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want my first time to be romantic
My bf and I have been together for a long time, but we've never had sex yet. I feel that I'm ready now and have already gone and bought some really sexy pink lacy panties and a matching bra. I have a new bed that I decorated with pink throw pillows. I want this to be a night to remember. This is what I had in mind: I was going to decorate my whole appartment with scented pink candles, and throw rose petals on the bed. I was thinking of having a tray of strawbarries on the bed and a bottle of wine for us to have before we made love.
Does anyone have any other suggestions to what I can do to set the mood? What sort of music should I play?
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Drape red scarves over any lamps that would be on. and you can't go wrong with Barry White.
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i dont know if you are an R&B listener but you should play soft R&B music like marques houston (naked, sex wit you. and he has much more) and maub some Joe and stuff like that. hope this helps.
*~stephanie~*
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That sounds cool and all but... well.. let's face it... if you're losing your virginity, it's not going to be romantic. the movies play it up like it will be, but generally it's painful and awkward. use lube and have foreplay. I don't know what to tell you about the music...just don't be too let down if it's not as romantic as you pictured..
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Okay, don't set all this up and buy all these things and get really excited if you aren't 100% sure that he is ready for sex too, especially since it would be the first time you two would be doing it. With your wonderful setup he may feel pressured into having sex and that's never good. Assumptions are never a good thing. I don't know if you're assuming or not because you never specified so please don't take offense if you've already talked to him and you already know he's ready too. If you two have talked about it and you're positive that he is ready, then go ahead and go all out.
Alright, now that that's out of the way, I think that your plan is very good. My one concern is that he may be a little overwhelmed with pink, but you know him better than I do, so you are the judge of that. Just keep in mind that you want it to be romantic for him too. Having a candlelit dinner together beforehand would be a good addition if that's something that you want to do. Another thing would be to buy him or make him a gift to open. Again though, it's up to you. As for music, play what you two like. Your favorite songs. I don't know what kind of music you're into so I can't help you much more than that.
All in all I think you've thought this through a lot and as long as you AND your boyfriend are both ready, your setup is very good the way it is. I wish you the best of luck, and make sure you remember to use protection, that's very important.
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hey that's really cute. the thing is...is he a big fan of pink? maybe you should incorperate some stuff/colors he likes. it's his special night too! slow jams for music or something you both like. <3
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