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Alright, this is a stupid question, but today I purchased a D.A.R.E. shirt at Hot Topic. Under it, it reads "To Keep Kids Off Drugs." Does this have deeper meaning? Because on the standard D.A.R.E. shirts (like the official ones) they read "To Resist Drugs And Violence." I was wondering if "To Keep Kids Off Drugs" has any deeper meaning? I don't want to go to school with people laughing or something. Thanks.

It COULD mean "Dare to keep kids off drugs" which would kind of mean something different than the official shirt. I could be wrong, but take that into consideration I guess?

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When I'm out buying blank CDs to burn on my CD burner, is there any real difference between plain ol' blank CDs and those "music" CDs? I mean, they have "Music" on the labels and they're more expensive, but I was wondering if that was all just marketing or if music CDs were really different.

CD-R's are the ones to use for music/audio. I think those are the only ones that work.

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these sites i'm going on for music codes are just playing on my windows media player and i don't know how to get the code from it. Can anyone help me..please?

right click the link, and click on "copy shortcut" and thats the code

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20/f

This guy I had a date with kissed me on the firt date. Is that werid? I have never kissed someone on the first date before. Do you think he just wants sex?

no i doubt that. lots of people kiss on the first date. think of all the little 12 year old that kiss a new guy every weekend! if he goes further on the next date, id watch out tho. dont give it to him!

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im 15 and theres this guy (also 15) and we both like each other. At least he says he likes me. right now we're kind of in a friends with benefits position, we dont want to go out becasue he smokes and drinks and i cant deal with that. the thing is, he tells me he wants to be more and that hes trying to quit, and i tell him i wanna be more too..... but the next day he goes tells all his friends that i wanna be more than friends and he leaves himself out of it., i just dont know if i can trust him, or why he does this. any advice?

well you can almost definitely trust him in the relationship part, if he likes you alot, he'll probably treat you like a goddess, but as for the drugs part, im gonna be honest, from experience MOST GUYS do not stop drinking and smoking, and they usually lie about it and do it in private. thats usually how it goes, in my opinion, i say give him a chance!

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does anybody understand how to play the game minesweeper thats usually on computers? Like i understand how to play it but how do u no where the "mines" are or whatever

yes, when you click on a square and it shows a number, thats how many mines around in each square around that number. for example. if it says 3, then theres 3 mines in the surrounding squares thing. hope i helped!

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im 14/f...i weight 105. i would say that my appearance of me would be SKINNY!..i cheerlead.. but since the season has ended i wont be cheering again till summer. i have a fast metabolism (meaning i eat alot, and well my food doesnt stay with me!...i dont gain weight no matter how much i eat!) im trying to find ways that will help me gain weight..and then as i do so i want to work out, creating some abs!

I read in Seventeen magazine that in order to gain weight, you have to eat over 500 calories more than you're normally supposed to for your body weight. If you do this every day you're supposed to gain 1 pound per week.

Also, I have this site that tells you exactly how to gain weight and build muscle. Go to http://www.fitteen.com/ and click on "articles." Then click on "What should I eat?"

hope I helped!

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is it just me?...or is it just the way my friend acts?...or are others like this also?..

there is this girl Angie...ive known her for about 4 years already..theres time where were close, like best friends. but lately shes been so annoying!..i get so irritated by her!..juss things she does!..shes so fake! and just doesnt know how to be herself! and she'll be so loud just to get attention!!...

anyone else hate this about someone?!

it's not you, it's most likely her being annoying. it pisses me off when my best friends change to get attention. so if i were you, i'd talk to her.

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I'm a 15 yr old guy and my girlfriend and i were "dumped" by our former bf/gf and now they are together.....she is having a hard time getting over her ex and it's feeling pretty crowded in this relationship to me. Do you think it's normal for her to be really concerned with his pro and his away messages and who he's seeing and what he's sayin to his new gf? How can I help her get over him and concentrate on US?

if she's YOUR current girlfriend, then she should of course be more engaged to you. but its completely normal to not forget your first love. it is time for her to move on, but i dont blame her for feeling this way. especialy since girls get emotionally attached and cant let things go as easily. its hard seeing your ex with another person. just be there for her whenever she needs someone to talk to!

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my dad and my stepmom are havin a baby. should i feel sad or happy

you should be very very happy for them! a new birth into the world is a beautiful thing. you might feel a little weird about it since they'll be paying attention to the baby alot because it needs lots of care, and they'll be counting on you for a lot of help. thing will get better in the end! good luck

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I'm really scared. I will soon have to have 2 teeth pulled! I was wondering how much it hurts, can you feel them actually pulling the teeth out, and how long it takes for it to stop hurting after you get them pulled. Please help! I'm really scared!!! I rate 5's by the way.

well if youre put to sleep you obviously dont feel anything. but if youre awake, the numbing usually takes care of the pain part, you just feel it, ya know? afterwards your mouth will be sore but that lasts no longer than 3 days!

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ok well my armpits sweat all the time and i wear the strongest deoterint. i cant raise my hand and play sport cuz im afriad ppl will see. oh by the way im f/13...any segjestions?!
ThAnKs

there's something you can get at all drugstores called "certain-dri" its roll on anti perspirant and you put it on night and it stops your sweating completely its about $7

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Okay, so. I am getting new clothes and I really want to shop at Hollister. My mom will probably give me around $150 and I dont think thats enough. So I'm going to be saving up money...so I want an idea of how much money their shirts, jeans, jackets are. I'll rate 5's.

a nice track jacket is about 40. skirts are about 25. shirts are 15-20. jeans im not sure about, but the other things i know for a fact.

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ok my ex-best friend keeps non-stop talking behind my back and saying how bitchy i am ( even though i'm not) and she keeps telling this guy i like bad things about me, some are true and some aren't and she is getting on my nerves and i just don't know what to do because she was my best friend until christmas break ( which was when i found out when she told all this crap about me) i can't ignore her because she's in my group of friends... what should i do??? by the way we're both 14 and female...

ahh i know exactly what to do in this situation. you need to confront her personally, in person, but dont flip out, yell, or anything. when you get her alone just stop her and be like, look why are you saying stuff about me? and most likely she'll either be speachless or be like "cause i hate you youre a bitch blah blah blah" and then be like "alright look, i didnt do anythign to you, i didnt say anything about you, so just stop" and be serious, but dont be rude or sarcastic. and then walk away, if she screams something back who cares, but she wont stop if you tell her online cause thats not even intimidating. once you maturly talk to her she'll probably stop and feel stupid.

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Ok, this summer my best friend and I had a fight and it ended out friendship. (it was a bitter ending, we havent spoken to eachother since) Anyways, everyday at school, she doesnt talk to me and her friend told me that she hated me. The thing is, I dont hate her back, and I wish she wouldnt hate me. I want her to know that I still care about her even though we aren't friends, and I want to see how she is doing. So I found her livejournal link and do you think i should leave a comment? What should I say?

awww i'm so sorry. here's what i think (even tho im not there to analyze the situation, i still believe that this is the case). i think that she doesnt hate you, and shes just being immature and insecure, and that she REALLY does want to be your friend, she just doesnt want to be the first one to admit it, so she'll tell her friends that she hates you so she'll look like she doesnt care, even tho she does. i bet deep down inside she wants you to be the first one to wish you were friends again, so just be the better person and say something to her. dont start talking about the fight or why it happened, just ask her a question like hey how are ya doing, came across your livejournal. if she flips out or curses you off and says something really mean like EW I HATE YOU YOU STUPID B*TCH DONT TALK TO ME, then just be like "okay sorry, i just just trying to be nice.." and then she'll feel like an ass...hope i helped!

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hey while i was wonder how can you tell a guy never to call u again without being so mean and striaght up saying it. plz help me!! i will rate

i usually make up an excuse by saying that my parents are getting annoyed/mad, or that you're grounded from the phone, but if you want to tell him straight up just be like "look we can talk in school or online, but when im home i have other things to do like homework and spend time with my friends and family so can you please limit your calls" haha hope i helped

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ok plz answer this seriously
my friend is only 14, and her boyfriend is 17 , and he asked her to marry him last week , and she said yes. and she still hasnt tld her mom or dad about it.Should i tell her parents that she's getting married? Is it lik wrong to get married at 14 nd 17? What do u think of a 14 year old grl getting married to a 17 year old guy?



you definitely should tell. if your friend is in trouble, then by all means tell her parents. what she is going to do is rediculous. you need to do the right thing and help her. her parents need to know something as serious as this. think if your child was running off getting married without you knowing. i think you should call her parents and request a time to talk to them about something important.

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i'm in a band, and i'm not bragging or anything but we are quite good. we've been together for like 2 years and have played loadsa gigs (and won a battle of the bands competition recently :p) we've got a demo cd and evrything so how the hell do we go about "getting signed" because i'm hearing of other local bands that get signed ie to sony for £400,000 to go record an album. so does anybody know how we'd go about doing this? i will rate high if your helpful :p PLEASE help me.

alex x

hmm, well do you have a band website? are you on purevolume and myspace? you should make an account on myspace, its a great way to get your music out to EVERYONE. thats the only thing i know, hope i helped

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does anyone know of some good exercises to get rid of love handles? i do crunches (all the different levels) and they help a little... but they never seem to fully go away. i also diet.

you need to do cardio, using your legs, like biking, running, treadmill, etc

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so i`ve heard that in order to loose weight, you have to burn off more carbs than you take in. Is this true? And if it is, then how do you know how many carbs your burning off? Like if you do 50 sit ups..then how many carbs do you burn doing that?

when you talk about burning carbs, it's easier to do aerobics, such as running for a specific time. here, go to this site. type in your weight, and whatever activity you did, type in the amount of mintutes and it will calulate how many calories you burned!
www.healthstatus.com/cbc.html

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