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my girlfriend is always asking for sex what do i do?

well if you want to have sex, then go for it. if not, then tel her no and if she persists, break up with her.

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Can someone give me some songs i can think of for my wedding? thanks!

"from this moment on" shania twain

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Hello
I am a 15 year old. I'll be 16 soon.
I have been having my period since Nov. 2004.
I've had it every month from the 19th to the 29th
This month i didn't get it.
It's never been this late.
I got all the cramps, and the upset stomachs before it.
It just never happend.
My mom didn't get hers either this month.
This is the 1st time it's happend.


I WILL rate high.
THanks

Well there are all kinds of reasons...have you lost or gained weight recently? have you been excersizing too much? those are just some that i can think of...if it doesn't come at all (especially if both you and your mom don't get it) go see a doctor.

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Okay so i have a dance compititon this weekend and i have a couple things i was wondering because it's my first compitition.
(I'm a 13 year old girl if that helps)
okay so i'm on my period. is there anything i should do to keep from getting leaks but not show through the costume? one's like a skin tight spandex uni-tard! but i can't wear tampons
2nd i was wondering if anyone has any advice or things i can do to relive stress and get sleep the night before. becuase i lose sleep the night before!
anything helps
Thanks in advance guys!!
i rate 5's for anything useful(which is just about everything!!)

Well my best friend is a dancer and she doesn't usually use tampons but she does for dance competitions... a while back a girl leaked on stage and it ran down her tights are everything so now she wont take any chances! i would STRONGLY recommend using a tampon (just for the competition). try one before the actual competition so you can get ready quickly. you could also wear a thong with a thong pad it you're not heavy.
I can't help you with the sleep thing... I usually stay up really late before those sorts of things.
good luck at the competition!! don't let anything stop you from doing your absolute best!

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okay, well my friend got fingered for the first time the other day and now she's been worrying about it. she think's that she is pregnant but i'm telling her that she can't be because it's totally impossible because she didn't have sex or anything. and she hasn't gotten her period and she's 2weeks late. i told her that i think it's because she doesn't have a regular period, because she hasn't had it for over 2years and normally that's when it starts getting regular. her boyfriend only fingered her, she didn't do anything to him so i'm really not sure what to tell her except that she isn't pregnant. what do you guys think?

PS. when she got fingered after she bled alittle, and i told her that maybe he scratched her or something because you never know.

You're definatly right. she cannot be pregnant.

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I am almost 15 years old.My boyfriend is 16 turning 17.I dont get along with either of my parents. Is it normal to want to have a child at this age? I talked to my boyfriend about it he doesnt help to much. He has told me he would do anything i want because he loves me so much. I told him i think i would want to wait till i am 16 at least. At the moment i dont no i feel like i want to take hold of the responsibilty now.Ill Rate High. Please help me extra ideas etc would be help full thank you.

if you are almost 15 & your bf is almost 17, when you are 16, he will be 18. that means you will be a minor impregnated by an adult & your parents (especially if you or your bf don't get along with them) will/can press charges if they don't like the idea of you being pregnant. So my advice is to wait until you are an adult. read some articles about the struggles of being a teen mother... even with parents supporting them, it's not easy! it's just a phase... don't do anything you might regret & have to live with.

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I dont have nothing to draw!!

Do u have anything that u can think of that i can draw ?
PLEASE dont say draw people.

draw the perfect place and then reality next to it.

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does anyone know any good songs for a lyrical dance solo? thanks!

black velvet
i'm not that girl (wicked)
dream on (aerosmith)
stairway to heaven (led zeppelin)
angels (jessica simpson)
love is a battlefield (pat benetar)

i've seen some of them done before and some i think would just be a really cool solo.

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my husband is always out with other girls and rearly comes home to be with me and his two daughters how do i get him to be more into the family?

tell him it upsets you that he doesn't pay attention to his family. maybe make him a special dinner to come home to.

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how do you do the grinding thing when its with eachothers legs? thanks.

you put one leg in between the other person's legs like youre both riding each others legs. you do the same thing as with regular grinding.

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so i got my boyfriend some gifties for vday. but i wanna know what are some cute things i can do for him during the school day (between periods).

i'm thinking maybe putting a sticky note in his locker for every period. but idk. i'm a lame idea maker.

maybe a note and a hershy kiss for every period.

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This question has been bothering me for quite sometime now...

If someone is depressed why wouldn't they want to reach out and get help?

Thanks

It's not easy to reach out. back when my friend was depressed, she didn't want anyone to know. of course, looking back, it was obvious but she was scared that people would change the way the look at her or treat her or that people would get involved and make her life even worse and push her over the edge and she'd end up killing herself. sometimes that keeps people from doing it but i'm sure there's all kinds of reasons.

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what have you gotten for valentines day in the past... that you liked?

my 2 best friends were going out last year and she got him a carebear (b/c we call him crebear) and it was one that if you pushed its stomach it would give you a hug or talk. he LOVED it and slept with it all the time. (and tucked it in when he made his bed!) it was cute so that's an idea.

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this guy I like asked me to my schools valentines day dance. I accepted, but im nervous becuase of one thing- grinding. Everyone will be grinding with eachother and Ive never done it before and im not sure if i would feel comfortable with it. My question is, what do i do if wants to grind with me? x0x

well there are different ways to do it... just go with the flow. you don't have to get superrrr close and look like you're "doing it" just close enough that you're together and stuff. put your booty to his crotch and move to the music. the first time i did, i had no idea what i was doing and after i got the guys number and we've been pals since...and he thought i was good! so just get comfortable and you'll be fine! have fun!

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This boy that I liked ever since middle skool see's me once in a while.So our middle skool had a party and he happened to be there he came up to me and said hi so i said the same. My friends and i went in the disco and started to dance and he soon came in and my heart started to beat faster and faster and he started to dance with other girls and a song came on and I started to dance and he only stared at me and he even came across by me and watched me and soon asked me to dance and I said yes and we started to dance when I reached home I told me brother all about it the next day my brother said that he came up to him with another girl and he said he loved her . Do you think my brother is lying ?Do you think the boy likes me?

who knows... maybe the guy likes you..that's what i'm getting from all of this, but your bro might have a bad feeling about him and want you to not fall for him because he's bad news. maybe you should talk to the guy and ask him if he's taken or anything and who he likes or have a friend ask him who he likes. that's the only way to find out.

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I am 146 lbs. and am only five feet tall. I recently started a new diet and joined a gym. My boyfriend has been VERY supportive of me through this. I recently said something(dont remember though) that brought up a conversation and he said "I dont think you're fat..you're just big boned" ..and i got soooo mad...then he said he was just kidding. Should i be hurt by this??

no, you shouldn't be hurt... i dunno how to explain it but i really don't think he meant anything wrong by it. take it however you want but i don't think it was wrong.

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hey i'm a guy and have a girlfriend, i love her and everything. i was wondering...i havn't asked her yet, but would it be a bad thing if i sent valentines day cards to my friends that are girls? some of them i'm really good friends with and i wouldn't want to do it if it offended my girlfriend or let her think the wrong idea. should i just ask her about it, or am i over-analyzing things? i am getting my girlfriend a gift, but would it be wrong to send a few cards to my friends as well? what do you think, thanks in advance.

Well, i'm a girl and if i had a bf, i would still send valentines to my guyfriends. itstead of lovey-dovey cards, get them ones that are strictly for friends and write them a nice message. for your gf, get her something special and make sure you gve her ifo on what's going on to a certain extend. i think she'll be ok with it.

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Does anyone know any cute hair styles?
I am so sick of the plain half pony, wearing it plain down, or ponytail.
I want to try somethign totally new and cute.
If you have any ideas that are easy and quick
or if there are any good sites
it would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks in advanced!

part your hair different... get side swept of long bangs, use clips, messy buns, braids or get it highlighted. (i get bored with my hair too!)

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This is a very long scenario, but bare with me please, for I'm in dire need of help. My best friend asked me out friday, and I said no [being the idiot that I am] because I thought he was joking [yeah, I know, it's stupid, but he's done it before]. I've liked him for atleast 4 years, and I just missed my chance, which makes me really sad. My other best friend asked him today at school if he was going to ask me back out. He said no, but he still like me.

So basically, he liked me, asked me out, I said no, and now he's not going to ask me out anytime soon. Now things are different between us. He's acting so different, he's being really mean and he was never like this before. For example, today in class I scolded him for touching my chest because I simply didn't want him to. He said I was a "PMSing bitch" I yelled at him some more and told him that was so f*cked up. He stopped talking to me, but I didn't really care. Then he apologized and started talking to me again.

He's never done this before, and it's making me upset. Before this, he used to put his arm around my shoulder, hug me from behind, and do all the other little stuff that girls love. He's amazing and perfect.

My question is, what should I do about this situation? Should I ask him out? Does it sound like he'd ever ask me out again? Thank you so much in advance.♥

I think he'll get over it sooner or later, he's just not taking rejection well. If you like him, I say ask him out.. I don't think he wants to take any more chances with his ego. don't be offended if he says no at first... he might be sad about it. goodluck!

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putting this in \"love life\" might be pushing it, but whatever.
okay, so theres this kid, he\'s in my grade (12th) but i\'ve never talked to him in person. i think one time in like the 8th grade he got ahold of my screen name and he was like whats your name? and i told him (i knew he went to my school) and he was like \"hold on, i\'m going to look you up in the yearbook\". haha, that still makes me laugh. we were like in middle school though. but yea... i\'ve always known his name and who he was (after that point) but i never talk to him. and then this year, i think he has like a mini crush on me or something (but still, no talking in person). for example, theres two ways to get to the student parking lot(and neither one of us has a 6th period). i go one way, which is closer to my class & i know what class he has 5th period (because i have that class 4th and i\'ve stayed in there to ditch my 5th period) & theres a closer way to go from his class, but he goes the way i go (i wouldn\'t blame him though if he likes me... i would have done the exact same thing to my crush of three years). and he parks in the same row i do, but in order to get to my car i have to pass his car first and there have been a few times when i would walk by and he would like glance at me or whatever. honestly i don\'t even know what kind of an expression i give back... i think i just glance @ him. then he eventually requested to be my friend on myspace. even though i\'ve never talked to him, i added him anyways... he does go to my school so why the heck not? then he commented on one of my pics & said \"cutie\". haha. that was interesting. and still, every day he pretty much walks the same way i do... sometimes he\'s in front of me, sometimes he\'s in back of me, sometimes he\'s with friends and sometimes he\'s alone. oh, and even when we leave the parking lot, we both take the same main street so he\'ll like be driving along side of me or something, haha. or in front of me, or in back, etc. but yea. still i\'ve never talked to him! and then a few nights ago, he sent me a message through myspace and it said \"hey you. whats up?\" i didn\'t get it right away, i think i was on at the time and then i signed off or something... but i got it like an hour or two later. i didn\'t respond though, because what am i supposed to say? i don\'t want to be like \"hey\" or \"hey...\". i don\'t know... its totally wierd though, because i do see him like everyday (plus he\'s friends with two kids in my class and guys that i sometimes hang out with at lunch, but he doesn\'t hang out with them during lunch... he hangs out like 400 ft away from us, haha). its like, if you want to be my friend, then talk to me. its kind of awkward when you send a message like that through myspace. whatever. he does seem cool, but its kind of wierd and awkward. i was going to send him a message back and be like \"waddupp, fool?\" but...yea. i think that would be a little funny & more friendly and less serious/awkward/flirty (yea, you can probably take \"hey...\" and turn it into a flirty way). but then again, \"waddupp fool?\" can make it seem like \"oh yea, i know you we\'re friends\" when we really aren\'t in real life. what should i do about this whole situation. because i still see him everyday... and i feel bad i ignored his thing, but i don\'t want to just go up to him and be like \"hey!\" what would you do if you were shy and in this situation. i don\'t think i really have a crush on him back. i don\'t know him and i probably wouldn\'t mind hanging with him or anything, but yea. what would you do?

what are "\" for? they're confusing me.

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