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i hate it..
Ohk im 17. f.
i Have a sister that 13.
Im skinny and she bigger then me by like 2 sizes.
every single day she goes in my room when im asleep and takes my clothes and ask me if she can wear them. im still asleep when she asks me so i have no idea what im saying. She takes it as a yes and wears my clothes. She takes jeans, shirts, and even my damn uniform pants for work. today she went to the movies with her friend. her friend didnt have clean jeans so she gave her a pair of mine to wear. her friend is bigger then her.
When i see her with my clothes on i tell her to change right now and she does she throws my clothes in my room and doesnt even wash them after. She gets stains on my shirts and they dont come off. Well the jeans i dont have many pairs and when she wears them the strech out and i cant get them back to regular size.
I bought like 2 pairs of new jeans and she asks me everyday if she can wear them and i say No every time and she continues to ask me.
Is there any way to get her to stop asking me to wear my clothes all the damn time. She has more clothes then i do. she just doesnt wear them.
ill rate good if you give me good help.
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maybe you should buy her the sameoutfit for her for chrissie or her b'day and kindly tell her that she is stretching your clothes cause she is bigger than you. or take her stuff and see how she likes it then make and agreement together.
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Your sister is just trying to be like you. Honestly.. I think you should talk to one of your parents about your sister's "borrowing" habit. Especailly if she's taking the stuff without your permission and returning it dirty. Your sister should have to replace the clothes that she ruins with her own money. If worse comes to worse, take some of her things and ruin them.. just so that she can see what it's like to have her things ruined.
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Hey,
Your sister wants to be like you. From what your telling me, she really looks up to you. But I know what you mean with the borrowing stuff. Maybe borrow some money from your mom & dad and you and her could go shopping and find her some pretty clothes and she will soon stop bugging you for them.
-GD
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just sit her down and tell her she cant wear you things no matter what you say unless you personally hand them to her.. and if she does borrow them she is responsible for any stains or stuff like that and her friends cant wear your stuff. like make her sign a contract in front of your mom or someting. thats what i do with my sister who is 12 even though we are the same size.
if its something yuo really like maybe make her pay for it upfront like say you payed $50 for a pair of jeans make her give you $60 then if she returns them clean and nice then give her all her money back and if she doesnt you keep the money (extra for aggravation)
or if you must lock your closet so only you can get in there and no one else
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hide them. get a lock on your door. take her clothes (you dont even have to like them, just make her know how it feels). my best advice is hide them , not eccasarily in an attic or basement or something, just where she wouldn;t thnk to look. keep your clothes in your parents room (unless she borrows clothes from your mom too). Talk to her about it, maybe even yell, just get the point through that shes being a total ass. ad if worst comes to worst, just tell your mom, she'll probably do sosmething about it.
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Since obviously not listening to you it may seem a bit immature but you could always tell your mom about it!! You could sit down with your mom and your sister and talk about it together so that way when you want to strangle your sister your mom could help you!! lol I know what you feel like because my little sisters do the same thing to me!! I hate it!! But talk to them because it coud work!
Smile :) Hope it helped!
-Serena*
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Is the reason she's wearing your clothes an issue of her liking your style and wanting to imitate it? If so, offering to go shopping with her and help her pick out some outfits might help here. That way she gets her own clothes in your style while you get to keep the ones you have.
I would also suggest talking to your parents. Explain to them that when she borrows your clothes (without really asking), she doesn't return them in the same condition and you have to buy new ones to replace them. If they help pay for your clothes, they'll definitely be more inclined to help with the situation as it is costing them money.
There is also a matter of respect. If you borrow something, it should be returned in the same condition. This is something your sister needs to learn now. Otherwise, she's going to run into problems with it later in life.
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Well it's obvious saying no doesn't help. Get a lock and ONE key for your door. Lock it at all times, that way she can't come in your room. You may also try talking to your parent...although since she's the baby, they might take her side. But try it anyways, tell them you don't feel respected, that they wouldn't like it if you took something of theirs without asking and ruin it, so that your sister shouldn't be allowed to take your things and ruin them. Maybe you'll get them to agree to punish her if she does it again. I dunno, it maight help, but the lock thing will help a lot.
Good Luck!
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tell her to stop asking because you're gonna say no every single time. put a sign on your door, lock the door, hide stuff you don't want her to know you own, encourage her to buy her own and offer to help her pick them out. <3
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