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Mkay.. im 13 and i am really falling in love with my boyfriend. Like i want to be with him for the rest of my life and ive never felt this way before. How do i know if this is really true love? Is it to eairly to have a serious relationship?
p.s. my aunt found her true love in Jr.High. they got married so maybe it will happen to me!
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I think I'm in love, I'm 13. Anything and everything is possible. And by the way, if you're in love, then believe me you'll know about it.
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that's always a possibility but wait things out before you do something rash like have sex or move in together... and yeah it is possible.. i know a couple (both of them are like very good friends of mine) and they've been going out for like 2 years and 2 months.. they're so sweet and cute together and they've techincally gotten married.. like his next door neighbor is a minister and he married them.. it's cute lol.. but anyways... just remeber that guys CAN come and go.. so wait things out and see where things go between you two.. it's great if you've found your first love or your true love but just wait.
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i think it is a little to young to love..maybve u just really really like him, i know how u feel, it fewels like he is just there to protect u, but no, i dont think it is love
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I know you think that the whole "met my love in junior high" thing sounds so romantic (ps-congrats to your aunt! what she has is truly special!) but just be careful. Dont let yourself get swept up and get into trouble. Remember:Dont let anyone do something you dont wanna do, even if you love them. I hope your relationship works out for you sweetie! Goodluck!
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One in a billion couples might get together in junior high, get married, and stay married. I'm not trying to be a downer, but I am trying to give you a realistic picture.
Can you be in love? Sure.
Is this the only sort of love there is? Nope.
Love is the sort of thing that deepens as you grow - each relationship you have will take you to new levels and understandings of love. While you are in love now, it's not the same sort of love you'll experience when you are older. That's not a bad thing; humans grow. It's what we do.
Personalities haven't even been completely formed until your mid-twenties; if you don't yet fully know who you are, it's impossible to know who you will end up with.
Your aunt was lucky. But remember this - whether you DO end up with this guy, or an even better one down the road - you're lucky too. We all end up with someone who is genuinely right for us.
Good luck.
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Your never too young to fall in love. Only you can answer this question. No one can tell if it's true love. When your in love, you just know you are. Do you think about your boyfriend before you go to sleep? Is he the first thing you think about when you wake up? It's love. And who knows? You might end up marrying him. But you honestly can't think about that. Most high school sweethearts don't get married and if they do, they break up. Your only 13 too, there are soo many guys out there. But, good for you. Being in love is the best feeling in the world. You just found it at an earlier age.
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Wow, your lucky! You can fall in love at ANY age. Ignore those people who are telling you it's only a "crush" because if your heart tells you your in love, then most likly you are! but the thing is, i was like that too, and i got dumped! after 8 months..so unless he feels the same way about you, then dont get too attached. because if he does dump you.. you'll be really hurt. but just remember you have you hole like to find the right one!
*hope i helped*
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no you're not too young. Corey fell in love with Tapanga in like kindergarden ;-) no i'm just kidding. Love knows no age.
True love is when you would die for your significant other. You can't see yourself with out them. Sometimes you think about them so much you forget what they look like (don't ask). You think about them more times in a day than you do yourself. You're your happiest when you're with them.
No, you're definately not to young. Just don't go crazy with it.
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First of all, age is a state of mind, not being. Just because you're thirteen doesn't mean you can't be in love. I mean, I'm sixteen - I'm only three years older than you, and my boyfriend and I are totally and completely in love. It's not "too early", sweetheart. ^_^
If it's really love, you'll know. Every fiber of your being will scream to you that this guy is the one you need to stay with. I knew I was in love when I couldn't picture myself with anyone else. I love this guy way too much to even think about other guys.
When you stop looking at the way other guys look, you know it's love. Lol. But seriously - you'll know if it's real. It's awesome that you feel this strongly about your guy.
Just make sure you don't get too carried away too soon! Wait and consider all possibilities and all that before you jump into anything.
Congrats on finding a great guy for you.
Hope this helps!
-Siren =)
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If you found the guy you love at 13, and you stick with him for the rest of your life& get married..you are one VERY lucky girl! That doesn't happen very often at ALL! You asked "How do I know if this is really true love?"..you'll just know..No one can tell you except yourself. There is no age on love, but not very many 13 yr olds know what LOVE is, they just say "I love you" b/c that's what everyone else is doing& b/c they THINK they are in love, but they're not. On the other hand, if you ARE in love at this age and you do end up getting married, I wish you best of luck! Hope everything works out for ya!
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you know it is true love because you say you wanna spend your whole life with your boy friend and you love him so much no it isn't too early to have a serious relationship because you love him and he loves you and that usally means that you to are totally in love with eachother.
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13 YEARS OLD, IS WAY TOO YOUNG TO HAVE SUCH A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP. YOUR FEELINGS AREA WHAT IS KNOWN AS A CRUSH! AND THESE FEELINGS ARE VERY REAL. YOU WILL HAVE ALOT OF CRUSHES, THROUGH OUT YOUR LIFE, WHEN YOU FIND THE RIGHT ONE, YOU WONT HAVE TO ASK IF IT REALLY TRUE LOVE, YOU'LL JUST KNOW!
AND AT 13 YOU HAVE YOUR WHOLE LIFE AHEAD OF YOU, DONT BE IN SUCH A HURRY TO GROW UP, ITS NOT WHAT IT CRACKED UP TO BE IN THE ADULT WORLD! AND YOU WOULD MISS OUT ON SO MUCH OF LIFE AND WHAT IT HAS TO OFFER IF YOU GET INTO A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP TOO EARLY. BE YOUNG, HAVE FUN, USE YOUR BEST JUDGMENT, AND JUST ALLOW THINGS TO FALL INTO PLACE, IF YOU TRY TO FORCE THEM, THEY WONT TURN OUT TO BE POSSITIVE!
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I'd say stick with him, don't get too carried away, I'm not saying he's not a great guy, but who knows, that happened to my best friend...3 times... so just stick with him until at least highschool before getting really serious, mk?
Good Luck!!
{*{Ally}*}
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because im not you- i really cant tell you if you're in love or not. depending on how long you've gone out can determine if you really are in love. if it's been like a week.. i wouldnt count on it- if its for a really long time, then you never know! some people are very lucky and find their person really young... if he feels the same way about you- you've got it made ;) i cant tell you if you are or not, you'll just "know" at some point... it's like a woman super power lol...=] -ask_anything
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Oh my goodness! I'm in love too!, I've been in love with this guy since i was 13 and i KNOW it's love. Don't be afraid to love girl! Age aint nothin but a number! Good luck!
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I know a couple who started going out when they were 13, and it's been almost a year and they are still together. It depends on how long you've going out. If you've only been going out for 1 or 2 months, it's too early to be thinking about marriage. If it's been 1 or 2 years, then I think you are in a serious relationship. Don't mention marriage to him though. He might get freaked out and run away. Wait for him to mention it.
So basically, yes, I think it could be true love.
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