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kissing?
Im 16 and i still havent madeout with anyone. All my friends are very experienced and i get uncomfortable when they talk about that kind of stuff becuz im very inexperienced in that department. I feel so stupid and young because i havent..i mean some 13 year olds have madeout..and im 16! Is this normal and what should i do!?
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No there is definetly nothing wrong with you so dont worry about it! I made out for my first time when i was 14 but pretty close to 15, but everyone is different. you just have to wait until you find the right person (corny i know, but true) Also, dont pressure yourself to make out with some random guy, thats not right..its fun but its better to wait until your ready. As for your friends, if they know that you are unexperienced then tell them that you feel uncomfortable when they talk about that stuff when you are around, it should work. Hope i helped
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Dear Kissing?'
First, there is absolutly NOTHING wrong with you for not being experienced in the sexual department at 16,when you mention 13 year olds that have*made out* have you noticed that many 13 year old now that do *fool around* also carry a diaper bag on their side and a baby on their hip? You and only you will know when you are ready to experience any form of that kind of contact, if you are not comfortable hearing the talk from friends simply either ask them to tone it down as it makes you uneasy becuase you have made the smart choice to wait till your ready, or just make an excuse and walk away when the talk starts. In any case just know that because you chose to wait, that makes you very smart and not at all in any way is there anything wrong with waiting, or with you! Stay true to yourself, no one else will if you don't.
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have a party or go to a party and then play spin the bottle and kiss someone! its easier because you dont have to worry about anything and its justl ike practice for the real thing
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Hi, I will just tell you that it's 100% normal to have not kissed or anything at your age. The question is, are you ready for all that now? Don't go out with anyone just because your friends do because it can be quite uncomfortable and also your boyfriend might think you really mean it. If you want it to happen, then you've got to create the opportunity. Talk to guys, join a club and things like that. Don't put high expectations on yourself. I'm sure that if you work on your confidence and get out more, you will meet a guy and start dating and etc. Don't rush into anything and never ever copy off what your friends do. You just won't feel comfortable with it in the end. Daniel.
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Well it is nothing to be embarrassed or feel stupid about. If you think of it this way, you have the advantage because you don't have to deal with the pressure of sex yet. kissing only leads inevitably to other things which you should only do with your husband/wife vice a versa.
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Yes its normal. Dont do anything different, your doing nothing wrong.
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