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My best friend likes me!
This is a very long scenario, but bare with me please, for I'm in dire need of help. My best friend asked me out friday, and I said no [being the idiot that I am] because I thought he was joking [yeah, I know, it's stupid, but he's done it before]. I've liked him for atleast 4 years, and I just missed my chance, which makes me really sad. My other best friend asked him today at school if he was going to ask me back out. He said no, but he still like me.
So basically, he liked me, asked me out, I said no, and now he's not going to ask me out anytime soon. Now things are different between us. He's acting so different, he's being really mean and he was never like this before. For example, today in class I scolded him for touching my chest because I simply didn't want him to. He said I was a "PMSing bitch" I yelled at him some more and told him that was so f*cked up. He stopped talking to me, but I didn't really care. Then he apologized and started talking to me again.
He's never done this before, and it's making me upset. Before this, he used to put his arm around my shoulder, hug me from behind, and do all the other little stuff that girls love. He's amazing and perfect.
My question is, what should I do about this situation? Should I ask him out? Does it sound like he'd ever ask me out again? Thank you so much in advance.♥
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It sounds like he's being mean to you because he's feeling hurt that you rejected him and his pride has been damaged. If I were you, I'd just ask him out. He still likes you, he's just scared that he's going to be rejected again.
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It sounds like you've hurt him quite deeply. People never respond to rejection very well, a little bit of anger is normal, but after this it sounds like he will never work up the courage to ask you out again.
If you want to date him, ask him out soon, apologize at the same time and explain your confusion. If you don't, he'll probably do the smart thing and move on.
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Well First off, know that he is acting the way he is because he is trying to deal with the rejection he has just faced. He probably has been trying to get up the guts to ask you for awhile and you told him no.
I would talk to him about it. Seriously talk to him and tell him what you have told me that he's amazing and perfect but that you thought he was joking because thats what he did in the past.
You have to have good communication in any relationship. He can't read your mind and you cant read his. So sit down and talk with him. Just you and him and no interruptions and I think Mr. Amazing will come around.
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I think he'll get over it sooner or later, he's just not taking rejection well. If you like him, I say ask him out.. I don't think he wants to take any more chances with his ego. don't be offended if he says no at first... he might be sad about it. goodluck! <3
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Heck yes! Go ask the poor guy out! :)
He has a bruised ego at the moment is all. He probably won't ask you out again simply because guys fear rejection as much as us girls do.
Go ask him out and tell him you thought he was kidding or you would never have said no. :)
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