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sluty?
alright im 16/f and im still a virgin. ive only done things with 2 guys but i have only had the opportunity to do things with 2 guys..the 2nd guy i didnt even like but idk..it just all happened.do you think thats kinda of sluty? and me & this guy have a little thing goin on but im afraid that when we hang out agian we'll go a little bit too far. i really like him and i know he likes me but i dont know if i can stop myself. im supposed to hang out with him and stay the night over his house cause he is my friends cousin and my friend is goin too. but idk..i just dont want it to happen and i dont know if it will or not or if i can be able to stop at just making out..what should i do?
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Use protection or you're gonna have a little rugrat running around and you won't have the time or energy for sex. Not to mention after pregnancy your body looks and feels like crap for a while.
At your age you should be able to control your hormones. Sounds to me like you're reaching out to these guys for attention and love. They just want sex, so remember that. Control yourself, and hopefully they will do the same.
If not, like I said - use PROTECTION and lots of it. Get on birth control, stock up on condoms, and make him pull out!
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Number one, you're not a slut. However, if you are feeling slutty, you might be uncomfortable with what you are doing. What I would do is set limits for yourself. Say you don't want to go farther than 2nd base. Keep that in mind while you are hooking up with this boy. If you have a set limit in you head, you not only know your comfort level but it might help you from doing things you might later regret. Hope this helps.
-cindy <3
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I don't think what you have done is slutty. And if you like this guy and he likes you, then who cares? The defintion of being slutty is sleeping around with tons of guys. You've only done things with two, and you are still a virgin. When the time comes and you guys are making out, you will know what is to far. Your body will let you know when things are getting to 'heavy'. So don't worry.
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Let's play a game called, "getting to know someone"
Instead of going down on a guy as soon as you think he looks kind of cute, go get a cup of coffee or lunch with him and talk about eachother to eachother. See if there's anything going for you guys other than teenage lust.
If it turns out that there is no emotional connection, and you still 'omg do things', then yes, you are slutty. Two "T's," by the way.
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Nah your not slutty. Sometimes people feel like they can't stop themselves either, it's not just you and your not a slut for saying that. If your going to make out with him do it in a place where you know you can't go any farther than that. Like, in a movie theatre or other places where your friends are close. Don't worry!!
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DUH ofcoures its slutty dyou expect me to say that it isnt? you didnt even KNOW the guy and you did it with him what do you expect him to do?hes gonna go brag about that to his freinds and your reputation is gonna go down the drains so stop doin it with so many ppl so your reputation wont be bad from all sides and your gonna get your self pregnent and have STDs.and if you get pregnent now your gonna regret it cuz your gonna be a child WITH a child and obviously both of yall need mothers to cry to and you wont be able to be a mother to this kid.
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It just sounds like your really horney with no self control. So basically you need disipline and to grow up possibly. The "i dont know if i can stop myself." part, that sounded slutty. The first part didnt. What really saved you was the "im 16/f and im still a virgin." Everything has a price. Fun at the expense of inocense isn't the way to go.
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For a girl your age, that isn't slutty, dont worry. But if your afraid to go any farther then making out, then try to stick with your friend more then him. Make sure you and your friend are occupied, and let her know your nervous about it so she doesnt leave you two alone on accident or something. If you guys all hang out together, make sure your friend is always there! That way you two wont be alone and I'm sure he wont want to make a move when his cousin is there.
hope this helps:)
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