Heyy my name's Amber. I live in Utah.. im trusting ya'll not to stalk me or anything =]
i absolutely love helping people so anytime you need me im here for you dawgs
Member Since: June 28, 2006
Answers: 10
Last Update: June 28, 2006
Visitors: 1074
Favorite Columnists
icey0990
XxSunshinexX
|
| |
hi im 15 years old and i've been with m boyfriend for 6 month.
I made a mistake I tap kiss with my ex so I decided to tell my boyfriend he forgive me but hes been talking to me in a ruid way that really makes me feel bad and cry. im so depressed. When i ask him why hes treating me like this he said is because he can stop thinking of what I did with my ex he says he treats me like that because of what hes always thinking.. What should I do should i just leave him since he wants to treat me in a ruid way.. can you please give me some advice on what I can do on my situation?
thank you (link)
| |
alright well thats good taht you have an honest relashionship wiht your boyfriend, and it is also good that he forgave you. if you kissed you ex maybe that means you still have feelings for him. okay i dont want to sound mean but, your boyfriend does have a right to be mad. how would you feel if he went out and kissed his ex? im sorry that its sounding liek that, but its the truth. maybe you guys need to take a break from eachother for a little. he still has not right to be rude towards you. i hoped i helped =]
|
hi...my best friend in the whole world paul likes me and i like him!! But the problem is he has a girlfriend, tamarah, and we are best friends!!! If she finds out that we want to lip lock at this local club, she would kill me!! How can i keep my emotions with paul and keep my friendship with tamarah?
from confused connie (link)
|
alright well seems like you've got yourself a problem. so you and tamarah are best friends, and shes going out with this guy you like but he secretly likes you too. kay well that doesnt sound too good. i really dont want to sound mean about this but it may ruin yours and tamarahs friendship. guys can get in between girl really fast, and its not a good thing. to answer your question.. maybe you and paul can do like casual things you know, like hang out at eachothers houses, go to a local park, or put put golf even. it may sound stupid but if you keep it casual like that, tamarah might never catch on. you may not want to lip lock at a local club, who knows, one of her friends that you dont know about could be there. its better to do it at one of your guys' houses or somewhere a lot of people dont go.
write back i want to hear more from you
|
|
I met a guy (steven) through my cousin when i visited him last week...they are friends and he was over there when i came over. Well it obvious that he was into me..he was overly nice..always complemented me..and we hit it off. Well my cousin was mad when he found he out we were kind of into eachother. I guess he was being overprotective. But this guy lives an hr away and i miss him already..i really started to like him. And that was the first guy i liked in years! i dont have his number but he has a myspace. Should i forget about him or what? (link)
| |
dont forget about him, duh! who cares what your cousin thinks!
|
|
I'm 13 & I've been going out with a guy from my grad since May 3rd. We get along great & we were really good friends before we started dating, but now, I'm starting to notice that he seems like much more of a friend to me than a boyfriend & I don't really love him like I thought I did, but I still want to go out with him just becuase there is still some feelings left. It's summer & we haven't had a lot of time to hang out so that might be part of it, but still. When his last girlfriend broke up with him, he was crushed & didn't talk much at school & he wasn't anything like his normal self. I felt so bad for him, & I just can't do that to him like she did. I'm so confused. (link)
| |
well plan ahead and figure out a day that you can both do something and see if you still like him a lot. if you do then try to see him more often and if you dont then break up, but do it nicely and try to still talk to him a lot and be friends with him
|
There's a guy that used to go to my school but we weren't friends when he did, and now that he has moved, we both like eachother. He tells me that he loves me, but I don't know if he means that he's IN love with me, I say it back because I love him, but I don't know if I'm in love with him. How can I tell?
P.S.-We plan on being together when he moves back. (link)
| |
you'll know if your in love.. its honestly something that you cant explain. sorry that probably doesnt help much but you will know if you love him.
|
okay, so i'm 14/m, and she's 14/f, and i've known her for a really long time as a friend, and i've had a secret crush on her forever now.
so i said to her the other day, "hey, do you wanna go see a movie or something on friday" and she looks at me like i'm crazy. i've never really had a girlfriend before, and i think i totally f*cked up our relationship. she won't even talk to me anymore. anyone got some advice that could help? (link)
| |
awh okay..girls get uncomfortable when guys ask them to go out. make sure you talk to her about this, you dont want to ruin your guys's friendship over something like that. just act completely njormal about all of this just tell her how you feel and see what her reaction is. if she's rude about it maybe you shouldnt waste your time liking her. who knows deep inside she may like you back! i hope i helped. give me some feedback on if that worked or not.
|
I am Thai. 24 years old. Male.
I have been talking to this girl for about 2 months. We have a lot in common and seems like she enjoys talking to me as she laughs at my joke (she sais I am so funny). she always tells me about her stuffs like her works, friends,ect. Most of the times I am the one who call her for a talk almost everyday (I also text to her everyday). She calls me sometimes, but, recently, she asked me like: "why didn't you call me yesterday?" or "Why you call me so late? I'm waiting". I went out with her 2 times within last 2 weeks. Both times were great (just as I thought). I will go out with her again on next week. Today, this morning, she texted to me like: "Thanks for everything you have done for me and for good feelings you have been given to me". These are what happening now.
Let me take you back to 8 months earlier. I met her and I called her just like what I'm doing now. At the time she had boyfriend(s). She talked to me nicely and also with another guys. I think that time she was really flirting to me without thinking of any serious relationship. I asked her to go out several time, but she did not. After I paused talking to her for 5 months, she called me and told me that she broke up with her boyfriend. Thereafter, I have been talking to her again since then.
My questions are:
1) Does she really like me this time or just flirt to me again?
2) What does the SMS mean(Thank you for...)? It sounds like she wants to break up our relationship to me. It really bothers me.
Please advice me. I appreciate for all suggestions. Thanks. (link)
| |
well if she called you to tell you that she broke up with her boyfriend then i think shes giving you a hint taht shes interested in you. give her a chance. when she acts like shes mad at you for not calling her that means she cares. i dont know why girls are like this but seriously girls get mad over stupid things like that. and you just got to live with it. maybe you should call her more often, invite her to go see a movie, out to dinner more often, she will like it..make sure you're treating her like she should be treated. open doors from her and before going out to dinner pull her seat out for her, just little things like that mean the most to a girl. trust me
|
I had asked a question almost a week ago about my boyfriend dumping me out of the blue. Well, I find out today that he and one of my GOOD friends had sex.
Now, this is for anyone to answer. She thinks there is nothing wrong with it because we broke up. Tell me how FUCKED up it is that she would do that when she KNOWS I'm not over him and we broke up not even a week ago.
Right when I was just starting to be okay with us breaking up... This happens.
(link)
|
okay well she is definately not a friend worth having if she has done things like this to you in the past.. this has happened to one of my really close friends before but it was just making out so i say screw the other girl, she's messed up.
or.. if she really is a good friend and this is the first time she haS ever let you down like this then try talking to her.. maybe there is something you dont know??
hope i helped =]
|
|
Im 16 and i still havent madeout with anyone. All my friends are very experienced and i get uncomfortable when they talk about that kind of stuff becuz im very inexperienced in that department. I feel so stupid and young because i havent..i mean some 13 year olds have madeout..and im 16! Is this normal and what should i do!? (link)
| |
have a party or go to a party and then play spin the bottle and kiss someone! its easier because you dont have to worry about anything and its justl ike practice for the real thing
|
Okay welll... 13/f and i am getting a white discharge in my underwear and it does not smell good at all. I have started my period so its nothing like that i mean it might involve it but its not warning me or anything. Never have been sexually active either so i dont know how to clean better down there and have tht stuff stop coming out. also. how are you and what are u supposed to be cleaning with down in tht region?Does it help to shave?
(link)
| |
i think its perfectly normal..what you need to do to clean that little mess up is a q-tip and some water..rub against where the discharge is coming from it should clear up if you do this everyday.. let me know how it goes
|
|