LoveNJstyle's

advice

I'm a junior in highschool. I've taken Biology and Chemistry. I passed Bio with an 89 and I passed Chem with a 96. So next year I have to decide to take physics or bio 2. The physics teacher says there is a lot of math involved. And I'm a strong math student. But I talked to my sister and she said it was really hard(but she's not a strong math student). The physics teacher doesn't have tests in her class and hardly any homework. Then the bio teacher says that her class will better prepare you for college. She says that she helps us with studying and everything. But she said you will have to work your butt off for an A. The bio teacher said that we will have to take bio in college no matter what we want to major in(which I have no clue what I want to do) so I don't know if I should take bio and be more prepared or physics. Any advice?

i would go with physics. my school doesn't offer bio 2 (only AP..) because it's not needed. as a strong math student, i think you would be better off with physics.

[view]

I have been taking guitar lessons from an older married man. Sometimes he says things to me like "look at me when you're playing", but says it in a turned on way. I've also caught him staring inappropriatley at my chest. I got really embarrassed at the last lesson because for no reason at all, while I had two of my fingers on the D chord, he put his hand on top of my hand; wouldnt let go, and slid our hands down the entire guitar all the way from the top to bottom, and very slowly. Now I'm not an idiot, and know this wasnt part of the lesson. I know my face was all red and when I looked up at him, he looked guilty.
Now I don't know what to do, because he had been offering the lessons for free. He's also my friends boss, and I don't want to say anything. What should I do?

I don't think its a good idea for you to take lessons from this guy anymore...even if they are cheap or free because that is wrong. don't go tell everyone that he's a pervert. just say you don't want to take lessons anymore or you can't keep up or would rather do something else.

[view]

hey does anyone have any ab workouts i can do at home besides videos, or the ball or weights. i need something more than crunches and situps. thank you.

reverse crunches (aka leg lifts) are good. try all different kinds.

[view]

ok.. me and my mom aren't really close... and like when she tells me stuff like oo i need to buy u a bra or sumtin like oo lets go bra shopping i get like embarrased and she does it like in front of people... so like my friends wouldn't care to come with me cuz they would buy there own.. but i mean iim only 13.. and ive got some boobs.. but im not sure wat size.... but they are like small.. i would be no bigger than a a cup.. .and in bikini size im a medium.. so liek maybe you can tell me by that wat size i am or like wat possible sizes are small....

honestly, different bra styles and brands come in all different sizes. find the band size with the link that one girl has and when you go, get all the a cups you can find until you find one that you feel comfortable in. you might be in between sizes so just try some on.

[view]

My boyfriend sort of fingered me last night, it's not the first time. This time he wasn't going into the "hole", he was moving his finger around the top, forcefully. I don't know what he did, but it hurt, and now this morning its extremely sore. The specific part it hurts at is the top of the clit, there is something like a small ball. It hurts to touch. What did he do and is something wrong with it? What should I do?

He might have just gone too rough for those sensative areas. i think you need to tell him what you want and how much pressure you want, etc. it'll probably hurt for a bit but it should be fine within 3 days.

[view]

Hey, all you teen boys out there, I was wondering if any of you like horses or are involved with them. I'm just curious, it seems like it's too much of a girl thing for some reason. So I want to know if anyone knows any horse guys or if you are one yourself.

lol and I'm not looking for answers saying "horses are cool", because I want to see if anyone likes them more than "cool" and have actually done things with them.

Well, the last time I asked my guy friends to go horse back riding....they didn't believe it and thought i was insane. one said it hurt him and the others thought it was just crazy.
so no, i don't know any horse-loving guys.

[view]

A married male friend of mine recently told me that although he finds a lot of the pornography out there offensive and that it made him sick; that he still struggled with it. Does this mean that he just admitted to me that he has a sex addiction? And also, does anyone else find it strange that he would be revealing this to me and not his wife?

Maybe he doesn't want to "insult" his wife because a lot of women get angry that the man they're sleeping with is watching porn all the time. since you're not with him, he probably wants some advice or just some kind of outlet to keep him on track. if you don't want him to talk to you about things like that, just tell him and he should get over it unless he has something else in mind.

[view]

my modeling manager wants me to be in the magazine MAXIM. i am 14, do you think this is weird?
he says its good for exposure since i am just starting.

I think this guy just wants slutty pics of you, know what i mean? i think you have to be 18 to be in it anyway & if you don't have to be, it still isn't a great idea. ask him to be in another magazine but one that's more age-appropriate.

[view]

any one know any good sites that i can upload music to host it?

Anything other than ripway and that one for yahoo...

And to upload not download...

try musicmatch. yo can download the thing unto your computer then it stores it for you once you upload it.

[view]

hey yeah i need help w/ info for scholarships. i want to go to a private school and my familys definetly not poor, but the school is EXTREMELY expensive so a little extra money would help a bunch. Does anyone know of scholarships that are available to 8th graders in AZ? Or just any info on ways to get money through contests or academics because *not bragging* i have high grades. Thanks for everything...

If you go to the private school office or showcase/open house days, I'm sure they will have financial aid & scholarship papers around for you to fill out. A lot of expensive schools give out a ton of scholarships so if you ask for info, you'll have a shot at one.

[view]

I just made the volleyball team and I would like to know these two questions:

1) Can you always see panties under the spandex? Because I only have 3 Thongs and I'll have practice everyday and my mom doesn't even know I have the thongs.

2)When your on your period is a pad visible? I'm not comfortable with tampons, I just got my period a few months ago.

Thanks guyss!

Well for my team, you don't have to wear spandex to every single practice. we have black and yes, you can see panty lines. I don't know about pads but i'm pretty sure you could soo maybe think about tampons. (they'd be easier to control too.)
i personally think thongs are more comfortable for volleyball and you never have to pick wedgies, etc, so think about it and eventually tell your mom and maybe you can go shopping for some so she'll never know you had 3 without her knowing. let me know if you need anything else.

[view]

is it true xanga is illegal?

no, it's not illegal but like most sites, under 13 years old isn't allowed.

[view]

ok i am an athiest i have read many things supportin the exsitence nad nonexstence of god. I was just curious as to why people believe so strongly in a religion or a single god.

well at the moment, I do believe in one God but not in an organized religion.

[view]

ive thought about this for awhile...when guys like skaters and hardcore guys wear extremely tight girl pants. what do they do with thier thing? theres no space for it in the pants...
anyone know?

well i'm not exactly sure but i think the have enough room. i have to say that you made my day! that's funny!

[view]

well i used to like this guy named *ray and well i wrote him a letter sayin he was cute then my best guy friend went up to him and asked ray if he like me he said:oh yeah i know who she is, shes cute. then later by 2nd semester i had him for 4th pd. we said our occ. "hey" or "wassup" but we never talked to each other.. his best friend would only ask about me. then later i find he has been tryin to hook up with this girl name *dana and now they're boyfriend and g/f, thwy've been goin out for 2 weeks now. does he sound like he ever liked me? or not.? and also i think his younger brother is cute, would it be wrong to hit on his brother? & no, i'm not tryin to make him jealous,when i 1st saw them both i both said they were cute.

well i don't know how old you are but going out with people just because they are cute is...immature. you barely know either of them and you like them. this probably isn't what you want to hear but i really don't think he liked you. the whole bro thing never works out... and ray won't like you after you stop going out with his bro.

[view]

Hey I have to write a research paper and I have no clue what to do it on! Does anyone have any good ideas, like who are some interseting people I could do it on, or something like that... Thanks

i did mine on the myelin project after watching "Lorenzo's oil". It was actually pretty interesting. I did one on the Aztec people too.
some people:
Clinton
Saddam
Hitler
Bohr

or do it on a holocaust event...like a specific camp such as Sobibor.

[view]

hey i think you give great advice! keep on givin it kus it relli helps

thanks! glad to here it!

[view]

The show fiddler on the roof: i am the fiddler. opening night is tomorrow and i am terrified of getting off the roof in the blackout. i am on top of the roof, playing my violin... thats scary enough! i dont think im going to be able to do this all week, i get panic attacks and im scared i will get one while im on the roof! what should i do? ill rate high!!!

well I had to be on a platform bed thing like upside down in a dress for my last show so i definatly know how scary it is! have one or two techies behind the scenery for whatever scenes you need them for and have them help you down and stuff or flash a flashlight so you know where to step. goodluck & try not to panic!

[view]

Hey all. I was wondering if you guys thought I made a smart choice. Here it is: for freshman year, I am not continuing Spanish and going to Spanish 2 Honors, but instead I'm taking Italian 1 because I think it's different and a beutiful language. Please tell me if you think I made a smart choice. Thanks!

honestly, if they see 3 years of a language, that looks better than just a whole bunch of random ones. I personally think spanish is used more but if you like it, that's a good choice. I'm just biased since I'm fluent in spanish. but anyway, italian is pretty similar to spanish. i can understand/read things in italian if that gives you any idea of how similar it is.

[view]

my girl friend gives really bad blow jobs should i tell her or jus pretend there nice

don't be rude about it and tell her that she sucks...she probably needs some guidance so next time, tell her what feels good and that change is always nice. don't put up with it just because, but tell her nicely.

[view]