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Q: So I'm just wondering...if you want to be a model and you are a girl, what are some basic requirements that most agencies want?

Well i was in modeling for awhile. I know they dont let you wear your makeup when you adution. They had me go down a runway. That was pretty scary lol. They are always diff. but they have the basics always the same. They 2 took 2 pictures of me .-trix

Q: Have any of you guys tryed to spray on tan where you stand in the thing and it gives you a tan? If so does it work good and better then a tanning bed?

it looks good

Q: I was going out with this guy that i like a lot. He's perfect in my eyes, and i am in his. we were perfect for each other and things were great until my cousin got involved. she's a little more "advanced" and he likes that. he doesnt like her like her at all, but he wouldnt mind getting some. i felt like a bad gf because i wouldnt do that stuff but he understood. anyways, things eventually didnt work out, and i broke up with him. now, hes going out with someone that i used to be friends with. all of my other guy friends talk to him and say that he still loves me, but he has a gf so i dont see how thats possible. i really wish he did because i still love him a lot. so anyway, we flirt a LOT, and lately ive been more in love with him than ever. i dont know what to do because i dont know if he still loves me, or if hes just leading me on. it seems as though he still has feelings for me but i dont know how to tell. what do i do? i really want them to break up, but i dont want them to until he really does still love me. any advice? i'd rly appreciate it. i dont care how incoherant your reponse is, i'll rate you a 5.

I would ask him about it i mean if you two are pretty close then ask him. I mean if you still got strongs feelings for the guy then i would talk to him about it and see how he feels. -trix

Q: what is a good way of convincing your parents to get you a pet!!!!(((other than puppy eyes or making a deal with them, already tried)))

convince them that you are responsible and can take care of it by doing things around the house.. worked for me.. but i just got 2 guinea pigs.. lol

Q: Ok, here's the question many americans are dying to find an answer for.. and i am here now at 3 am to ask to all. whats a god way to get yourself to sleep? reading doesn't do it for me and the whole laying there isn't working.....I NEED SLEEP im really tired..
i havent eaten since 7pm and haven't worked out or anything today..im 16/f thanks

i listen to music. My grandma told me she always listen to light music .. that helps her "make like a light when turned off" in otherwords put to sleep really quickly!

Q: how did you get your profile to be so kool i mean i went to dimand rains.com but i cant figure out how to put it on my profile!!!!can you tell me how you did your profile????

haha thanks!! :) makes me feel speacial for taking time on this thing!! http://www.buddy4u.com/view/?u=xXx+HTML+xXx#ddl go there.. thats where i go.. when you see what you want.. it has lil links under it.. for like a example if you want.. "the arrows" in your profile you would put this link in

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which is giving right below the picture of a example of it! Hope i helped! plz rate **trixxle*

Q: I don't know whats wrong with me. I've been with my boyfriend for about two years now. I really do love him, and I know he loves me even more. But lately I've felt like things are just kinda drifting between the two of us. Like- it's not how it used to be. I feel like a jerk too because when I ask him if he's been feeling different lately- he always says no and that he never would ever think of breaking it off with me. Then I feel stupid for thinking things aren't working out. I know I love him, he's the cutest guy ever and he treats me pretty good. I am happy with him, but then why am I feeling like something isn't right? Am I just thinking too much or what!? Please, whats my problem?!

Wow i have that problem to sometimes. I guess its just a normal feeling. Maybe a break is needed. I worked through that though i told him i was actually thinking about taking a break and he grabbed me by my shoulders and said what?! im sorry! and i was like no no its not your fault i love you but.. i dont know i got some wierd random feelings but then later that i night i called him and told him i didnt have that thought anymore. It was actually a thought of mine for like 2 months.. I think you may be thinking to much! Rate me please! *t*r*i*x*

Q: i found the perfect guy for me. i'm a christian girl, and he's a youth leader, we have the same sense of humor, he's totaly cute, and he's the sweetest guy i've ever met. the problem is that he's quite a bit older than me, and by the time i'm old enough to date him, he'll probably be married, because, well who wouldn't want to marry him? see, i'm only 14, and he's 20, but i think he likes me a little too. i'll find out for sure by tomarrow if he does, and add it on here. but he told me i was beautiful and stuff, so what should i do?
thanx for helping, i rate all 5's.
xoxo
sincerely,
Puppy Love

I think thats kind of a big gap. I wouldnt do that if i was u.. but thats just me.. i mean my friend is 14 and with a 17 yr.. thats already a big diff. i mean she's mature and he is too but still its a big diff. i wouldnt go for that and plus its illegal and if your catholic its probably against the religion they are very strict with there stuff!! sorry! but if you think its right then go for it!! Let me know cuz im very interested!! *trix*

Q: well i need advice on where to have my new years party. i dont want to have it at my house becuase my parents would never let me and my firend wont have it at her house and we are trying to beat this other party that people are going to so i need advice and help on where we should have it at. i will rate for effort,

I actually rented a old school's gym for my parties it worked out really well we got a room with it to along with the gym and stage. I thought it was a awesome gym. Look for old schools. If not.. have it in your garage.. or in your backyard (if not cold) Hope I gave you suggestions!!

Q: when i tell my mom that im going to one of friends houses but really im going somehwere wlse..what excuse do i give when she calls me and asks me where im at and what im doing?

Say you were outside riding bike.. sledding.. playing ditch.. whatever works!! Hope i helped!! rate me please (trixxie)

Q: OK, I am a wonderful singer, but also very shy. I also play the guitar. I am 13 and I want to knwo 2 things. 1. Is it possible for me to get a demo sent in and 2. how would I do it? Any answers? PLEEASE help me!! ~*~Alyssa~*~

Well scope through magazines and look in the back because they always have ads for that sort of stuff!! hope i helped! please rate! (trix)

Q: I have this freind and I have known her for about 2 years now. She is getting to be very braty and braggy. She is sooo spoiled and gets everything she wants. And like just the other day she was like complaining about the number of presents she got. I am so sick of putting up with her. But we have like a group of people ( about 7 ) and we do everything together. I dont know what to do, becuaes it is impossible to avoid her! Please help, I rate!

well me and krista would kill the girl.. but in the meantime I would just tell her how you feel. Dont be really mean about it just let her know that some of the things she does is getting on your nerves and you dont doubt that you dont get on her nerves but you wish she would just stop

Q: Well,there's a boy I like and my feelings are so deep for him,and he is my friend.But I don't know how to tell him or should I tell him,because he has a girlfriend.So how can I tell him and what should I say?
I am a female,
and I'm 14

Tell him.. unless u think it would freak him out

Q: Hey um im having some super makeup problems .. ive got wicked long eye lashes .. super green eyes .. and kinda small eye brows .. theyre skinny hah .. but yeah anyway .. i need some ideas for new eye makeup .. im so getting bored with the black eyeliner in the top of my eyelid and the bottom .. gets boring .. i wanna go to school and wow people .. i rate high!! thanks

Well you could get a couple colored eyeliner pencils that go with the color of your shirt that you are wearing and do that with the way you did your black. or you could do white on top with sparkles.. thats cute.. or just plain sparkles

Q: Whenever i straighten my hair, there's always a dent from the straightener @ the roots (where my part is). How do i get rid of the dent/prevent it? thanks i rate high!!

tilt your head and then put as close to your sculp as possible then push down with your hand where the line is and hold it for awhile like 10 seconds or something

Q: How do you get rid of freckles?

you could get them lasered off

Q: what kinda of tampons do u recomend?

hmm playtex :-P nice one K.L.L

Q: ok, heres the deal. i have long, straight blonde hair. i was wondering how can i get my hair into ringlets cause i think they look so cool, but nothing seems to work! please help, it has gotten to my LAST nerve.

do lil curls with a curler

Q: i like this guy. and we are going out. but see he's the kinda guy who doesnt hold hands, kiss etc. like he wants to but i dont know if hes nervous or just is scared to. anyways ive made some moves but i dotn want to make all the moves. what do i do to make him do all that stuff. so hes not soo slow? ive even talked to him. and he keeps telling me he is going to do something. but he doesnt. im waiting and waiting. what do i do? and i dont want to dump the guy if you think i should.

Heh. I had that problem back in the past. I just mentioned it to him. Lets just say he wasnt so slow and he actually made moves cuz he knew i was fed up but wel.. u keep makin the moves and slowly he'll eventually become confertable with it and if he says he will.. he's just nervous to.. he'll warm up to it.. give him a little more time.

Q: I wanna start to put myself out there to recording companies because i am a vocal major! i also wanna look for modeling agencies, and acting agencies! any ideas on how i could get started?

John casablanca. check the backs of magazines because they have alot of advertisements in the back of them so read them over and you should. or search online for that sort of stuff!

bio

My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"