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Okay, what are some subtle ways to flirt with guys without being overly obvious?? and guys, what makes a girl stand out or atractive? what makes you like a girl? ANYthing i should know! THANKS A LOT!! (link)
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If you flirt with a guy, dont just flirt with him all the time like the whole eye contact thing. Go up talk to him and be playful. I personally hate when girls flirt from far away but when they talk to you they dont give any signs at all. Just dont flirt from afar for too long. Actually approach the guy. Talk to him, be playful, have fun.
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ok all of my friends are having sex (and there all around 15 and 16, and i am 15.) And I don't feel like people our age are ready to have sex yet...but all of my friends are telling me how much fun it is, and they kept telling me how i need to lose it. I kept telling them that i'm not ready, but they keep pressuring me to have it. How can I get it throgh there head that i'm not ready and I don't want to lose it untill i'm ready? (link)
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You get a standing ovation. (you neglected to mention male or female tho, and if your friends are male or female.) There are many ways to do this.
A) Just keep telling them no.
B) Tell them they are idiots and if they keep pushing their faces will be good friends with the pavement. (Works better for drugs or alcohol pressure.)
C) Completely confuse them with higher level thoughts until they can no longer think about it.
D) Call them whores at first then say "no wait, your sluts you dont get paid" (man-whores and man-sluts if your guys)
E) Tell them that its a choice and you choose to wait.
F) Umm it involves a gun, a river, some cement, rope and im pretty sure its illegal.
G) Beat them all up.
H) Convince them you have better things to do.
I) Tell them to lay off and that you will do it when you want to.
^most of those were jokes so just relax and laugh. btw I agree 15 and 16 can be too young for most people.
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alright im 16/f and im still a virgin. ive only done things with 2 guys but i have only had the opportunity to do things with 2 guys..the 2nd guy i didnt even like but idk..it just all happened.do you think thats kinda of sluty? and me & this guy have a little thing goin on but im afraid that when we hang out agian we'll go a little bit too far. i really like him and i know he likes me but i dont know if i can stop myself. im supposed to hang out with him and stay the night over his house cause he is my friends cousin and my friend is goin too. but idk..i just dont want it to happen and i dont know if it will or not or if i can be able to stop at just making out..what should i do? (link)
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It just sounds like your really horney with no self control. So basically you need disipline and to grow up possibly. The "i dont know if i can stop myself." part, that sounded slutty. The first part didnt. What really saved you was the "im 16/f and im still a virgin." Everything has a price. Fun at the expense of inocense isn't the way to go.
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ok, my boyfried is 18 n im 13.And we have sex, Please dont call me a slut cuz i am NOT ONE. it doesnt matter what age i am cuz im not imature. But,we have been going out for 6 months. sometimes when we do it with out a condom dont worry its safe for some reasons he says its dry in there n it hurts, any help on what that is??? (link)
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I have the balls to tell you, he is using you for sex. Now dont take this too hard, but if you dont believe me, stop haveing sex with him for like a month and dont tell him why. Just be like, "I dont want to," or "I dont feel like it". He will leave you.
ONE more thing on the ballsy note: if you have to say "Please dont call me a slut cuz i am NOT ONE. it doesnt matter what age i am cuz im not imature." obviously you actually question yourself about it. At 13 are you ready to take on the responsibility of a kid. Dont say it wont happen to you, your already having sex w/o protection. You even think your too young otherwise you wouldnt have said anything about it. Somewhere in your mind you are very insecure about this. Basically that means there are issues here. Look at the situation and think about whats happening. If you dont like it, leave it all behind you and move on. (I wouldnt of said anything but you mentioned it so I had to say that.)
YET another thing, He is taking advantage of your naivity. That is bad. He is basically controlling & manipulating you (taking advantage of you) by your inexperience.
NOW, to answer your question: its not safe, It sounds like to me when he does it, your not wet and he pulls out. This means that you aren't arroused and he pulls out before he ejaculates. Not a good idea. What if sperm was already there? What if he does make it out in time? In the long run its not a good thing. Use a damn condom and for christs sake dont have sex with someone whos useing you.
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there is this boy that sumtimes stare at me i want to know if he likes me (link)
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uhhh have you tried talking to him? Maybe you should keep your feet on the ground and just talk to the guy before you go all teenage "OMGZ HE WAS SO CHECKING ME OUT."
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ok well..... i am not sure to believe in evolution or religious ways cause i mean if you look at the videos from the eighties like Aha 's "take on me" video ...the women and men look different and i actually believe in evolution because i look in pictures from long time ago and only SOME people look different from present day people and some look like they are from our time..so.. i also want believe that we came from god because we all look different..and we are NOT attracted to EVERYONE...because we all look different right? i believe in both...so..this is so confusing please help lol.. i cant take it!!!! (link)
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Try to have respect for the higher being whilst still realizing the aspects of science that have revealed themselves to us.
In my opinion this is the perfect way to look at things. Maybe you should try to merge both theories into a theory of your own. E.g., life was evolution from bacteria that god force evolution upon over time until life was formed and repeated evolution took place. Try to realize the scientific aspects yet respect the religious ones too.
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are gas prices so HIGH? someone please explain that to me. I just saw the news and he said $5.00 a gallon coming soon! what in the world are we coming to? (link)
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Among the other reasons that were already stated, dont forget that gas is nonrenewable meaning once we use all the oil, thats it, Its gone. As for the $5.00 thing, I'm assuming as now the prices are raising (on top of greedy people looking for more profit) to lession the use of oil. The prices are something of a tactic to ward off excess use of the oil. Reasons for that would be A) we are running out of oil, and B) Enviromental issues. The polution caused by fossil fuels definitally has a couple pennies to do with the cost. Why its $3.00 and higher, i dont know but I'm going to say that most of the price is due to compainies wanting a higher profit.
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okay i have a virus on my computer & it's called 'downloader' & it's a trojan horse virus. i have norton & i scanned it many times & it detects that i have a virus (there's also a popup that never leaves unless i turn norton off) & it lets me quarrentine(sorry, sp) & delete it. after i do that, it says "there is still 1 infected file". why does it do that!! it lets me delete it but then its still there. i went to norton's site & it says how i could get rid of it myself, & you have to start it up in 'safemode' but that doesn't even work because i don't get a task bar in safemode for some reason. is there anyway i can delete this or do i have to dump my computer??
thanks!! (link)
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Ok. First go get a new virus scanner from the internet. Try it. If you could give me the name of the downloader and trojan horse then i may be able to help you. You're probably haveing trouble finding the rootkit. A system restore is also possible. I would just keep trying the way the norton site says to delete it.
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IN my sophmroe english class this year i did everything. i am not even joking, i wasnt failing at all every term. but my teacher failed me for every single term. id admit to me being a bad student, but im NOT. at all. i am just really pissed off about this. during the year she hated me and i had her freshman year too, and she also hated me. im a nice, girl never really loud. i just need to do something, my dad parents wont believe me. but i need to do it, i have to go to summer school for her now? tahts bullshit... what can i do (link)
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If you did all the assignments and did them well just show them to your parents and show them too the principal to prove that you shouldnt be failing. They (i assume) would have to look into it.
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hey, i just finished my freshman year in highskewl and i received my report card. i looked at the bottom and saw simple rank 18/886 and WGT RAND 33/886, WHAT IS THAT? my friend's simple rank is numercally higher than her WGT. unlike me. WHAT'S UP WITH THAT. (link)
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im guessing unweighted your 18th in your class and weighted your 33? Weighted classes would be something like an honors course where people get extra weight for taking them. Like for ex. an A in a normal class isnt as high as an A in that honors class.
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Is it out of line to correct somebody who you know is wrong in your answer? For example, say the question is "should I keep my pony?" and another person replies "no because a pony is a baby horse so you won't go as far on him", is it out of line to say "Actually, a pony is just a horse who is under 14.2 hh" blah, blah, blah? (link)
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no, better to catch ignorance before it spreads
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Ok i wanna new screename but i can't think of any ideas!
I'm short
blue eyes
love to dance
play piano and flute
in the marching band haha
love harry potter
love johnny cash even more
love summer and the beach
Please i'm open to any suggestions. Thank you!!!! (link)
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blueyesplaysguys
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Im 16 and i still havent madeout with anyone. All my friends are very experienced and i get uncomfortable when they talk about that kind of stuff becuz im very inexperienced in that department. I feel so stupid and young because i havent..i mean some 13 year olds have madeout..and im 16! Is this normal and what should i do!? (link)
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Yes its normal. Dont do anything different, your doing nothing wrong.
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hey im 14/f and my bf is 19/f i dont have a problem with it but i just wondered what do other people think? Well that isnt really my problem. The thing is i havent actually met him. When we meet we are gonna sleep together, he is gonna come such a long way to come see me and im not sure if im gonna do it because i want to or because i feel like i have to because hes gonna come all this way, i dunno the next time ill have a chance, but i do want to, I love him, What do i do? I really like this guy. What do you think about my situation, and what should i do? (link)
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Let me ask you, what do your parents think about this? I gaurentee they will be right. Parents are right 90% of the time. What i think? NO,BAD LITTLE GIRL BAD. Drop this guy. first off you shouldnt be pressured into sex, second off your 14 and he's (illegidly) 19. This poses the question why would a 19 year old want to hang with a 14 year old. A 19 year old would want to be at college parties with college girls. Odds are this guy is older than 19. Odds are also he will rape and kill you. I'm very math orientated. I will offer an alternative, if you think he will bring you no harm then what is the harm of having your parents with you when you meet. BTW You dont love this guy, you love what you think he is which is an illusion he weaved in your head so he would be loved by you. Which is easier than it sounds cause damn kids now adays dont listen and are quite stupid which i blame on new cartoons and rap music and the media and society. That is my 2 cents.
If 50% of marriages end in divorce, why would you today in this modern world assume you found the perfect person if you never met them. This will bring no good. Dont think you know someone that you couldnt possible know. What proof do you have that he is 19. What proof do you have that anything he says is true or what he thinks. Does he know that that is illegal even if you say yes? More than likely he is a sexual predator. Be careful.
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I have a 12 year-old sister. I made her a myspace a while back and made it private. She didnt know how to do anything on myspace. Well now shes almost 13 and she is completely addicted to myspace. More addicted to it then anyone of us i bet. She has atleast 5 myspaces of famous people that she made and is pretending to be them and telling everyone she is&& she talks to every single one of the people that Message her. I have told her manny times that she will end up talking to the Wrong person&& he will seriously hurt her.I told her that she has to be atleast 16 to be able to have a myspace and talk to people that are not her friends. She doesnt care. I have blocked myspace && she found away around it. I have told my parents and they tell her not to get on it. She pretty much tells them im not or screw off. She has no respect for anybody in my family and moesnt care what anyone tells her. Myspace has caused her to spend endless hours on the computer. SHe is on from the Second she wakes up to the second she goes to bed. And she will pretend to go to bed and then when everyone in the house is a sleep she will wake up and get on the computer. No matter the time of day. We have a password on the computer but she found it out By watching what my dad typed in.
Im sorry this is long but she needs help.
Please dont just say talk to herand tellher what will happen if she talks to the wrong person. Again she doesnt care.
&& if i tell my parents that she wakes up and gets on she will say no i don't even tho they believe me she doesnt get into any trouble. We usedto have this rule only 30 minutes on the computer at a time but she doesnt go by it but if say i was on the computer and she wanted on she would say kim you have been on for 30 minutes your turn is over.
Yea not cool.
Any answers or advice is wonderful. (link)
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you have many choices:
1) hack myspace (enjoy doing that one)
2) install a keylogger so you can monitor whats on your computer and if you happen to get her passwords and destroy her myspace so be it.
** those were jokes and for the tech savey**
3) Put a new password on the computer. If your parents wont do anything u need to. Get your dads pass and change it.
4) myspace sucks
5) find out all her accounts and tell tom or whoever the admin is to erase all her names.
6) what kind of block did u put on myspace? If you use the ip of the site she may have trouble figuring it out.
7) bitchslap your sister. she needs it.
8) if your computer doesnt already have limits, put limits on your computer so that someone can only be on for so many hours everyday.(there are millions of programs like that, find one)
9) Bust your sister on something else and get her punishment to be losing the computer.
10) tell the people she is impersonating that its her doing it and give her email account out to them.
11) LEARN SOME DAMN COMPUTER SKILLS.
***edit**
to answer your questions in order
1) I'm sry for insulting your intelect, how many programing languages do you know? If you indeed had enough computer skills you would write your own program to prevent your sister from being on for too long, or you could possibly go many other tech savy routes.
2) Some of my "retarded" ideas are for A)comic relief. B) probably ideas that would work but cant have to be figured out.
3) im not quite sure what u mean by "i used parental control" this is i believe imperfect tense which makes me wonder if you tried it after reading this or before reading this(this being my original post)
4) im quoteing this one "who can i tell famous people that she is impersonating them?" wtf. I believe you mean how. If you cant figure out how to tell something to a famous person....well for the matter of doing it, ever heard of fan mail? Possible posting on their real myspace which they usually advertise on their homepage to a website.
Heres an idea for you. Get your dad to change his password then force your parents to let you on. Use guilt, "you would let her on." And also asking tom to get rid of the accounts and limiting your sister were some of the more serious ideas i had.
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I KNOW IT'S LONG BUT I WOULD APPRECIATE ANY HELP
i use to be a very confident girl. i've never really had problems of thinking that i was ugly or anything like that. i mean, i'm not conceded but i always found myself not to be so bad-looking. i'm not overweight. but lately, i've found myself thinking that i just look fat in everything! everyone says that i look fine, but i still want to lose weight. i've tried absolutely every diet that you could imagine. when starving myself didn't work, i tried to eat normal, i did portion control. i did jenny craig. i did it all! i drink like a cuzillion water bottles a day and work out like a beast. but nothing....... what's wrong with me? no matter how hard i try i only seem to loose like a pound per month. it really sucks! sooo i have two questions that go with this problem:
what can i do to make myself lose this weight a bit faster? is there any magic diet or magic weight loss tea that i can have? i would feel so much more confident if i just lost a few pounds and if in about a week, I could look just a little thinner (special event). and why haven't i been able to lose them faster???
and my next question is:
why is it that i've stuck all of this in my head NOW????? i've never been a self-concious girl..... ever! everyone tells me i have a cute little figure. everyone tells me that i'm really pretty. why am i getting this way now? i just don't know why i'm so self-concious and why i don't see what everybody is telling me that I am?
help is appreciated. i thank you from the bottom of my heart
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this is obvious, you havent lost weight cause your body knows you dont need to lose weight. As to why you are going through this, well to guess would it would be media induced aka damn rap music :D. Actually you've come to a point in your life where your going to start questioning yourself mostlikely triggered by a mistake you made(or think u made) where you doubted yourself.
Odds are you dont need the diet so i feel no need of giving one.
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Let me start of by saying: I would not be asking this if I didnt already feel bad && want to change this. SO please, don't preach.
Down right to the point?
I stole my friend's new 300 dollar digital camera. (reminder: I know it was wrong, no lecturing)
While doing it, i KNEW it was wrong.
When she noticed it was gone, she cried.
It broke my heart.
I know God forgives, but my gut tells me..he won't.
I don't know, I want to send it back to her.
I think I will, as soon as I get her adress.
i CAN'T APOLOGIZE THOUGH. I CANT TELL HER.
I don't even know why I did it.
I love her. Im not jealous of her.
I don't need a digitial camera.
I don't want one.
But I did it anyway.
Just because I knew I could.
I knew I wouldn't get caught.
I'm evil. I'm a really bad person, I know.
Yet, I can't change it.
Here's where I need help.
- appologizing to God for this.
HOW? I knew it was wrong while doing it, I knew the devil was pushing me and God was telling me not to, yet I listened to the devil.
It's happened before. I never learn.
I'll always do the wrong thing.
So what? he's just going to keep forgiving me?
- how do I stop this
any ideas?
- this feeling
even if I give it back, I'll never forget what I did. seeing her cry. knowing how much it meant to her yet still taking it. how can i forgive myself for it? what should I do? I know myself very well. I wont change, I'll do it again. And I wont let myself forget it. I know I'll always feel bad because of this.
AHHH GOSSSHH just help me please, I feel awful.
what should I do? with everything?
this feeling is sick.
I want to die.
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return it by however you please "it got mixed in with my stuff" "i accidently took it"
"i stole it"
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i dont know what to say to my mother when she calls me a stupid lesbian, a worthless faggot, and other demeaning things. it doesnt hurt me like it used to (everyone knows my mom's a bitch, and that she's the epitome of insanity) but it makes me pretty mad. i really dont know what a can say back to her to get her to shut up and back off. bitch doesnt phaze her b/c people call her that everyday. i know i sound like i'm putting her down, but that's what she's always done to me since i was about 5 (i'm 16 now). anyway, i'd appreciate some suggestions on what i could do or say to make the situation better. i really cant take it anymore.
and please dont leave me an immature comment saying 'oh well why don't you just quit being bi' or somthing like that. it's just not that simple. (link)
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OK, look if you want your mom off you, give this a try: think back to a time when she did something too you when you were really young and she didnt know you were bi at that time. Ask her to remember that time then tell her thats the reason your bi. She will be stammering after that bit.
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Oso there was this guy I used to like. He does'nt like me now. I was getting emails on how to win guys over and it never worked with him. It's ALMOST final he will never like me like that. Next year is another year with new guys. Should I delete all the emails and pursue someone else without help, read all the emails and pursue an new guy, delete all the emails and pursue the old guy, or read all the emails and go after him still? Please help me this is soo stressful for me (link)
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Well if your emails are like mine you need penis and breast enlargement?
Well look into the emails as a sort of philisophical view on things. Grasp the information but be you and do what you want to and you feel is right. Dont hang on one guy for too long, go and play the field a bit, be open and if the oportunity arises, see if you still want him and make a choice. Life is all about fun.
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ok so i only want to lose 5-6 lbs in a short period of time any one know how if so please tell!!! (link)
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1st off let it be known that u are my hero (assuming u weigh more than 130) for wanting to only lose 5-6 pounds in (assumable) a realistic time period.
I would consult a dietician but i would say, replace one meal with cereal. So you would have breakfast, lunch and cereal for dinner, then next day just eat normal and the day after go to the breakfast, cereal for lunch and normal dinner. repeat this eating habit. Now work out for 30 hour everyday. 15 min walking, 5 min jumping rope, 5 min run.
Or you could cut off your arm that should account for 5lbs :p
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