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To stay or not to stay?
I'm 13 & I've been going out with a guy from my grad since May 3rd. We get along great & we were really good friends before we started dating, but now, I'm starting to notice that he seems like much more of a friend to me than a boyfriend & I don't really love him like I thought I did, but I still want to go out with him just becuase there is still some feelings left. It's summer & we haven't had a lot of time to hang out so that might be part of it, but still. When his last girlfriend broke up with him, he was crushed & didn't talk much at school & he wasn't anything like his normal self. I felt so bad for him, & I just can't do that to him like she did. I'm so confused.
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well plan ahead and figure out a day that you can both do something and see if you still like him a lot. if you do then try to see him more often and if you dont then break up, but do it nicely and try to still talk to him a lot and be friends with him
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It might be time to break up with him, but do it nicely. Just be like, "I think maybe we should just be friends, because I don't think dating is right for us right now."
-You guys can just hang like normal friends and know you tried the whole dating thing, but it didn't work out.
hope it helps
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Okay dont keep dating him, if you really dont like him like that. And can I please add that your thirteen, and its not healthy to be in an intense relationship at this age, so just becareful. If you dont like him dont lead him on, maybe he feels the same way you do, that your just friends. But then again its always a plus to feel like your best friends with a guy when your dating him. Its comfortable. And maybe it is since you havent seen him that much since its summer, so .. what do you do? call him to hang out, or to go do something, seroiusly :)!
And dont look at what happened when he broke up with his last girlfriend, you are not her, and he is not the same as he was then. He may be perfectly fine with breaking up this time.
You need to be fair to him though.
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