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I Need Help With My Boyfriend
I really need help. My bf doesnt trust me and its really hard. Im dealing with it but i want to know what to do to help him trust. Im not really a person who asks for help but i could do with some advice. He has good reasons not to trust, really serious reasons and stuff, but i want to help him. I love him so much but hes always accusing me of cheating, sleeping with people, etc. I think hes getting better but i dont know what else to do to help. Please help, tell me what i can do.
thanks
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i know people always hate this answer but its always the true one:
your gonna just have to wait. good trust comes in good time. i lied to my parents once about not going out with this guy whom i really was going out with...it wansnt a serious lie, but it showed them i was a liar. within a year, i NEVER did that, but whenever i talked about guys, it never seemed like they were listening, like it never mattered. within about 2 years, they seemed like they were listening.. and at three years i was forgivin. i know that in the back of their minds they wont forget that i lied to them. trust takes time to repair. if you dont like this answer.. then dont rate. bcuz i dont know if what i said helped... but its true.
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Well part of being in a relationship is trust. You have to learn to trust each other. So does your boyfriend not trust you, because you did something? Or is it personal, like he's been lied to and cheated on before many times? Because if thats the case, you had nothing to do with the other people that have cheated on him or have hurt him. He needs to realize that not all people have bad intentions, and he'll never know if he doesnt learn to trust. If he loves you and cares for you he will make more effort to trust you.
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