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Ugh freshman....


Question Posted Friday December 17 2004, 6:30 pm

Okay here's the deal I'm a freshman in high school. I know, I know ugh freshman. Anyway this's the deal I like a guy, and he's kind of a senior. He's taller than me and we... sort of get along. We argue about almost everything, I love it. Only thing, he has a girlfriend and there's a three year age difference. Now I know some of you are going to tell me to move on and try to find someone my age, but I really like him. =(

And I don't want to tell him I like him at least not yet, I love him and his friends, and I like his girlfriend too. So if I say something then they're all going to act ackwardly around me.


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tweety answered Saturday December 18 2004, 2:33 pm:
say what you feel. and forget what they gotta think. besides if he dumps you because you said that or wont be ur friend anymore. then yea u should move on!(no offense) good luck!

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Saturday December 18 2004, 2:00 am:
He has a gf?.. well i would just back up then. I would wait for that to pass by and wait it out and give it awhile

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AliGass2004 answered Saturday December 18 2004, 1:25 am:
I was the same way. Only I was a sophomore and he was a senior, but it was a 3 year age difference. I never had a problem with it.

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brokenxtears answered Saturday December 18 2004, 12:31 am:
Well just try IMing them if they have aim, if you all get along so well they will care about your feelings. And a freshman with a senoir is not the best idea. lol But you are right the best thing is to move on so just try to!! lol *hope i helped*

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iggyl27 answered Friday December 17 2004, 10:38 pm:
ummm....im in the same sitiation as you are axpect with a freshman but think about hes gonna leave next year to college so dont ruin the freindship that you have with him and with all the seniors

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Berri answered Friday December 17 2004, 8:47 pm:
The part about him being a senior isn't really the big deal in this situation, even though it probably wouldn't work out because he'll be going to college next year, and he'll most likely want to hook up with college girls. The big deal is that he has a girlfriend. You just have to respect that and wait and see if they break up. Then make your move if you really think he'd be interested.

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NikNik answered Friday December 17 2004, 8:47 pm:
if he has a girlfriend then you should leave him alone and just be friends with him and find someone else who doesnt have a girlfriend. Alot of people really like someone but sometimes we cant have that special someone we like but we just gotta get over it and move on.-Nikki

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CMONEY08 answered Friday December 17 2004, 8:17 pm:
You can always be just friends with this guy but still have feelings for him. Just dont let those feelings get out of hand. I really dont think its a good idea that you tell the guy how you feel. Especialy if he has a gf. You dont want to get in the middle of all that. Especially if your only a freshman. His gf could start to hate you and turn the whole school against you and thats never good. If you juss be friends with this guy soon enuff your feelings for him should die down and you will find a better guy for you. Hopefully one that isnt 3 years older than you! Good luck!

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gUeSsHoO278 answered Friday December 17 2004, 8:09 pm:
If you know he has a girlfriend, then dont interfere , if he likes you, he'll leave her n come to you....but dont come in between them, that'll just make you look bad in front of everyone and make everyone hate you...including his current girl.

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Shortie8959 answered Friday December 17 2004, 7:49 pm:
Just stay good friends with him, and if you're lucky, when/if he breaks up w/ his gf, he'll go to you! Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~

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frenchfries21 answered Friday December 17 2004, 7:41 pm:
dont tell him you like him, dont tell anyone. if/when him and his girlfriend break up then let him find out that you like him. if he likes you, then wait till he asks you out because he just broke up with another girl so give him a little time and space. for now just kepp it cool with him and everyone else.
hope this helpd ya
~stef~

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