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slutty gal
i have been fingered five times and my friends call me a slut but it feels good,so like leave me alonee. And now this guy wants me to have sex, should i? i am only 14. And i dont want my friends to start calling me a hoe! thats MEAN! but i kinda want 2!
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FFG [ fingering feels good ]
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Well having sex at a young age is bad. You know that. Also your more likely getting a disease or infection no matter what. Well your friends calling you a slut aren't your real friends. My personal beleif is that you shouldn't have a sex until your older at least. There are consequences you will have to live with. Would you risk all of that just to feel good for a little while? You KIDNA want to. 1/2 does and 1/2 of don't. 1/2 is worried that your friends are going to call you a hoe...well what about those other problems? 1/2 of you want to feel good. Hm...don't do it. Wait. Don't let that guy pressure you doing it because all he wants is that...nothing else. How selfish. i just think continue getting fingered. its not bad, mother nature is calling! but keep it safe as time passes it will get better with your friends.
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If you're worried, uncomfortable, or questioning it, then no, you should not have sex with this guy. If you don't want to be called a "hoe", don't take actions that would lead to others calling you it.
-Laura. (16-f)
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14 is to young for sex. The best way to
keep from being called names is to keep
your sex life to yourself. Believe it or
not, adults don't announce to their friends
that they have been fingered OR that they
have had sex. Not normal ones anyway. :)
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Don't do things that people or friend pressure you to do, do things because YOU want to, and you're positive about! Plus, you're still young, don't have sex because a GUY wants to, have sex because you love this guy and would want to share something special! Once you have lost your virginity, you can't get it back! There are some REAL sweet guys out there, that would never force you into something and that you'd actually really love, and those guys most probably want to lose their virginity with someone who is a virgin too, it just makes it more special! The fact that you are asking what you should do tells me that you aren't ready for this experience, and therefore I think you should not do this.
Ask Venzuela
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The fact that you're asking this question tells me you aren't ready to have sex. You're having doubts, and when it comes to deciding something like this, having doubts means you shouldn't do it.
Wait a few more years, or heck, wait until you've found someone you'll be with the rest of your life.
--Jack
(16/m)
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If you're second guessing a choice to have sex with this guy, then maybe you aren't ready to actually do the deed. You have your whole life to have sex, so why not wait until you are absolutely positive that you're with the right one?
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