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in love with someone elses man


Question Posted Sunday May 4 2008, 4:31 pm

15/f. this might be long...

So I guess starting last summer I started talking to this guy lets say R. We didn't talk like to get together but just as friends. But we dont go to school together. I met him because I went out with his brother. So after a while I told him I liked him, but nothin ever happened. He would come to my house a couple times over this course. Well now I really really care for him. Like i love him to death but I dont want him to know like I dont wanna mess up our relationship. But I can tell he knows it. Oh and hes 17 though. He's a junior but he has a girlfriend that's a senoir. Me and her are cool and all. Like she invited me to one of her parties I went it was all good. But like I love him, and it really sucks that they are together. But we were talking one night and she called him, lets called her B. And she was pissed about him talkin to to many girls but he told her he only talks to her and me and that pissed her off that he said me. But it kills me inside cause I just dont want them to be together I want them to break up and shit. I mean like next year they probably wont be together sicne shes going to college or something but I want him now! And this weekend they went to prom together and today her parents are meeting his, he's never done this with any other girl. Its scaring my that they are getting really serious. Its killing me in side to not think about him this weekend. What can I do to get him.. I really need help.


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karenR answered Wednesday May 7 2008, 2:18 pm:
They are already serious I'm afraid.
You are just torturing yourself by
hanging around with them. If he were
seriously considering breaking up
with her to date you, he would have
done so by now.

She acuses him of talking to to many
girls. Sounds like he likes talking
to girls. You are one of many I'm sad
to say. This guy is taken and he is
serious about his girlfriend. Look
elsewhere for a boyfriend, I think
you're wasting your time on this guy.
Just stay friends. :)

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pinkcherries answered Tuesday May 6 2008, 6:38 pm:
easy solution
let him live his life
obviously if he felt the same way he would be going out with you. He has a girlfriend and he sounds happy so just leave them alone. If you really loved him you would want him to be happy, whatever it takes.
please let them live their lives!!!!

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