like this happen to me in 5th grade. Your freind ,Kelly, either has something wrong with her our just needs a good friend. I think you can be that good friend!
Happy Holidays!
Abby
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well just tell kelly that you are feeling left our and you should tell jill what kelly saysabout her she need to know the truth to.
hope i helped
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