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This... boy at school.
putting this in \"love life\" might be pushing it, but whatever.
okay, so theres this kid, he\'s in my grade (12th) but i\'ve never talked to him in person. i think one time in like the 8th grade he got ahold of my screen name and he was like whats your name? and i told him (i knew he went to my school) and he was like \"hold on, i\'m going to look you up in the yearbook\". haha, that still makes me laugh. we were like in middle school though. but yea... i\'ve always known his name and who he was (after that point) but i never talk to him. and then this year, i think he has like a mini crush on me or something (but still, no talking in person). for example, theres two ways to get to the student parking lot(and neither one of us has a 6th period). i go one way, which is closer to my class & i know what class he has 5th period (because i have that class 4th and i\'ve stayed in there to ditch my 5th period) & theres a closer way to go from his class, but he goes the way i go (i wouldn\'t blame him though if he likes me... i would have done the exact same thing to my crush of three years). and he parks in the same row i do, but in order to get to my car i have to pass his car first and there have been a few times when i would walk by and he would like glance at me or whatever. honestly i don\'t even know what kind of an expression i give back... i think i just glance @ him. then he eventually requested to be my friend on myspace. even though i\'ve never talked to him, i added him anyways... he does go to my school so why the heck not? then he commented on one of my pics & said \"cutie\". haha. that was interesting. and still, every day he pretty much walks the same way i do... sometimes he\'s in front of me, sometimes he\'s in back of me, sometimes he\'s with friends and sometimes he\'s alone. oh, and even when we leave the parking lot, we both take the same main street so he\'ll like be driving along side of me or something, haha. or in front of me, or in back, etc. but yea. still i\'ve never talked to him! and then a few nights ago, he sent me a message through myspace and it said \"hey you. whats up?\" i didn\'t get it right away, i think i was on at the time and then i signed off or something... but i got it like an hour or two later. i didn\'t respond though, because what am i supposed to say? i don\'t want to be like \"hey\" or \"hey...\". i don\'t know... its totally wierd though, because i do see him like everyday (plus he\'s friends with two kids in my class and guys that i sometimes hang out with at lunch, but he doesn\'t hang out with them during lunch... he hangs out like 400 ft away from us, haha). its like, if you want to be my friend, then talk to me. its kind of awkward when you send a message like that through myspace. whatever. he does seem cool, but its kind of wierd and awkward. i was going to send him a message back and be like \"waddupp, fool?\" but...yea. i think that would be a little funny & more friendly and less serious/awkward/flirty (yea, you can probably take \"hey...\" and turn it into a flirty way). but then again, \"waddupp fool?\" can make it seem like \"oh yea, i know you we\'re friends\" when we really aren\'t in real life. what should i do about this whole situation. because i still see him everyday... and i feel bad i ignored his thing, but i don\'t want to just go up to him and be like \"hey!\" what would you do if you were shy and in this situation. i don\'t think i really have a crush on him back. i don\'t know him and i probably wouldn\'t mind hanging with him or anything, but yea. what would you do?
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You both are clearly sort of interested in each other. Try not to over think it, just email him back saying hi. what's up, or something normal like that. don't do anything cheesy or make it look like you are trying too hard. My hunch is he wants to ask you to hang out or get to know you better, so just be nice and friendly and it will allll work out. Good luck and keep me posted.
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what are "" for? they're confusing me.
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ok... mini-crush is the exact way to describe this. He may be AIMing you or myspace messaging you because hes too shy to talk to you in person. So message him back sayin something like " hey ... whats up?" something nonchlant. You said you wouldnt mind chillin with him so if he asks you to habg out say yeah but mention something along the lines of " but just as friends rite?"
that'll get your point accross w/o really hurting his feelings. that way you can become friends with him but if you don't like him you dont have to go out with him.
hope i helped!
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