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hi...my best friend in the whole world paul likes me and i like him!! But the problem is he has a girlfriend, tamarah, and we are best friends!!! If she finds out that we want to lip lock at this local club, she would kill me!! How can i keep my emotions with paul and keep my friendship with tamarah?
from confused connie
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alright well seems like you've got yourself a problem. so you and tamarah are best friends, and shes going out with this guy you like but he secretly likes you too. kay well that doesnt sound too good. i really dont want to sound mean about this but it may ruin yours and tamarahs friendship. guys can get in between girl really fast, and its not a good thing. to answer your question.. maybe you and paul can do like casual things you know, like hang out at eachothers houses, go to a local park, or put put golf even. it may sound stupid but if you keep it casual like that, tamarah might never catch on. you may not want to lip lock at a local club, who knows, one of her friends that you dont know about could be there. its better to do it at one of your guys' houses or somewhere a lot of people dont go.
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Oh gosh has this happened to me! The best thing to do is don't do anything with paul, your friendship with tamarah is more valuable then some guy's friendship. Besides, there are plenty of other guys out there for you. If you do something with paul then it would be a huge mess. What's better, you getting some guy, or you hurting hurting your best friend while she is completely furious at you. Good luck! Much love, Neelz
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Simple.
Whos more important, a boy, or your 'best friend?'
Maybe, your question should be, "how can I be a better friend" You shouldn't be doing that to someone, who is your best friend. Think about her feelings. Do you know how hurt she'd be? If she found out someone kissed her boyfriend? & then to top it off, its her best friend? Yeah.. if I were you, I'd think of others, before yourself. & i gurantee a year from now, you won't even be speaking to 'paul'. But, I'm sure you'll still be friends with tamarah. yeahh... hope I helped.
Sorry, if I came off a tad rude, but I was being honest. Because, if Paul was your boyfriend.. & tamarah did that to you.. you would be really mad & really upset.
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You have to remember that Paul and Tamarah are boyfriend and girlfriend. If she catches you guys flirting or kissing, it will all be over. You let your hormones go crazy and just stole your best friends boyfriend, and she probably wouldn't be able to trust you again. I'm sure that Paul would break up with Tamarah if he truly didn't like her. When they break up, wait awhile, and then see if you still want to hook up with him. Don't hook up with him right after they break up. Don't let your feelings for Paul show. You can like him, but right now wouldn't be the best idea.
Hope I helped!
♥ SiMA
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My best friend happens to think her boyfriend and I like each other (we're always teasing each other and stuff). Neither of us do, but she has litterally said that if we wanted to go out or something, that yes she would be upset, but if we were meant to be, shes not going to stand in the way.
Maybe you should talk with Tamarah. First ask her how her relationship is, if she says its not going well, well then your in good luck. If she says its great maybe you need to tell Paul to have a talk with her. He doesnt have to say u like each other, just that maybe he and tamarah should just be friends.
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