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i have a best friend. we've been best friends for almost seven years now. we've been very close, although we have had our ups and downs.
in summary, i am very jealous of her. she has caused me much stress and tears this past year because she was in all my classes, and she would get straight As on everything. i tried so hard in school and i could never beat her, and i cried so so much. not only did i cry because she was smarter than me, but she has a boyfriend and she is much more talented than i am.
i have never had a real boyfriend and i haven't even gotten my first kiss yet. we're both 15f. she got her first kiss last summer and i got upset for a while but then i got over it. and she got her boyfriend and i was okay with it, not that it matters what i think. then she told me she went to first base a few months ago, and after that she never really told me anything. but recently, she told me she had gone all the way to third base with him, and this happened before april. many, many months ago. i was not only extremely jealous, but i was upset that she couldn't trust me enough to tell me that she got scared that she got an STD.
she told me this a few days ago, but i cannot stop thinking about it. i can't outdo her. and it's making me very depressed. i don't want to go and get a boyfriend to try and see how much farther we can go just to be able to outdo her.
i don't know what to do. i feel like because of this, we're only going to grow more and more apart. i see her other friends wall posting her on facebook talking about double dates and i feel like because she has a boyfriend, i can't relate to her anymore. like if i had a boyfriend and went to third base with him, we would talk about it and share the experience T O G E T H E R. but i haven't even gotten my first kiss yet.
i want to stay her friend, but it's so stressful for me. everytime i see her, i can only count my flaws and see her perfections. i know that nobody is perfect, but this has never happened before this past year. she was in all my classes and i could never do better than her. ever.
i can't talk to her about this because it wouldn't do any good. it's not her fault that i'm jealous of her. but as i said before, i feel like from now on it'll only be downhill. we're only going to grow farther apart as she goes further with her boyfriend and i'm left in the dark. i know she doesn't have to tell me every last detail about she and her boyfriend but just something as significant as third base is something that i would consider important.
can someone please give me some advice? (link)
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I have a friend who is a few years younger than me that is jealous of me. We've talked a lot so I'm a bit experienced and I would love to help you. My friend and I did a little game. She told me 2 things that she liked about herself. Then she said 2 things that she didn't like about herself. Addtionally she said 2 things that she liked about me. I did the same. What you need to do is get a peice of paper and write as many as you can think of things that you like about yourself. Do you have nice hair or straight teeth. You haveta have something that you like about yourself. Write as many as you can and don't stop! Write till your drop. Then write a list of stuff that YOU DO HAVE that your friend doesn't. There are things that you have and she doesn't, trust me. It would be nice if you could play this game with your friend because those 2 things that my friend said that she liked about me made me feel good. If you can play this game, you will find your inner self and get closer to your friend. Just because you think your friend is perfect, there are flaws that she deals with too. Beaing jealous will just hurt yourself. See how much of this jealously is causing you? Your so round up in finding flaws in yourself when you don't find the goodness of yourself and aspects that you have and no one else has...that what makes each person unique and different. Yes shes a straight A student and has a boyfriend and seems like she has a perfect life...is that the only thing that makes you happy? A's and boyfriend...what about good friends? Is she a good friend to you? Tons of girls die for a good quality friend. Hope I helped.
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Ok so I'm trying to get an account for itunes and it askes how I'm going to pay, and it lists different credit cards and pay pal. But I'm just going to get itunes cards and buy the songs that way. So what do I do? I don't have a credit card, because I'm only 15, and my parents don't either. (link)
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Limewire? For some people that works but when I download it makes my computer slow and adds a bunch of unwanted viruses to my computer because you are downloadeding songs from this database and from people that posted songs for those who want it free. Anyways, I got a way. I have my own account and I didn't need to fill in credit cards and I don't have a credit card and I signed up for one when I was 13.
1. Load iTunes
2. Click Sign In and then Create New Account
3. Click Redeem Code
It should work from there.
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So I got fired from a job I loved.
I've never been more humiliated in my life.
And I am beyond traumatized.
How am I supposed to handle this?! (link)
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Therapy possibly? Or move on with your life! I understand...life is a bumpy road to success and EVERYONE has a meltdown once in a while. Don't dwell in the past...it will get you no where! Stand right back up and continue. Because if you don't, you will miss the new opportunties that will come on your road and will change your life. Don't let this being fired get you glum. Start something new...yes it might be hard but in the end, you will be happy that you got back on your feet and lived.
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i am 14 this year and i am still 1.48cm,what do i need to do,to grow taller? (link)
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Well 1.48m is 4ft from my conversions. If your parents are short, its most likely you will be short. Kids are normally between heights of their mother and father. If your a dwarf, that's about average height. But I think your not. You come froma short family, that's all. There is nothing to do and its genetics, can't fight it. Sorry! Just make it work and ignore the height. Its hard (trust me, I'm short too) but you don't want it to take over your life.
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right, i'm with this guy
& he's like a bit smaller than me.
everyone takes the mickey outa him, they say hes fat and horrible. but I definatlely don't see that.
Sure, he isn't the buffest guy on this planet, bu the has the sweetest heart and I wouldn't have anyone else.
His best friend lies to him, saying i call him fat and ugly. But he is really good-looking !!
i would never say that.
So please, help.
What should I say to stop all of this ??
X (link)
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Well...you can't change a guy. They will stay angry and pissed and nothing can change that...sorry! I'm really excited that you see this guy differently than other people. You see who he really is. Looks aren't everything. I understand 100%. People can be cruel! I think just continue dating him because you love him and who he really is. If those people that insult him and tell him he's fat and ugly...well they are missing out on a great guy and people do that. They discriminate someone due to their color, shape, etc. That won't get them far and thats their loss, not yours. You have the most wonderful guy in your heart and that's hard to get. Trust me. Don't lose him and ignore what those nasty people are saying. Your happy with this guy so don't let those people turn you down because then you won't be happy. That will be a loss. You see who this guy who he really is and that's what all matters. IGNORE THEM!
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I'm really passionate about singing, but I know I have a long way to go.
Here is my YouTube account:
http://www.youtube.com/user/lisaxbexloco
If anyone could suggest some songs to sing, so that I can be more open to other music styles...I would appreciate that greatly! (link)
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I'll take a look! I'll post on your videos than posting here if you don't mind.
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i have been fingered five times and my friends call me a slut but it feels good,so like leave me alonee. And now this guy wants me to have sex, should i? i am only 14. And i dont want my friends to start calling me a hoe! thats MEAN! but i kinda want 2!
from,
FFG [ fingering feels good ] (link)
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Well having sex at a young age is bad. You know that. Also your more likely getting a disease or infection no matter what. Well your friends calling you a slut aren't your real friends. My personal beleif is that you shouldn't have a sex until your older at least. There are consequences you will have to live with. Would you risk all of that just to feel good for a little while? You KIDNA want to. 1/2 does and 1/2 of don't. 1/2 is worried that your friends are going to call you a hoe...well what about those other problems? 1/2 of you want to feel good. Hm...don't do it. Wait. Don't let that guy pressure you doing it because all he wants is that...nothing else. How selfish. i just think continue getting fingered. its not bad, mother nature is calling! but keep it safe as time passes it will get better with your friends.
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I'm 18!...and i wear a 34a bra size BUT from the little girls. anything else is too big and does not fit right. I really skinny. and i wear patted bras. does any body know any website i can go to were i can buy bras that make it look like i have more than a 13 year old girl (link)
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Hey! I have the same problem of having small boobs...pretty much sucks because they make us look younger. I have the same size but I'm 16 (not much younger and done growing I beleive). Well push up bras are good I think. Victoria Secrets come in numerous sizes and fit fine. Try it out.
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is it possible for a 14 year old to support herself?
i could take trax to school and my grandpa said he would pay for my books, etc.
if i got parental consent i can work at a library, or coldstone, or lagoon or something when i turn 14..
i just fight with my mom too much and my dad cant really support me so yeah..
dont tell me to get counselors. we have 3.
but anyways, if your emmancipated do you have to pay for insurance or do ur parents have to until you are 18?
and if its possible, who do i talk to about getting emmancipated and how do i do it? (link)
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all i know is that you have to tlk to an attourney or lawyer or something, and you will go to court, and i think thats how they do it. and your parents have to pay some funds towards your living etc. thats all based on the simpsons, so im not sure if its 100% accurate. :)
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My mom told me to use a q-tip and rubbing alcohol and clean my new piercing but i've been reading piercing&tattoo's websites and their aftercare tips and they say to use dial soap and warm water. Should I listen to my mom or them? (link)
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use the sea salt solution that person below me was talking about or go to claires or piercing padoga or any piercing place and ask to buy a bottle of their piercing cleaner.
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i was just curious how bad it hurts when u get your nose pierced and do you have to go anywhere special to get it done
also how bad does it hurt to get a tattoo and where are the best places to go (link)
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the answer below took the words off ma finger tips (keyboard, computer joke..)
but anyway, to add to it, the body part where you get a tattoo would make a difference, obviousely. fleshy areas are the best for the first time, like upper arm. Bony areas will hurt a lot more, e.g. ribs, back.
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hi i've gotten tattoos before but not in really painful areas ie. stomach. i really wanna get a big piece on my ribs. i know that will hurt alot. alot of people told me take stuff to make the pain not so painful. i know not to drink before cause if a company smells liqour on you they cant tattoo u and alcohol thins the blood. i've heard that nyquil works really well with numbing the pain. i cant find any websites that subport that. and i was wondering if you knew if that was true. (link)
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well. ive had two tattoo's. and i dont really reccoment taking anything to numb the pain. im not sure if nyquil will work but i doubt it. my reccomendation? dont take anything. think of something else, and do something to distract you. maybe ask the tattoo artist about anything? im not really sure though.
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I uninstalled internet explorer on my computer and deleted any folder that is named internet explorer. so what i did specifically was uninstalled every details that it could still have left. i tried to install it again because i had the ie installer downloaded and when i did it it says cannot install because it has detected a newer version already installed. but it cant be because i already uninstalled it. so i want to know if there is something i could do to install it back or is there some kind of error in my computer. (link)
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did you right click the IE icon, then click properties. then target folder, then delete the folder?
try control panel. add or remove programs. click add or remove windows components, and check everything you want to keep, and un check IE. its either that or check IE, i cant remember, because i tried both because one didnt work.
if not, im realy not sure. if it continues not to work, use firefox. it seems pretty good.
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Okay that helps with the zits and what not, what about blackheads? i get them a lot...everywhere. especially on my nose, i wear glasses though. and im starting to get zits on my cheeks, thats never happened before...and right below my eyes are breaking out too, please help! lol, thank you for your previous knowledge:) (link)
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http://www.howtogetridofstuff.com/health/how-to-get-rid-of-blackheads
this is a pretty good summary
Basically, you want something to get rid of all the oil off your face, and this does it http://www.drugstore.com/qxp168374_333181_sespider/neutrogena/shine_control_blotting_sheets.htm you can SEE the oil coming off your face on the strips, its pretty cool.
A different method that does the EXACT SAME THING is to use those toilet pads in public restrooms. It sounds gross, but it woorrkss. Sarah Jessica Parker did this when she was young. So that just absorbs all possible oils on your face, including sweat (this is probably the reason for your new breakouts, because in the summer when it gets hot people sweat more and their pores get clogged).
So just cleanse your face whenever you get home or after you feel you have bneen sweating.
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How bad does waxing hurt? Would you say it's worth it? (link)
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It hurts alot, but come on, get over it.
But its SOOO worth it (if your willing to spend the money for it -- otherwise just get a home kit)
I'm really into waxing, and have been doing it for 3 years (bikini and occasionally for legs).
Its juts really great I think.
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so this is a random question but about how often does a normal pretty girl get looked at from guys? (the answer doesnt have to be perfect and dont tell me it depends on the type or smth :P )
i dont mean girls who look like supermodels though. (link)
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I'd say always, wherever they go.
Like when I walk down the street, guys are like leaning out of cars and yelling its wierddd hahaha. Otherwise if I see a person walking down the street they also tend to check out me or my friend I'm with if theyre pretty, and yeah my girls are pretty.
So a normal pretty girl, I'd say is looked at wherever she goes.
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okay so ive only made out and i want to do alot more
i dont have a boyfriend though how can i let some one know i want to do more stuff with them
dont comment saying im a whore or i shouldnt do it just give advice (link)
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To let someone know, you gotta start "hoookin up with them." Meaning find a summer fling, doesnt even need to be a boyfriend, someone to just make out with and such. Fourth of july would be a great time to find thta hook up, and then keep on hookin up a bit moer. After hangin out a few times and makin out and such, just reach for his pants or put his hand down your pants/up your shirt. Chances are he'll wanna go farther too, and so just let it happen in the moment of kissing when things are hot
have funnn
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im 16 years old.
and a female.
i have been with the same guy for about two years now. and yes, we are sexually active. i was just wonderin if i was supose to douche and how often. (link)
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The vagina is a self-cleaning organ, meaning it doesnt need a douche. Plus, that actually pushes the stuff back up. When women use it to wash out the sperm, it could actually really work against them bceause its pushin the sperm more up closer to the uterus.
Soo you really dont need to use it, the vajay works on its own.
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my hair is really damaged. It drives me nuts! I hate that I have to dry and straighten it for it to look half way decent. I know the blow dryer and straightener damage my hair a lot, but i can't not use them, you know? so i guess my question is, whats a really effective shampoo (and conditioner, of course) to repair the damage?
also, is there anything I can put in my hair after i take a shower to make dry a little smoother? you know, less of a giant frizz ball.
tall order, i know. but i appreciate any help you guys can give me! (link)
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You GOTTA get this:
http://www.goddess-within.com/pamihese.html
Paul Mitchell Heat Seal. I used to have the woorsttt fried hair at the bottom, and I've been using it for a few months and my hair is totally silky and healthy. It actually PREVENTS split ends. Like this is actually a miracle I seriously suggest it.
And this you can use after goin in the shower:
http://www.paulmitchell.com/Products/PaulMitchell/Moisture/Pages/AwapuhiMoistureMist-Aerosol.aspx
It settles your hair down and hydrates is andd makes it shiny, but not over shiny like some products do.
The Moisture one (2nd one) I JUST started using like a month ago, but I'm really happy with it. I've been getting really good results from it.
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(15/f)I have terrible terrible skin, always have acne. Im going to Fantasy Island this weekend and I was just wondering if you knew any tricks to clear up my acne...Its a pain in the butt, and i never get approched by any guys. Also, i know we arent supposed to ask two questions in one but i was thinking about shaving my vagina for my bathing suit, but i hear it gets all itchy, is there any way i can prevent the itchyness.?
Thanks in advance. (link)
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In general, I would say stop eating sugar (or as much) like I for one, neverrr eat any basically, and I have great skin. Also eating too much sugar takes away energy. did you know thta the amount of sugar in ONE soda is your necessary daily amount? So yeah cut soda out completely, and drink good stuff like water and juices with GOOd sugar (like orange juice, no crangrape cocktails haha). then eat better, well balanced. that is what ultimately gives you good skin.
Buuutt i dont think thats really what your askin. so im not quiteee sure what your skin looks like, so if you are one of the people with a lot of big zits, what you do is before goin to bed, put toothpaste on it -- just put a dab on it and do NOT rub it in. be sure not to roll on it or spread it around. The next morning, the zits are completely poppable! This is what works for me. also, I've tried this and it did sort of work but not too well: boil water and get a qtip and put it in the water and hold it on your blemish. That should make it come up and be ready to be popped. After popping, its good to put on lotion of vaseline because otherwise it gets irritated, or so i've found.
http://howtorid-acne.blogspot.com/
Finally look there ^^ becuase thats got a lot of good stuff. BUT its basically like i said: Healthy lifestyle, healthy skin. So eat right.
Also, if you have any zits that are kinda hard to get rid of, just use cover up for the time being. guys will approach you if you look confident!
And its alright to ask two questions when its a private question! haha. Ok so it DOES get itchy, and this is called razorburn. To prevent it, you shave in the direction of hair growth. Like so you shave down. but its still extremely likely youll get the itchy red bumps you are hearin about, soo what you do it RIGHT after you shave, put on lotion! And then do it as oftenly as you can, like at least 4 times that day. it keeps it moistuized to prevent irriation and inflammation.
So I hope that helps you! Have fun in fantasy island and if you have any more qeustions askkk!
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