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what gets nail polish off besides nail polish remover. lol

Ermmm...white spirit?

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Mkay.. im 13 and i am really falling in love with my boyfriend. Like i want to be with him for the rest of my life and ive never felt this way before. How do i know if this is really true love? Is it to eairly to have a serious relationship?

p.s. my aunt found her true love in Jr.High. they got married so maybe it will happen to me!

I think I'm in love, I'm 13. Anything and everything is possible. And by the way, if you're in love, then believe me you'll know about it.

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on a minimum, how much are u supossed to drink daily?

Well you're supposed to drink 6-8 pints A DAY but that's not going to happen realistically is it?? So 4-5 should do it.

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well me and my boo have been together a year now..and all we do is kiss and makeout but i dont have a problem with that (savin myself 4 marriage)..i was juss wondering anyne have any fun kissin ideas..like if ur bf/gf kissed a certain way that was juss beyond a perfect kiss..i juss wanna spice up our relationship withoutleading to gettin into each others pants!

Well, this might sound stupid, but me and my boyfriend tend to eat things out of each other's mouths. Not like a full meal or anything but things like sweets. It sounds gross but it can be fun!!!

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What do you do when you feel like the whole world is against you!!!! thanks!

Take a look, you've probably turned your back on the world.

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what is love? how do u know when u r in love? please help cause i have wanted to know for a long time

It depends on who you are.

To me, love is a bond between 2 people that is very very hard to break. When you love someone you will do **ANYTHING** for them. I mean anything. If you truly love someone then you will happily lay down and die for them.

Actually BEING in love feels different for everyone but when you are in love, you will know about it.

I have only been in love once (still love them) and this is what it feels like for me:
I smile whenever I see them, I can't help it.
Whenever they come up in conversation (which is quite often if I have anything to do with it) I talk and talk and talk about them. I am always asking peopl if he's said anything about me and I get my friends to call him and talk about me with him. I text him all the time, (not kidding, 200 just from him last month) I get butterflies around him, I think about him all the time and I miss him if I haven't seen him for an hour.

That's what it's like for me, it's different for everyone though.

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this kid i like b4 i met him seemed like this reeally nice kid really umm perfect...he still seems that way he just swears alot...dont get me wrong im notlik goodie tooshoes...but i didnt think he would so im kinda shaky about everything else unless hes changing to sound tough to impress me..idk..? help please

Everybody swears. Some people more than others. My boyfriend (Sorry, I use him as an example in like, every single answer.)He swears way too much for my liking but that's just the way he is. If everything else with this guy is perfect, then don't let this little problem ruin things. Point out to him that he swears a lot and that you don't like it but don't go on about it. Just don't let his swearing pass on to you and you start doing it loads too.

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do guys ( in general ) prefer small thin and petite girls or tall model type girls ?

Well I'm slim and petite and my boyfriend likes me just fine. Maybe it's cause I have quite a curvy figure as well (breasts and ass.) I think it all depends on the guy really, although quite a few of them like curves.

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when should it be okay to have sex?

When you have reached the legal age (16 in England) and when you feel mentally AND physically ready.

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i just recently had sex and im worried im pregnet...what are some signs that your pregnet?

You might feel bloated or sick and you will probably miss a period. Go to a pharmacy and buy a pregnancy test to make sure.

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theres a party tom. night that my friends from my old school invited me too.... see i havent seen them since lik a year ago... do u think ill be left out? Should i go? or should i hang with my friends from my school

Go to the party!!!!!!!! You'll get to know your old friends all over again and might meet some new ones. If you feel left out then you can just go home, you have nothing to lose, go!!!!! It'll be fun!!!!

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hey its me again.. Chris's girlfriend wants to beat me up tonight. But i know and she knows i can take her.should i really fight her. Shes seriously a pussy. SHe looks like pinocio. Uggly too. IT looks like a fat car ran over her. Seriously. YOud pughe if u saw her. But yet she took Chris away from me. I was talking to His younger brother last night for his birthday and he told me that Chris thinks im a hoe and a freak. but yet i didnt do shit to him. Hes being so mean to me lately. so are all his friends. But most dont like him or Amanda Nick or nikki. Theyre gay. But anyways, what should i do? Should i just beat her up? Another question.. i like this guy im going to fright nights with this Saturday.. my friend also likes him.. should i try to pull something off with him or not?
sry gotta go.. bells gonna ring
Christine

Don't beat her up. She's not worth it, it'll only lead to trouble. If Chris hates you, which he probably doesn't really really really, then why let yourself get lost in the past? You are 15 years old. 15. You have your whole life ahead of you...years and years of it, why waste the best years of your life on an ex??? Go with this guy, see how things work out, live life, have fun!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And don't let yourself hate Chris's girlfriend, there's too much hate in the world already.

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hey.. Well this weekend.. i found out Saturday night that Chris and Amanda are going out. Now this Friday coming, his parents want me to go to his away football game with them. I guess cause they like me and Not Amanda. His mom was trying to get him to go back out with me. I was in my friends truck with my other friends and his girlfriend.. We were sitting there and Amanda and Chris came over to the truck to see if id say n e thing. Im guessin theyre afraid of me becuase they brought a shot gun. If i would have said n e thing im guessin they would have shot me. Friday night i was gonna hit her but i didnt. She knows is i see them do anything im gonna beat the piss out of her. Then saturday night i found out that Chris's younger brother who is 1 year younger than i am (14).. well i found out that he likes me again. I went out with him b4 and hes such a sweetheart. Friday night his friends told me that another kid likes me.. Ethaan Anderson.. I was talking to My one friend Megan Rhondes and she said not to go out with Ethaan and i should go out with Corey.(Chris's Brother) i dunno what to do. I mean after me and Chris broke up.. if i go out with another guy im gonna feel like a major slut. Should i go out with him or not? I usually go to my mom or sister about these things but my whole family is fighting so i came to you again because i fell like i trust you enough. But i seriously need help. I dont no what to do anymore.

thanks... Christine

Awwwww honey. This is going to sound stupid but you have to go with what you think's right. It hasn't worked out with you and Chris so you're upset and confused and you want someone to be there to catch you when you fall. Don't give Ethaan the cold shoulder cause a friend said you shouldn't go out with him, everyone told me not to go out with Jon but I did and although we have so many problems, I'm better off for it. If you like Ethaan in that way, date him. If you like Corey more, date him. Follow your heart and go with what you feel's right. You wont be a a slut, I went out with this one guy for ages then broke up with him, 3 weeks later I went out with someone else then 8 hours after that i went out with his best friend.

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I have to babysit tomorrow and the next day and i get really bored i have to watch my lil bro 4 lyk 6 hours and i wanted to no if u have n e ideas about how to keep me not so bored?

Do homework (is it called that in America???) Read, do something creative-paint, draw etc, make cakes, go on the internet, go for a walk (pushing your little brother in a pram or something) listen to music, watch tv, clean your bedroom, make-over your bedroom (within reason-like move furniture and stuff.) Invite a friend over-if you're allowed, experiment with hairstyles and make-up, practice any musical instrument(s) you play, sort out all your clothes and alter any that don't fit (like add things to them, customize them etc) Make a tape or a CD of all your favourite songs, play with any pets that you have, write, play computer games, watch movies, sort out the garden (if you have one.) USE YOUR IMAGINATION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! But make sure you don't neglect your brother. :)

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What age do you consider to be old enough to have a baby. Not like.. "when you feel you are ready" or anything like that.. i mean like.. 16.. 20..

how old do you think someone should be before they have a baby?

I think they should have a baby when they have a stable homelife of their own and they are mature enough to look after a child. The age changes from person to person but I reckon that by the time you have reached your mid-20's.

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can a 18 year old get in trouble for dating a 13 year old?

Yes, they can. Especially if they are having sex.

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I am not racest at all..but I have a problem..Okay well I have a really good friend..hes black..im white..I have liked him for about a month now..I really like him..hes all I think about! I found out a week ago that he liked me and wanted to go out with me..he even wrote the sweetest peom ever about me..I cant go out with him because my mom would flip if i went out with a black person..she just doesnt believe in black and white..and neither do some of my friends..It just wouldnt work..I really like this kid and I need to get over him! what should I do?! please help...

Do you have a problem with mixing black and white? No? Then date him.


Colour is only skin deep, don't ruin your chances with someone YOU like because a few people are racist.

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answer this truthfully cuz i dont want all the just be urself crap

what turns guys on? lke what clothes, makeup, hair, body, personality! Thanks i rate good

I don't think I was a guy the last time I checked but I have lots of guy friends who like this:

*Nice figure (big bust)
*Long hair-not *too* long
*Hair down
*Not loads of make-up
*Easy going...not jealous and posessive
*Not really girly/pink
*Casual clothes-not too tarty but not as if you haven't made any effort
*Touchy feely...guys love it when you make a move on them and snuggle up to them/be really close/touchy feely


But remember, it varies from guy to guy...don't change yourself to fit what everyone says turns guys on...if you're with the right guy then he'll be turned on by you no matter how you act.

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okay im 13/f and me and my boyfriend have been going out for 1 month and like 9 days and we havent kissed yet and i want him to make the first move but i want him to do it and get it over with and like yeah and his friend said that i should just do it but im scared...what should i do?

I am in EXACTLY the same situation. In fact, I've been going out with my boyfriend for...1 month and 2 days. I am just as scared as you.


I don't wanna mess up or anything. Is that how you feel? I'm not going to say that you should just go ahead and make a move, cause I know that it's not as easy as that.


What I'd do is drop hints and get friends to drop hints that you want to kiss him and things like that. OR, this might be more effective, go to the movies or watch a movie on the couch together or something and get reaaaally close to him. It'll happen naturally when the time comes.


Let me know how it all goes.

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well.. i need some advice.. i dunno what to do. Im seriously in love with Chris. You no the one i told you about. Well i just turned 15(september 25) and hes gonna be 17.(March) I lost him because his cousin told him to dump me. Now his girlfriends cousin likes him and i think he likes her. They were the ones that got him to go out with. then they turned around and stabbed me in the back by telling Chris to dump me.. What do i do. Icant lose him. I cant live without him. I am so scared that i cant get him back. what do i do to try to? Im goin to c him play football tonight and Amanda is gonna be there.. that girl
Well theyre gonna be hanging out at Fort days tomorrow and afterther game tonight. I was gonna beat the piss out of her but right now i dont think its a good idea. Should i? shes scrwney and small and cant fight. But shes gonna take my man!
Please help me... I need help by 5:00 thanx much

Christine

Think about it...is beating her up really going to make things better???


Sure, it'll make you feel better for a minute, but then you'll feel terrible. It's not going to make chris fall in love with you is it?



What you need to do is face reality.


Not everything in life works out and this might be one of those things. See how it goes, act normal and play it cool.

Maybe some day he'll turn around and relise what he wants is you, until then you need to live life to the full.

If that doesn't happen then you'll find someone someday who treats you right and in time you'll get over Chris.

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