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Dose she like me or just flirting?
I am Thai. 24 years old. Male.
I have been talking to this girl for about 2 months. We have a lot in common and seems like she enjoys talking to me as she laughs at my joke (she sais I am so funny). she always tells me about her stuffs like her works, friends,ect. Most of the times I am the one who call her for a talk almost everyday (I also text to her everyday). She calls me sometimes, but, recently, she asked me like: "why didn't you call me yesterday?" or "Why you call me so late? I'm waiting". I went out with her 2 times within last 2 weeks. Both times were great (just as I thought). I will go out with her again on next week. Today, this morning, she texted to me like: "Thanks for everything you have done for me and for good feelings you have been given to me". These are what happening now.
Let me take you back to 8 months earlier. I met her and I called her just like what I'm doing now. At the time she had boyfriend(s). She talked to me nicely and also with another guys. I think that time she was really flirting to me without thinking of any serious relationship. I asked her to go out several time, but she did not. After I paused talking to her for 5 months, she called me and told me that she broke up with her boyfriend. Thereafter, I have been talking to her again since then.
My questions are:
1) Does she really like me this time or just flirt to me again?
2) What does the SMS mean(Thank you for...)? It sounds like she wants to break up our relationship to me. It really bothers me.
Please advice me. I appreciate for all suggestions. Thanks.
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hey thai. ehh, she might really like you, but i don't exactly tink dating her would be the best option. she sounds like she flirts too much. and like someone said before, it is weird how after 5 months she just decides to call you because her and her boyfriend break up and comes running to you. i think she sounds like she's not too serious and if you were to date her, you wouldn't be the only guy she's flirting with. but good luckkk babe.♥
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Hi, what I find a bit strange that she likes you but then has no contact with you for 5 months because she had a boyfriend but then as soon as she breaks up with her boyfriend she wants to be with you. It does sound as though she just wants to be with you because she wants a bit of fun until she might meet another guy, and it all starts again. I could be wrong. I think she does like you but she might be like that with all the guys. And the thanks for everything you've done does sound as though she would never see you again. Talk to her as usual, but just be aware of what could happen. If she really liked you then she would only want to be with you. Daniel.
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well if she called you to tell you that she broke up with her boyfriend then i think shes giving you a hint taht shes interested in you. give her a chance. when she acts like shes mad at you for not calling her that means she cares. i dont know why girls are like this but seriously girls get mad over stupid things like that. and you just got to live with it. maybe you should call her more often, invite her to go see a movie, out to dinner more often, she will like it..make sure you're treating her like she should be treated. open doors from her and before going out to dinner pull her seat out for her, just little things like that mean the most to a girl. trust me
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Dear Thai,
It sounds to me like it is very possible she is interested in you. However, it also sounds like she may not know her own mind. Perhaps she enjoys the attention of several guys and is too immature for a real relationship at this time.
If it is an exclusive relationship you are wanting with her, I suggest that you clearly tell her that and ask her what exactly she is wanting from you. It may sound scary to be so blunt as it puts you in a vulnerable position but right now you are putting yourself in an even more vulnerable position. If you believe that she is not interested in you at this time anyway, then you really have nothing to lose by making your intentions known to her and asking to clarify hers. If she says that she does not want what you are looking for or if she waffles then I would recommend cutting your losses and looking for someone who wants what you want. I wish you all the best in this; I know how painful these things can be.
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Hi Thai! =]
Wow. I get a feeling that she does like you for the reason of: her wanting to talk to you because it takes time and thought of what you're going to say to someone on the phone. Also the text she sent you i honestly think she's not trying to end your realationship with you, but she's trying to explain her feelings which..are really good :)!I would have thought she was loyal, because when you asked her out 8 months ago she declined your invitation because she had a boyfriend..but the only reason i get a negative vibe is because the whole flirty attitude and boyfriend(s) deal.
So in conclusion, in my opinon i would def. be straight foward with her. As hard as it might seem just asking her, "so are we actually in a relationship?" could relive alot of hard thinking you've had to do lately, and also depending on her response could lead you to your next action!
YOURS&TRUELY
AR
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I don't think she's serious. At all. I mean, she flirted with you while she had a boyfriend, possibly more than one. That right there should tell you something about her character--what if she were your girlfriend, and she flirted with other guys? Everything she's done so far shows that she's basically just playing with you. My advice is to end everything with her, because I think you're going to get hurt in the end. You need to find someone better, someone who isn't going to fool around with your emotions. Good luck! ;-)
-Lea
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