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ok i have been dating this guy for 8 months and things were going great until yesterday on our 8th month anniversary he started snapping at me about some guy who was asking me to be his girlfriend. he got really mad and started cussing at me. its like he lost control of himself and turned into this monster or whatever. and today he did the same thing and he kept asking the same question over and over again until i snapped at him and said something i shouldnt have said and then he got really pissed and signed off of aim. until 2 hours later and now our conversation is really awkward. how do i break this awkwardness? i apolgized and he said he forgave me. but still. how do i break it and how can i control how much we fight? (link)
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Its hard to answer this question because
many things aren't known. Is this an
internet only relationship or do you
see each other at school? How does he
know another guy asked you to be his
girlfriend?
People argue even in great relationships.
That isn't really a big deal. Since he
isn't letting it drop though, I have to
wonder if he isn't wanting you to call it
quits.
Simply refuse to argue any more
about it and see if he continues. If he
does, find a guy who treats you with
respect and trust.
Some guys just don't want to be the one
to break it up. They would rather you do
it so they look like the injured party. :)
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15/f. this might be long...
So I guess starting last summer I started talking to this guy lets say R. We didn't talk like to get together but just as friends. But we dont go to school together. I met him because I went out with his brother. So after a while I told him I liked him, but nothin ever happened. He would come to my house a couple times over this course. Well now I really really care for him. Like i love him to death but I dont want him to know like I dont wanna mess up our relationship. But I can tell he knows it. Oh and hes 17 though. He's a junior but he has a girlfriend that's a senoir. Me and her are cool and all. Like she invited me to one of her parties I went it was all good. But like I love him, and it really sucks that they are together. But we were talking one night and she called him, lets called her B. And she was pissed about him talkin to to many girls but he told her he only talks to her and me and that pissed her off that he said me. But it kills me inside cause I just dont want them to be together I want them to break up and shit. I mean like next year they probably wont be together sicne shes going to college or something but I want him now! And this weekend they went to prom together and today her parents are meeting his, he's never done this with any other girl. Its scaring my that they are getting really serious. Its killing me in side to not think about him this weekend. What can I do to get him.. I really need help. (link)
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They are already serious I'm afraid.
You are just torturing yourself by
hanging around with them. If he were
seriously considering breaking up
with her to date you, he would have
done so by now.
She acuses him of talking to to many
girls. Sounds like he likes talking
to girls. You are one of many I'm sad
to say. This guy is taken and he is
serious about his girlfriend. Look
elsewhere for a boyfriend, I think
you're wasting your time on this guy.
Just stay friends. :)
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Well Im in 8th grade and hes in 6th grade. Im 13. Hes 12. He really cute. Well last night was our last school dance. I thought i should ask him to dance because he wont be at the dances next year because ill be at the high school and i would have to wait for 2 years. Well one of my friends boyfriend is his friend. So my friends ask him to ask the guy i like if he would dance with me. He said yeah and he asked me. He asked if i had a boyfriend and why i didnt have one and stuff like that. Then he asked me out and i said yeah. But now i dont know if he actually likes me or if he felt sorry for me. WHAT DO U GUYS AND GIRLS THINK?
Heres another thing. Im not that good with boys...as boyfriends....i can talk to guys who are my friends easliy but im shy around my boyfriends....usually he has to start a conversation because i dont know what to say...what should i do? (link)
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I think he realized you liked him and
was happy that you did. Seems you talked
ok during that dance! You'll do fine.
It won't take long before you're talking
like old friends. :)
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Ok me and this guy are pretty close. Well this week his friends sister got hit by some guy. "my guy" hates when a woman gets hit so we was pretty hot and so was this girls brother who is my guys friend. They went to where she lived and stayed the night. Well the other night they was workin on a car and my guys phone went off and I read the text and it turned out it was that guys sister. I asked him who that was in front of everyone he flipped out because I asked whot hat was in front of everyone. Well I took him home that night and he asked me to go to where she lives he was gonna stay the night, because the dude that hit her might come back. Well something just seems weird about it if this girl got hit by a man wouldnt her family be takin care of it? Or am I worrying over something stupid because I accused him of being at that girls house last night and he was like I have nothing to hide or to explain i dont wanna be in a relationship? And this girls family is really protective so if something was to hapen wouldnt that girls brother flip out on my guy? (link)
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Sounds like he has what I call Knight
in shining armor syndrome. He is feeling
like the big man protecting the damsel
in distress.
You don't say how old this girl is or
if she lives on her own. I'm sure she
has a phone with 911 on it. She must
prefer your guy friend. If she has
a protective family and they aren't
staying with her, they must not feel
she is in danger.
If you are hoping for a relationship
with this guy, I wouldn't count on it
right now. Listen to that intuition. :)
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i only be out with him for 2 weeks. we never kissed, we never dated, we only sa each other in high school and held hands. i felt like we were just close friends and he was like a puppy dog that doesnt think for him self so i broke it off. he called me late '05 he told me he lives in Hawaii, i live in Califriona. last year he told me he is in love with me. why? he was going to get married but it didnt work out. he said he told her that i was his ex girl friend. she knew he still likes me. i never call him or give any sign of liking him back. i told him i am bi sexual and crushing on a girl that i met in class at college. but he still likes me. why does he waste his time over me? he is at a differnt state WTF!?!? (link)
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Hes a nut. Really, his obsession with
you is a little over the top no longer
than you were together. He needs to get
over it and move on with his life.
Don't allow it to continue by responding
to him. I think you'd be smart to use
some caution where this guys concerned.
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hey, im looking for a new diet that will help me get my fat down, but not my muscle, i weigh 245, and 14 years old and i need to get down 20 pounds of just fat... any ideas of a good diet to stick to, i need to get my weight down just before football bcuz im planning on playing the mike linebacker on varsity this year (link)
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I found a perfect read for you.
Its specifically geared toward
football players. :)
http://www.training-conditioning.com/2007/03/fueling_for_football.html
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how big is the average penis for an 18 year old? (link)
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According to the medical community
the average adult males penis is
6-6.2 inches. :)
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What is the pill Concetra or consedra?
idk how to spell it.
But it can be a drug.. and its a pill.
what could it do to you? (link)
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Its a medication for ADHD.
Here is the official site for it
along with side effects.
http://www.concerta.net/concerta/pages/index.jsp?s_kwcid=concerta|925354047&gclid=CM7FhKjLkpMCFSH0IgodJxmlSw
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i went and told him yesterday how friday morning i was going to say forget it and that i didnt want anything else to do with him..then later on that day i realized that may not be what i wanted.. and then i said i was done with all the talking.. he said he'd bet money that i'd say something to him within the next 2 weeks.
do u think its even worth it to take him back if he'll bet money on my actions? and not take me seriously thaht i wont say anything else.
i told him on the 17th that he better apology to me and say "wow you were right" and he said when he's ready to be friends again IF he is ready and i hadnt say one word to him he'll slap me on the back and say "wow you were right" and he said he wont forgot that...then he told me to save the IM when i askedif i could get that in writing..though im unsure how much he is betting here..since i forgot to ask..and now i cant ask or ill just lose the bet.
anyways..is it worth if he's gonna bet money that i can't last? (link)
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I wouldn't take him back. Hes not doing any work
to mend the relationship. You're doing it all.
Good luck with the new guy. you need to be out
having fun not trying to get that other guys
attention. :)
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I'd really appreciate it if you could take a look at this question if you get a chance. Your input would be incredibly valid.
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=538518 (link)
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I answered it and forgot to answer this one!
Good luck. :)
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I am becoming increasingly depressed.
I am dealing with a lot of difficulties at home - my Mother hasn't been at work for several months because she has bipolar and tried to overdose at New Year. My sister has serious anger problems, which means that she is constantly violent and rude. My Dad is finding the strain very difficult and wants to leave.
These problems have been going on for years, but around the time that it started to get much worse, I met my ex boyfriend. He was like my security blanket and helped me to feel happier about everything. We split up a month ago, leaving me completely heartbroken.
On top of this, I have important exams, which are key to my future, starting in about a week.
I have developed severe insomnia, which I visited the doctor for. He assessed me for depression, but after I mentioned the break-up with my boyfriend, he decided that all my symptoms were just due to me missing my ex and being unhappy about the split. He diagnosed me with sleeping pills and I suffered bad side effects and they only made me feel worse.
Now I'm not sure what to do. I have a brilliant support network in my friends, but I am constantly snappy and defensive and I know I can't expect them to put up with it forever. Despite having such good friends, I am very lonely and feel like I can't confide in anyone.
My parents know I'm unhappy and are doing their best to support me, but the problems I mentioned previously mean that it just isn't enough.
I need advice on what I should do next, because all this is proving very difficult to deal with. (link)
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First you have to get through those tests.
Did you return to the doctor or call
following the sleeping pill side effects?
I'm not advocating the use of them long
term but they do make several different
kinds and a different one may help you
get some rest at least until after exams.
You might want to try simply sleeping with
your head at the foot of the bed, opposite
of the way you usually sleep. Sounds like
it wouldn't work, but surprisingly it does.
Study with friends or at the library, just
anywhere there isn't tension. I wish you
well on your exams.
It sounds like your mom and your sisters
problems have been around a while. They
may be escalating at the moment...bad
timing. Your recent breakup probably is
making it much worse. Your down in the
dumps and now you have to contend with
them as well. I wish I had a magic
solution for helping you deal with them.
You probably no better than I how to do
that! Their problems aren't going away
as you know. I assume your mom is taking
meds for her problem? If not she needs too.
If she is perhaps its time for a check-up
and a re-evaluation of her meds. If you
take anything long term you do build a
tolerance for it. Same with your sister.
Maybe thats something you can talk to Dad
about.
Talk to your Dad. He probably knows what
you're going through. Hes in the same boat.
It would probably help him cope knowing
you understand and are at your wits end
too.
Friends are great. They know whats going
on in your life and will take a lot. Try
to make an effort not to crab at them to
much. Its easy to do. We always hurt and
lash out at those closest to us. Probably
because we know they care and aren't
going anywhere. If you find yourself being
short with them, stop. Apologize and let them
know your in a funk & don't mean to lash
out.
Get through those exams and then
re-evaluate your situation. I think they
are adding stress to an already
stressful situation. With luck it will
ease up after your done with them.
After exams you need to get out there and
start socializing again. Find yourself a
new guy. I know thats probably the last
thing you want to do right now but, trust
me. Nothing heals a broken heart like a
new love interest. Its going to happen.
You will be happy again despite everything.
If you don't bounce back a week or so after
exams, see your doctor again about the
depression. A certain amount of it is
perfectly normal for teens. It just
shouldn't last months.
Very best of luck with those exams.
I KNOW you will do well. :)
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see..i thought about that..but that still wouldnt convince her..shes the type of mother who wouldnt let me off my own street till i was about 12. and we live in a fairly decent neighborhood too.
im going insane, in the beginning of march ill explained to them my ideas and they are all "your making this much more harder than it has to be.."
-_- (link)
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Well it sounded like a very well thought out
idea to me. They should be applauding your creativity. Do the best you can do with
what you have available. It will be still
be good if not exactly what you planned.
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yes yes.. plus i have a bigger problem than boys anyways right now. and my mom is driving me insane, over it it.
I was given an staircase splinder, I was told to transform it into a "walk with me" walking stick, which means it has to be about me obviously. Its for my art final for a high school portfolio prep class. I have the top as a box, so i decided to do broadway show signs on each side, going down its shaped like a camera lens, so i carved the lens in, further down i traced my hand and carved it, in the fingers i want write words such like "body, mind and spirit, etc" as a grip around a sunflower that im gonna wood burn.. where the leafs represent things that help me grow, the sunflower is the things im made up of...and every other pedal is hot glued on to represents what stands out more in me. on the bottom i have red glass pieces made of twizzlers, im just unsure what to do between the space between?
and now my mom wont let me carve it..and says i can do it in school so if i get hurt she can sue them...ive known of this project since feb..ive had the wood since mid march..it was originally due this week..and she gave us till the end of may..every idea i think of my mom complains how she doesnt understand why i cant just wood burn it all (but that would look ugly if its all the same form) then doesnt get why i cant just stick stickers on it..its suppose to represent myself..and im going insane..and im stressing and she isnt letting me do anything..so if i fail this..it really cant be my fault. im trying she wont let me do it at home..and i dont have time to stay after and work on it..i need hours at a time to do a project like this..what do i do? =[ (link)
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Maybe you could get the teacher to explain
in a note to mom. That this is a project
along the lines of homework.
I know. We moms can be a royal pain in the ass sometimes. :)
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yeah well...we already discussed a million time how i didnt want to like him like that..so we both knew exactly what i wanted and all this stuff..but whatever my sernor year ends june 12th..im not gonna waste it on him. =]
but! now im starting to fall for one of my other guy friends..but he just broke up with his girlfriend of almost 3 years..and he's moving after graduation, which is the end of june..so he'll be moving in 2 months..which sucks..im trying not to get attached but its hard u cant control who u fall for. (link)
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Its true you can't help who you
fall for. Senior year should be fun.
Shop around!
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sooooo i didnt talk to him from friday to sunday. almost 2 whole days..then i had to ask him something, so i had to talk..then i had given him on monday a list of the reasons why i loved him...a few days before we were talking about whether or not he could understand why i was having a hard time with this..and it was nagging me one night and kept me up so after an hour and half i wrote down off the top of my head what i loved, and i ended up writing from 12:40-2AM and getting 55 reasons why i loved him..and each one took only one line on the paper.. thennnnn i told him if i had to tell him something then id have my friend say it..so monday i asked her to ask him if he was mad at me for the letter and he said no..and then walked away...then i called him..and he turned around and we talked and what not..then he said he wasnt upset or mad or anything anymore but still needed time to figure it out then 2 periods i had to go double check something he said.. after that i hadnt talked to him..so i went from monday at 1PM with not talking to him.. then yesterday i was behind him going to class..and i called his name and he didnt answer..and i did it again..and he didnt respond..and he was only like 6 feet in front of me... then finally the 3rd time i did it in an annoyed voice..and he turned around..and im like "the bottom of the back of your shirt is dirty" and i guess he didnt hear me or something and asked what and i repeated myself and he goes "thanks" but when i told him that..i dont remember even looking at him..now today..with my luck..i saw him between every period..so i saw him every 39 minutes from 7:05-1:40. except one period because i felt like being on time..then afterschool i dealt with him..then i nearly crashed him 3 times..-_- then on the bus he normally sits in the 7th sit far from me ever since we stopped being friends, instead of sitting across from me or next to me.. and im usually in the 4th seat..and today he sat in the 3rd seat..and im like "u son of.." :-X and in my head im like "u know what ill sit in the the like 6th seat then.." i almost did it..and im like "no ill be the bigger person..and i sat in my normal 4th seat.. but im going insane..because today of all days i ran into him so much..and i tried to act like he wasnt there..but a good 3 times afterschool i had to walk out of the room because he was there..i wasnt like upset or anything..i was just furious that everywhere i turned there he was today.. -_- >_< what do i do?! =[ (link)
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Since you are going to see him all the
time at school and on the bus just be
polite when you have to talk to him or
pass him in th halls. Its pretty obvious
by now that this guy doesn't like you the
way you like him. He seems to be annoyed
with you all the time. There are other guys
out there, concentrate on one of them.
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so i got a small tattoo and now its raised up and scabbing in one place. what do i do? i mean i know not to pick it but once the scab falls off will the color come off too? help me out!
thankyou! (link)
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From: SharpTattoos aftercare instructions
(Link included at bottom for more info.)
Your skin will form a protective layer no matter what you do. If you do not keep it moist or keep it too moist (it's a personal balance, different for each individual), it will form a thick, hard scab that may crack when you move. When you form this kind of a scab the ink sits within it and slowly heals into the skin. When the tattoo is kept moist it doesn't have a chance to form a scab but does form a thin membrane to protect the tattoo while it heals. This layer peels off very similar to a sunburn (do not peel your tattoo, you will pull the ink out!) and it is normal to see small flakes of colored skin falling off during this stage of healing.
http://www.sharptattoos.com/aftercare.html
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how long will i need to wait to have sex after i get birth control? like we reaaaaaally want to. we've been together for 7 months and haven't! i mean..do we have to wait a full month for the bc to kick in? does it work at all right when you start using it? (link)
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Most doctors will recommend you
wait until you have been on the
pill at least 30 days to have
unprotected sex. It needs time
to get into your system. :)
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fifteen/female!
okay so i [was] talking to this boy; but then thursday he was texting this girl that i DIDNT like and thay we're suppost to meet up and "HANGOUT" around like 10 at night, yeah ew nasty, but thay never went because SHE said she was just playing with him and it was a joke! and he tried to say yeah i know i was kidding to blahblahblah; well he call's me friday and i let him know i knew about them texting, and he said it wasnt him and he wasnt going to do ANYTHING with her and more lame stuff! and i told him i didnt want to talk anymore because i can't trust him and he did me wrong, and might i add i still like him a lil, but he said he will do anything to make me trust him again. i don't know though because i mean UHGGGGGGGGGG he did me wrong, and that was nastty lol, but then again i still kinda like him, i don't know WHAT to do; and my friend wont give me any kind of advice; because thay have never had to deal with this befor,
so anything will help thank you (link)
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Just talking to another girl isn't
doing you wrong. Arranging for a
make out session and then easing
his embarrassment by saying he
was just kidding is though. You
have to know if she was able to be
there, he most likely would have
been too.
You do need to talk to him. If he
is someone you just met and hope
to have a relationship with then
let him know you're interested in
an exclusive relationship with him.
Its possible he wasn't sure of your
feelings. Or, he could just be a
player. Asking every girl he meets
to make out.
Either way, talk to the guy. :)
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i started to smoke pot with my cousin. i got caught by my parents and i told them i would never do it again,but i did not they dont trust me ad wanna drug test me is there any way you can help me hind away to get the thc out of my system? (link)
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It just matters when they want to test you.
It takes a couple of days for pot to get out
of your system. I'm afraid the only way to
keep from getting caught is just not to
smoke it if you think you'll be tested.
Sorry I wasn't much help. Those supposed
ways to keep it from showing up just
don't work. :)
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I have thing when, when I like guys I kind of get obsessed with themm.
Are their anyways that you can give me on advice on how not too become obsessed and how to not show them that I like them thatt much or think Im annoying or anythingg,
Im a year younger then them also.
Thankss (:
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I think most guys your age won't mind
the extra attention. But if you just
play it cool, talk to them when they
talk to you and don't get to loud or
seem to eager they would like it better.
There isn't a lot you can do about
actually being obsessed by a guy.
It isn't a bad thing unless you start
stalking them or something!
Age doesn't matter. If they talk to
you and want to hang out you being
younger shouldn't matter at all. :)
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