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Tell her?
I hooked up with my friends ex-boyfriend. They were going out for 2 monthes and she broke up with him but she may still have some feelings for him. I hooked up with him the other night. Should I tell her? I don't want to risk losing her as a friend since she is really close but I don't want her to find out from someone else if other people happen to find out. Please help! thanks
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You have to see it as, what would you say/think/or feel if she did it to you?
If your friend still likes him I think you should give it a little bit more time. Just stick with flirting with the guy until your friend gives you the okay to go out. Ask her before you and the guy hook up again.
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Well you have to think of it this way: How important is your friendship with her? If it's that important you have to tell her, and you have to ask her for permission, if she doesn't want you to date this guy, then you have to make the decision. Are you willing to jeapordize your friendship for a guy, or are you willing to give him up if you have to for the sake of friendship? Regardless of your answer, you have to tell her, if she's that important to you she deserves to hear the truth from you and nobody else. Just think about what your next move will be after you tell her, and think about all the possible ways she could react.
Good luck :)
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