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was my teacher making a pass at me?
I have been taking guitar lessons from an older married man. Sometimes he says things to me like "look at me when you're playing", but says it in a turned on way. I've also caught him staring inappropriatley at my chest. I got really embarrassed at the last lesson because for no reason at all, while I had two of my fingers on the D chord, he put his hand on top of my hand; wouldnt let go, and slid our hands down the entire guitar all the way from the top to bottom, and very slowly. Now I'm not an idiot, and know this wasnt part of the lesson. I know my face was all red and when I looked up at him, he looked guilty.
Now I don't know what to do, because he had been offering the lessons for free. He's also my friends boss, and I don't want to say anything. What should I do?
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Fuck the friend's boss i think your friend will understand this!! So as soon as possible tell policeman or let the boss know how serious this is and make sure he takes care of the situation ( by the way how old are you if i might ask? w/b). If he doesn't do anything don't take the lessons anymore you can always find another guitar lesson teacher. Even if they pay you it's more worth it then getting sexually harrassed. That's the teacher's way of you paying him by him making passes at you.
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First of all you need to tell your parents and stop taking lessons from him. Men like him are the reason things like the Sex Offenders Register are out there and you do not want to be one of his victims. The other thing you need to remember is that you are probably not the first girl he has done this to. If he was this comfortable to perv over you, he's probably done it time and time before.
Stop going to the lessons and find yourself a new tutor who DOESN'T try to take payment in perverted ways from his students. After all, you don't know how far he may try to go..
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I'd rather pay cash for the lesson. If you don't want to say anything, don't, just find a different instructor. I have always learned that one should follow their gut instinct, if it makes you uncomfortable and you suspect he has the wrong intentions you are probably right.
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I don't think its a good idea for you to take lessons from this guy anymore...even if they are cheap or free because that is wrong. don't go tell everyone that he's a pervert. just say you don't want to take lessons anymore or you can't keep up or would rather do something else. <3
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