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Guys..
Oso there was this guy I used to like. He does'nt like me now. I was getting emails on how to win guys over and it never worked with him. It's ALMOST final he will never like me like that. Next year is another year with new guys. Should I delete all the emails and pursue someone else without help, read all the emails and pursue an new guy, delete all the emails and pursue the old guy, or read all the emails and go after him still? Please help me this is soo stressful for me
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
BE YOURSELF. Do not act different than you would normally to attract a guy, because then he likes you for something you're not, and then, as you open up, they'll se something different, and it may go awry. If he doen't like you like that, move on, his mind may change later along the line, but it's his mind and only he can change it. Don't let guy stuff stress you out, if you're relaxed and confident in yourself guys are more likely to want you. :)
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Well if your emails are like mine you need penis and breast enlargement?
Well look into the emails as a sort of philisophical view on things. Grasp the information but be you and do what you want to and you feel is right. Dont hang on one guy for too long, go and play the field a bit, be open and if the oportunity arises, see if you still want him and make a choice. Life is all about fun.
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well this is kind of a tricky answer. if you feel like you gave it your all, there is nothing else you can do to pursue him, you gave him everything you had, then maybe you should keep him in the back of your mind and have fun this summer and think of guys again when school starts back up. if you feel like you dont need the emails then delete them. if you feel like you should keep them for reference, if you need them - then keep them. but, if your trying to forget this other guy, the emails will only remind you of how hard you tried but nothing worked for him to like you. sometimes deleting things, is a way of letting him go slowly, but you could also keep them to learn from your mistakes or use them in the future. [ that was the messed up answer ever lol ] im so sorry but i really hope i helped :)
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why stress over love it will happen if it is ment to i would still keep the emails but i would remember not to go pshyco on him and just be me no matter what they say
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The better question is: do you want the guys to like you for the e-mails, or for you? Be yourself and if you really need to, use the e-mails as 'guides'...not as answers or rules you have to follow. Don't stress out. Want to know what? Things might not have wored for you with the e-mails on the other guy because you might not have been yourself.
So I say be yourself, and go for whoever you want. Who are you better friends with? Ultimately, you should want the one you are best friends with in a relationship. That takes time, so don't expect to be in a relationship by September or something. You don't need any advice tips or relationship help like that - not if you know how to be yourself, be a friend, and remember that people need to like you for what you do on your own, not because of outside help like that. Not to say it isn't helpful, but it's not always useful to go by it too much, to the point where you aren't you again.
Try to be friends with the guy again, and apologize letting him know everything you did (with the e-mails). Why? Because he should know you for who you really are, and could give you the chance to start your friendship all over again. Hope that helped and good luck.
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screw the emails. be your self. don't try and be what the emails say. be your self around all the guys. don't try. they will come to you. the harder you try the harder it will be to get him. or any other guy. just got with the flow of things. don't stress your self out over guys. its not worth it.
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