Question Posted Saturday December 18 2004, 11:11 am
well there this guy at school and well he like likes me he ask me out and i thought i liked him and i told my sis that i did then my sister had told him i said yes then like i broke up with him then like he is trying to give me money and expensive gifts and well i havent excepted them but im confused what should i do.
DrummeR4LifE answered Sunday December 19 2004, 3:24 pm: Well if you like him back then go for it. But if you dont like him the wasy he likes you, try to tell him that you dont fell the same way.
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Shortie8959 answered Saturday December 18 2004, 11:01 pm: It sounds like he's bribing you. I would tell him to stop. Don't give in, if you don't want to be with him, don't. Good luck!
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gcfreakadoodle answered Saturday December 18 2004, 10:50 pm: If hes reached the stage where hes buying you expensives things and giving you money its just a brive. I think hes probably lonely but briving is not a way to have someone go out with you. Also you did the right thing by not accepting those things because once you do that he thinks he will own you. Also he may think your so easy to persuade which could lead into harder decisions [ gcfreakadoodle's advice column | Ask gcfreakadoodle A Question ]
HuGzNKisSeZ69 answered Saturday December 18 2004, 8:00 pm: Awww he must really liek you. he wants to win yuor heart back by bribign though and that's not always good. If you don't truely liek him though and just give in because he's spending his money of gifts for you it's not fair to him or you. tyhen your pretending you liek him he should get the picture if he's a smart guy that he should stop buying you presents because you don't like/love him the way he does to you. [ HuGzNKisSeZ69's advice column | Ask HuGzNKisSeZ69 A Question ]
AdviceAbby answered Saturday December 18 2004, 2:36 pm: Hi. Look right into his eyes and say "I am really sorry but this isn't going to work." Then turn around and start walking away.
arielle answered Saturday December 18 2004, 2:30 pm: figure out if you really like him and then if you do tell him he doesn't need to buy you fancy gifts to get you to like him. but if you dont tell him that you dont' like him. [ arielle's advice column | Ask arielle A Question ]
ixjacquixi answered Saturday December 18 2004, 2:29 pm: I can totally relate to this kind of problem. If your confused maybe you should confront him. Tell him that you thought you liked him but you never quite gave into an answer yet and that your sister didn't know the real answer. If you start to think that maybe you do like him, then think about it, if this guy is giving you money and gifts after you broke up with them then maybe he wants you back or more importantly he wants to be with you. Everyone deserves a chance! xoxoJacqui [ ixjacquixi's advice column | Ask ixjacquixi A Question ]
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