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Q: I have sort of a...strange question I guess: What exactly are a girl's hips made of, and is there a way to get rid of them once they develop? I mean I know that during puberty, you start getting hips, but I really don't like mine.

And also, I don't like the fact that my thighs touch when I walk or just stand with my legs parallel to each other. What can I do about this?

Thanks for any help ya' can give.
Well you just need to excersize

Q: hey, you answered one of my questions about cartilage piercing, thanx. was yours a little soar at first? also, did you do any of them yourself?
Yeah when i got mine pierced it stung and was red and a bit swollen. It hurt real bad.. I suppose because it went through cartalige lol but yeah. Nope i sure didnt do any of them myself. My friend did and it turned out really gross. Her ear is fine now but it was nasty for a long time

Q: It's almost xmas, and I don't have any gifts for my family. And worse of all, I can't go out and get gifts for them because I'm broke. Does anyone have any ideas how I can "make" a gift for my family? [I have one bro, 19, two parents, age unknown, and one sister, age 21.] If anyone could think of creative fun things I could make out of house hold items, I'd love you forever.
--Giftless
Just make them things. It comes straight from the heart and thats what counts! maybe make a scrapbook of all you guys on trips or whatever that'd be neat to look at

Q: hi im 14/f/uk and all of a sudden my breasts and under my arms have started 2 itch. i dont no what it is and im really worrid.
can someone please help and if you have any advice that would be helpful
thanxz luv nicki xxxxxxx
Your probably just dry. I mean the weather is changing just lotion up! dont worri hunni!

Q: All right, People who ahve their tongue peirced or have friends that have it done please answer, does it hurt? and when u get it peirced and if it does hurt is it a quick pain?
I heard it does and doesnt. Depends on your pain tolerance

Q: i got my cartilage pierced yesterday. is it normal for the cartilage to be a bit swollen? thanks
Sure is. trust me :) i have it pierced 3 times

Q: How do i get rid of zits FAST! im already doin the daily face wash and the hot water thing... but whats the best clenser to use that works really fast? Plz help, and to those who do... thank you som much! (i rate)
Clean n clear. Morning burst

Q: Ok i am DAting this guy and i am like the kind of girl who likes to take things slow and build up are relationship first and on or third date hoe is already wanting to kiss me i dont want to hurt his feelings but i do want him do be my boyfriend _HELP_

Tell him. Just be like i want to take this slow. I want this relationship to last awhile. You will feel so much better then and if he doesnt respect you drop him on his ass and dump him

Q: my freind and i have been flirting so much and people would tell us oh why don't you two go out already! well i told him i liked him and he told me he wasn't ready for a gf right now and i'm kinda waiting and yet i'm kinda forgetting about him! we talk more then we have done in the past! does this mean something?
Yeah he is just maybe a flirt to. You gotta watch out for that

Q: Theres this guy who've i've gotten really close to recently, and i'm kind of starting to like him. hes a 3 years older than me, but we realte to each other so well. i know this sounds cliche, but i reaaaally don't wanna ruin a friendship, since we can talk so easily with each other. should i leave it alone, or drop some hints and see if he catches on?
How old are you? How old is he? If you are under 17 and he is over 18.. dont do it.. To wierd. If you scarred like honestly scarred it'd ruin the relationship then dont it. But sometimes the best friends or buddies make the best bf's

Q: Ok, i like this guy, lets call him Ryan. And im positive that he likes me back. But i get really nervus around him. I'm not shy to call him but i sound all shaky when i talk because of the nervusness. (sp?) Should i ask him if he wants to go to a movie with me and my friend to get to know him better?
Have a friend ask him out for you if you are to scarred. A movie would be good though!

Q: my friend and i just started talking again and i am asking like how skool is going for her and how she has been! but all her answers are just "good"! how do i get her to talk more?
Bring up things she wants to talk about it.. talk about stories like things that happaned to you that day. Include her in your life and she will let you in hers

Q: Hey!I am about 5'6" or 5'7" and around 140 and 145 pounds and I want to lose maybe 10 or 15 pounds..if I do yoga and crunches will it help me any?If it won't what can I do to help me lose the weight?Thanks!
South beach diet

Q: i have been going out with my boyfriend for a little while now.. we were really good friends before we started dating and he is so awesome. he lives down the street from me and comes over alot and my parents like him. but they are really overprotective so i havent told them that i am dating him yet. im really worried about what they would do because i dont want them to stop letting him come over and stuff.. i meet his parents the other day and they think im a good person & his mom want to take us to a movie. but im afraid that when she meets my mom she will tell my mom that i am datin her son. so i dont no if i should tell my parents or not? what do yall think? i will rate 5's

ps. my sister knows that we are goin out but is waiting for me to tell them.
I would. Exspeacially if he comes over and they seem to like him. But i would tell her and i think its a good idea for the parentals to meet me and my bf's met and we see eachother alot more now!

Q: im a beginned guitar player and im starting to learn notes right now (i havent even gotten to chords) and i need to kno if anybody has some trix to remembering all where all the chords and notes are and how you can tell which string is which without looking everytime you need to switch strings. thanx
I actually have a friend who knows quite a bit about it.. If you want i could get you the person sn if you need. Just let me know. He loves guitar. I have another friend Emily who plays I could give you her sn to. Just let me know though :) -trix

Q: well, my hair is straight, but the ends go all retarded and wavy and this totally kills my hair. does anybody kno why this happens and how i can get rid of the waviness? thanx lotss
Dead ends. Get a trim

Q: I really like this boy and he says that he really likes me, however he has a girlfriend and doesn't want to hurt her by dumping her. He is always with me and he tells me that he cares and wants to be with me, but I don't want to get hurt. It hurts me enough to know that he has a girlfriend, I have never loved like this before. Everytime he kisses me I seem to melt. I want him so badly, but what about his gf. he is afraid and so am I?
He needs to make a decision! And he shouldnt be leading her on anyways. That is only going to hurt her more after she finds that out. He is just afraid of taking new paths.. Like starting something new with someone new. I would just tell him how you feel and let him know that you cant continue like this and you feel bad that he has a gf. Plus.. think about this.. what if he does this to you? I mean dont say o he wont because im sure thats what his gf thinks to that he wouldnt cheat on her.. well shes thinking wrong.. well i just wanted you to know that

Q: I have lost so many important and special people in my life that now I don't know who to trust anymore. I am getting really close to someone (everyone I get close to is an adult) and I am afraid of getting hurt by her like everyone else I get close to. I have told her this and she says that shes not like the other people, but how do I know. This is a person that I wish were my mother because she is just so incredible and my mom doesnt care about me. What do I do?
If this is a adult.. i dont think you'll get hurt. I doubt she'll hurt you exspeacially if she is a mother figure

Q: Okay... Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 months... it will be 3 months on the 6th of january..! Well see my friend and her boyfriend have been going out for not even 1 month and they have already kissed (tongue) and held hands and more! Me and my boyfriend have kissed but it seems that we are never alone because of this girl that likes him... she is always there, she won't just leave me and him alone for just a little bit! What should i do? it is bothering me so much that my friends are afraid of me breaking up with my boyfriend over this girl always being there!
Just tell her because she needs to get the picture! I mean hello! You and him are a item! Not him and her! Not Him her and you! Its just him and you. But you know just take you time you dont have to follow through on your friend and her boyfriend. I say it took me and my bf awhile to kiss to! So just give it time!

Q: ok well im 13/m and i have feelings for my friend. The problem is that she has been going out with her boyfriend for a long time (year and like a month) andso i've been trying to be there for her and be her friend but now her and her bf are going through some rough times and she doesn't think he likes her anymore. I want to make a move but think that might be taking advantage of her and her situation. Should i go for it? Is it taking advantage of her current situatuion?
Well I would wait until they are broken up because that could be taking advantage.. kind like a rebound.. and you dont want that and she is coming to you for that so just stick with her

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My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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