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HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hi i was just wondering where i can find really cheap accessories. that look nice and expensive not like claires.. bangles, danbgling earrings, rings, and stuff like that like the preppy jewelery.. oh and i was wondering where i can find the pointy dress up heel with a low heel its really like skinny.. some websites where i can find those shoes..

and also where do you find the same type of heel but the front looks like flip flop

thanxxx so muchhhhh

forever 21 && charlotte russe have a ton of jewelry!... everything you can think of! for the shoes- target, bakers, kohls & most department stores. shoes with a kitten heel that look like flip flops... last summer they were at target and most places but since its january, they haven't hit my area yet.

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i just got my period, but the thing is, i got it 2 weeks ago, too. im really worried, im not expecting it for another 2 weeks! whats wrong?

it's just irregular. it happens to everyone so don't be scared!

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What's a good face/moisturizer for your face?

What have you guys tried that works really good??

Thanks so much. :o)

♥

Curel lotion works great for me!

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Okay Please help me on this..

How many inches are in 3/4 yard??

How many cups are in one gallon??

and

How many centimeters in a kilometer??

I rate high!! Thanx

36 inches are in a yard so 3/4 of it would be 27 inches.
think of it this way... take 36 and divide it by 4. then multiply that number by 3.

i'm not sure about the rest so i'll leave that to somebody else.

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i am certainly not a fat girl, but i am not the skinniest either. i am pretty happy with the way i look, but i want to drop a few pounds/make my stomach flatter. i already know exercises for that & i do them every night, so that's not my problem. the real problem is that i am addicted to chocolate. i want to be able to eat some chocolate maybe once a week for dessert, but i wind up having it everyday, sometimes more then once a day. it's not like i am a horse eating until i pop, but i tell myself i am not going to eat it but then an hour later my mouth starts to water & i can't resist some. i need a way to stop this temptation. how can i take control & not give in to having chocolate? what works for you or other people you know? i need some good tips, so if you have an idea that would be great! thank you!

i know how addicting it is!! just don't have any around... don't buy chocolate. or if you want to be smart about it, have some limits...have chocolate but only one funsize treat a day so you won't be deprieved of it.

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Okay well I know you guys aren't doctors but we can't get ahold of ours right now so I thought I'd ask.


My friend was at baseball practice this morning and got hit with a ball coming out of a pitching machine at 70 mph right in the forehead. He had to go to the hospital and eveything.


Well, he's over at my house now because no one is home at his house and he can't fall asleep for more than 1 1/2 hours at a time. They told him to keep his head elevated from his body to try to reduce the swelling.


He started complaining that when he uses a pillow it get very uncomfortable. We tried differnet pillows and he still doesn't want one. Do you think it would be okay if we just let him lay without a pillow or anything to keep his head up?

I get really uncomfortable with pillows also... try getting a big & somewhat flat one and make sure it goes under his shoulders as well as his head so its still elevated but doesn't hurt his neck. I'm guessing that's what's bothering him.

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Okay, y'all...I am a fellow advicenator. I am just wondering why advicenators who have NEVER had sex or don't know what the hell the are talking about are answering sex questions. These people actually might just TAKE your advice...at least learn about what you're answering before you hit submit. Oh yeah, and for all of you who think wearing TWO condoms is cool...you are so wrong.

Some people that have never had sex know more about it than people that have. If the people that had it before knew everything, there wouldn't be questions like "could i be pregnant?". If you don't want 13 year olds answering, find the information yourself.

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Please don't delete this question, because I am actually very curious about this. Why do people join this website who aren't even serious about helping people or receiving help? People who need help come here and some ignorant people joke around and even insult these people in need. Don't you think it's time we suspend or expel these rude people? I'm sick of it myself.

They join this site to annoy us all. That's why we have Level 2 and 3 mods that ban/get rid of/delete these people from the site.

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Ohk im 17. f.

i Have a sister that 13.

Im skinny and she bigger then me by like 2 sizes.

every single day she goes in my room when im asleep and takes my clothes and ask me if she can wear them. im still asleep when she asks me so i have no idea what im saying. She takes it as a yes and wears my clothes. She takes jeans, shirts, and even my damn uniform pants for work. today she went to the movies with her friend. her friend didnt have clean jeans so she gave her a pair of mine to wear. her friend is bigger then her.

When i see her with my clothes on i tell her to change right now and she does she throws my clothes in my room and doesnt even wash them after. She gets stains on my shirts and they dont come off. Well the jeans i dont have many pairs and when she wears them the strech out and i cant get them back to regular size.

I bought like 2 pairs of new jeans and she asks me everyday if she can wear them and i say No every time and she continues to ask me.

Is there any way to get her to stop asking me to wear my clothes all the damn time. She has more clothes then i do. she just doesnt wear them.

ill rate good if you give me good help.

tell her to stop asking because you're gonna say no every single time. put a sign on your door, lock the door, hide stuff you don't want her to know you own, encourage her to buy her own and offer to help her pick them out.

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this may seem like a dumb question but i heard someone talking about it.

lets say you use a public bathroom & you're a girl. if there's sperm anywhere near the toilet, on the seat, in the toilet itself, is it possible to get pregnant?? if you were juss using the bathroom??

thanks!!

no, there's no chance.

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I'm 13 and I've got a huge crush on this guy. He has many girl friends (I mean as just friends) and whenever I talk to him I just feel really awkward and my mind goes blank. What should I do?! I can't say stuff like "what are your interests" because I already know his interests. We used to be really good friends, but now he's in almost none of my classes. What should I do?

if he has a lot of girlfriends he probably understands girls pretty well so he probably knows you're nervous, etc. you can talk to him online, on the phone or hang out on weekends. catch up on each other's days... ask him about his day and how it went, what he did...something sould come up! if you guys both enjoy the same things, you can join a club or team together to keep in touch. go to some of his sports events too then talk about the game after. hope that helps!

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i have read coloumns in magazines saying if you excersise too much it is damaging your body. is this true? i excersise at a gym for about 4 1/2 hours each week. i also do 30 mins of cardio at home. am i doing too much?

no 4 1/2 hours a week with cardio is fine! when you start running excessively or doing 3 hours at the gym/cardio everyday...then it's too much. one or two hours is the norm. it's too much when you miss periods...that's when it gets unhealthy.

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Hi! Ok, I really need ideas of what my class can do for fundraisers! I'm in 8th grade and we're trying to raise money for 8th grade graduation & our trip to our state capitol. We need to make more than the meager cents we get from bakesales, car washes, and ballgame concession. Does anyone know of any ways we can make money? Time is running out! Thanks!

you could have a raffle... have everyone contribute something to put in the basket and then raffle a bunch of them off. that should get you some money!

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I used to masturbate alot and it felt like it should feel. but for the past 3 months i havent really felt anything i think i just climax but dont orgasm. am i broken? or did i over do it? will i ever be able to ever orgasm again? thanks i rate 5's.

maybe you should change it up a bit. you probably got bored of the same thing over and over again.

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My bf and I have been together for a long time, but we've never had sex yet. I feel that I'm ready now and have already gone and bought some really sexy pink lacy panties and a matching bra. I have a new bed that I decorated with pink throw pillows. I want this to be a night to remember. This is what I had in mind: I was going to decorate my whole appartment with scented pink candles, and throw rose petals on the bed. I was thinking of having a tray of strawbarries on the bed and a bottle of wine for us to have before we made love.
Does anyone have any other suggestions to what I can do to set the mood? What sort of music should I play?
I'll rate 5s!

hey that's really cute. the thing is...is he a big fan of pink? maybe you should incorperate some stuff/colors he likes. it's his special night too! slow jams for music or something you both like.

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Does a condom still work ok if you're doing it in the shower?

yeah. at least, it should!

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this has been botherign the heck out of me for a week and a half now and i finalyl decided i cant handle it anymore. last week we had a b-ball game and we won and our coach expected us to run 13 suicides because we missed 13 lay up but we still won( 34-12) on that sunday i got a cold and was sick barely could breathe or anything. i couldnt miss school because i was having finals and had tog o. i had my dad talk to my coach and tell her that i didnt feel to good and i didnt want to show up feelin all shitty and get everyone on the team sick. so anyways she told my dad that i didnt have to go to pratice if i didnt feel good. adn honestly i ahvent felt good all week i showed up to one pratice but only stayed for 1 and 1/2 hours out of a 3 hour pratice. since i havent been going girls have been talkin shit about me behind me back and it isnt a rumors bc i heard them say it. i dont if i should go to pratice or nto. coach makes me feel liek the worest player by puttin peopel that dont go to pratice on the team instead me when i used to go to all pratice and i used to stay after and pratice extra. i am not used to quieting i never have and i dont know if i should. someone please tell me what to do. i feel like i am wasting my time for nothign.
p.s.
the captin is a snoby ..... and i dont like her. o and i already tryed tellin coach about the girls and she just blew me off and didnt care.

i was in the situation before and I quit. It's really up to you tho.

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Hello, I'm a 17 year old female. Who is interested in taking boxing class.

I've heard somewhere that if you take boxing classes and get into a street fight, you'll be arrested and charged with weapon possession because they would consider your fists as a weapon. Is this true? Or am I the only one that has heard about this?

Another thing is, I get into a lot of physical fights, so if what I said above is true exactly what do you think would happen to me?

Thank you.

in some states taking boxing or martial arts would be charged as a concealed weapon. i'd ask the trainer for specifics before yo take it.

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Is giving head considered Anal Sex?

no, that's definatly ORAL. oral = mouth region. anal = butt region.

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should you blow dry your hair before you straighten it er let it dry naturally??

thanks!!

i blowdry it and it get straight that way if i use a brush. either way, blow dry it.

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