Question Posted Saturday December 18 2004, 4:24 pm
Ok, so whenever my best friend has another friend over she won't talk to me (I mean like online). Your probably thinking "ummm, it's rude to talk to you while a friend is there." But she talks to other people! I know this because if I IM her on the bottom it will say (their screenname) is typing. Then she just stops typing when she realizes it's from me and immedatly puts up her away message. Then someone will ask me if I know why she went away without saying anything. My question is how should I confront her? Do you think she is hiding something from me? Thank you.
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Sunday December 19 2004, 6:52 pm: I would just be like how come you dont talk to me online? People ask me why you went away so dont say that you arent talking to others. i jsut want a explanation! [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
smarti8 answered Sunday December 19 2004, 6:23 pm: i think you should come to your face to face and tell her your problem and ask her if she's hiding anything from you.
dancindanger answered Sunday December 19 2004, 1:36 am: If she is really your best friend, she won't be hiding anything. Ask her if anything is wrong, and depending on her answer, try and work things out, or as someone else said "dump her because shes not being a good friend". Hope I helped. [ dancindanger's advice column | Ask dancindanger A Question ]
Shortie8959 answered Saturday December 18 2004, 11:19 pm: Yes, she might be hiding something. Try talking to her about it, and if all else fails, dump her, because she's not being a good friend. (friends don't hide things from each other) Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~ [ Shortie8959's advice column | Ask Shortie8959 A Question ]
lalathepinkbunny answered Saturday December 18 2004, 10:53 pm: I definately think she is hiding something from. The problem is that you wouldn't be able to find out unless she wanted you to know. Just pull her aside sometime and try to find out. Just tell her how you feel and see if she'll open up to you. If she won't then she probably doesn't want to be your friend and you should jsut hang with your other friends and get new ones. [ lalathepinkbunny's advice column | Ask lalathepinkbunny A Question ]
brokensmile78 answered Saturday December 18 2004, 8:20 pm: maybe some one is over that u dont liek and she dont wanna hurt you..if i was you i would just go up to her and say hey we r best friends n i dont want to b your best friend if u treat me like that when you have other friends over [ brokensmile78's advice column | Ask brokensmile78 A Question ]
HuGzNKisSeZ69 answered Saturday December 18 2004, 7:58 pm: my boyfriend used to do the same thing only it was all the time. Well he DUMPED ME a day after I confronted . So yea she could be hiding something. If she's your best friend just ask her you guys should be really open I don't keep any secrets from my best friend. [ HuGzNKisSeZ69's advice column | Ask HuGzNKisSeZ69 A Question ]
xForeverxForgottenx answered Saturday December 18 2004, 6:59 pm: im not really sure if shes hiding something from you. if you wanted to, you could make a new sn and im her on that and see if she stops talking to you. or you could just ask her about it. she is your best friend right? though it does seem a little odd. i think you should ask her. hope i helped. [ xForeverxForgottenx's advice column | Ask xForeverxForgottenx A Question ]
x0x_surfergirl_x0x answered Saturday December 18 2004, 6:00 pm: Hey hunny,
I used to have a friend like that. Friends like that are usually...well idk...But my friend that was like that would usually do the same thing. Then suddenly she stopped talking to me all of a sudden and would start ignoring me...were not friends anymore. That is really mean what your best friend is doing. She could just not want to be your friend anymore :(...Does she talk to you in person? If she does everything might be fine because maybe when she has a friend over she knows she'll get warped up into talking to you because you guys are best friends and she won't spend that much time with the friend she has over. You never really know. You should confront her ASAP though. You just might save your friendship with her... :)
G/L and I hoped I helped :)
Pura Morena
xo0x adriana [ x0x_surfergirl_x0x's advice column | Ask x0x_surfergirl_x0x A Question ]
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