Question Posted Saturday September 23 2006, 5:24 pm
me and my boyfriend just recently broke up he said im to stressful for him and that he cant handle going out with me he said its done forever but im to scared to believe that.. weve dated for 5 months and he just threw it all away im really going threw some depression now its hard to focuss.in the begingin it was so perfect and now he just ended it out oof no where can some help me try not to think of him i love him with everything.. im soo torn
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Jennifer011 answered Saturday September 23 2006, 10:55 pm: listen, i know you must feel heartbroken. but really, if the only explanation that he gave you was that you're too stressful, that's his mistake. i know you must love him so much and everything, but if he said it's over for good and you don't want that, show him what he's missing!! don't make him think that he runs your whole life, flirt with other guys in school! you might as well have fun while you're making him jealous!!! and if you just aren't ready for that, buy a pint of ben & jerry's ice cream, turn on the Notebook, and eat up, girl!
IThasJUSTbegun answered Saturday September 23 2006, 10:52 pm: i know how you feel! that's the same thing that happened with me and my ex...and his friends tottaly rubbed it in my face...and one of my best friends went out with him right after...so i kno how you feel....its tough...it took me about 2 weeks just to realize that we are really over...but the best thing to do is to find a different thing to focus on either a new crush...that might be hard but it helped for me...finding a sport that you like....hanging with friends....listening to music..and just don't think about him...im sure you will have tons of better boyfriends.
Goodluck =) [ IThasJUSTbegun's advice column | Ask IThasJUSTbegun A Question ]
GwinnCheer2006 answered Saturday September 23 2006, 9:34 pm: Hey. That sounds like me and my ex boyfriend we dated for 5 months then out of no where he said he just couldn't date me. But in your case you should try to hang out with your friends and have them help you get him off your mind. Say by shopping or swimming, or just hanging out. Talk to your friends im sure they'll help you hun! But try to do something to calm you down, and then talk to him about it. Make sure its over and tell him that if its over forever you need to know. And i know it might be hard because you love him and all but dont take him back. Then it will show him that you're serious about this. And maybe it will get him to think. Hope i helped! [ GwinnCheer2006's advice column | Ask GwinnCheer2006 A Question ]
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