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Broken all over again.
I had asked a question almost a week ago about my boyfriend dumping me out of the blue. Well, I find out today that he and one of my GOOD friends had sex.
Now, this is for anyone to answer. She thinks there is nothing wrong with it because we broke up. Tell me how FUCKED up it is that she would do that when she KNOWS I'm not over him and we broke up not even a week ago.
Right when I was just starting to be okay with us breaking up... This happens.
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pretty much sounds like you have this one figured out.
It is fucked up.
and it sounds like she's a sleazy best friend.
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okay well she is definately not a friend worth having if she has done things like this to you in the past.. this has happened to one of my really close friends before but it was just making out so i say screw the other girl, she's messed up.
or.. if she really is a good friend and this is the first time she haS ever let you down like this then try talking to her.. maybe there is something you dont know??
hope i helped =]
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Well i think that it is very messed up what your friend did to you.. She thinks there is nothing wrong with it? i mean does she not understand that you went out with him and she shouldnt have done that even if it was two years after you guys broke up... Even if she did like him or anything true friends dont do that.. You should either talk to her about how you feel and how you think it was wrong.. if you want to still be friends with her..but i think that you should not even waste your time on her because a real friend wouldnt even think about doing anything like that.. and im sorry to hear about what happend.. try not to let them get you down about it.. i know that sounds impossible.. but just think.. there not worth your time. your too good for them.. i mean they both seem really like assholes.. try not to think about it too much.. cheer up.. :)
hopee i helpedd
<3 kayy <3
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Its completely clear that this girl is not a true friend! There is something completely wrong with that! She must know that you are not yet oever him. More than likely she knows she messed up and is too immature to admit it or is just that dumb and really thinks she did nothing wrong. Don't worry things will get better eventually.
I suggest finding a new friend!
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shes not a friend at ALL!! if she knew you still had feelings for him then she shouldnt ofdone that...you can do better honey, you dont need her!
MALL0RY ♥ DREW
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she is not a friend ex bf are off limits to friends it is not right i would definitly talk to her and if she says the same thing i would not be her friend that is not right!.
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Write her off as a "friend" honey. She's a backstabber. Under no circumstances is a bf supposed to have sex with your ex. That's just the unspoken rule. I'd tell her where she could shove him...right up her ass. They deserve each other. I'm sorry this happened to you, I know it hurts some kinda' bad....
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Listen ALL GUYS ARE A-HOLES i repeat ALL GUYS ARE A-HOLES no guy in this entire planet is not an a-hole because somewhere in each guy there is an a-hole in them some show it more than others i try not to be an a-hole but sometimes i am and i cant help it and you know what he probably lost the best thing in the world which was probably having you because you would have cared for him so much and if he had sex with your GOOD friend she aint that good of a friend and if you ever need to talk about anything else IM me on aim my s/n is grkpimpva im almost on all the time ( I have no life)
Much Love
~Alex~
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it's wrong what she did, but it was YOUR bf. he shouldn't have done it either & i'd probably be more mad at him, but you're right, she shouldn't have done that. i would say to get away from both of them. no friend does that. there's no excuses either. you can't change it, since it already happened but the best thing would be to juss not be friends with her er him. it's your decision because they're your friends, but really, what kind of friend is that?? if she is going to have sex with your ex bf, not even a week after, don't you think she would do other things too?? probably. plus, she doesn't think there's anything wrong with it. that shows you a lot. why?? she's not even guilty about it, meaning what she did she thought was right. that's messed up in itself. you definately don't need friends that would do that.
-hope that helped!♥
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