okay so i [was] talking to this boy; but then thursday he was texting this girl that i DIDNT like and thay we're suppost to meet up and "HANGOUT" around like 10 at night, yeah ew nasty, but thay never went because SHE said she was just playing with him and it was a joke! and he tried to say yeah i know i was kidding to blahblahblah; well he call's me friday and i let him know i knew about them texting, and he said it wasnt him and he wasnt going to do ANYTHING with her and more lame stuff! and i told him i didnt want to talk anymore because i can't trust him and he did me wrong, and might i add i still like him a lil, but he said he will do anything to make me trust him again. i don't know though because i mean UHGGGGGGGGGG he did me wrong, and that was nastty lol, but then again i still kinda like him, i don't know WHAT to do; and my friend wont give me any kind of advice; because thay have never had to deal with this befor,
You do need to talk to him. If he
is someone you just met and hope
to have a relationship with then
let him know you're interested in
an exclusive relationship with him.
Its possible he wasn't sure of your
feelings. Or, he could just be a
player. Asking every girl he meets
to make out.
advicexnow answered Monday April 28 2008, 8:35 pm: well it was wrong for him to talk to the other girl, but until you go out it shouldn't count as much.
anways, if he said that he would do anything for you to trust him why not give a chance. People make mistakes, but as long as it doesn't happen over and over it should be fine. If your not still sure, just go slow. Take small steps by trusting him again. If he really cares enough about you then he will wait. This will show that he is serious and chances are he wont do anything to lose your trust again. good luck
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