I'm a 15 yr old guy and my girlfriend and i were "dumped" by our former bf/gf and now they are together.....she is having a hard time getting over her ex and it's feeling pretty crowded in this relationship to me. Do you think it's normal for her to be really concerned with his pro and his away messages and who he's seeing and what he's sayin to his new gf? How can I help her get over him and concentrate on US?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Karen answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 9:01 am: It's definitely not normal for your girlfriend to be thinking about her ex-boyfriend all the time and always being concerned about his profile and away messages and everything else about his love life. You need to talk to her and tell her that if she truely loves you, then she should stop, obsessing over her ex-boyfriend's love life and she should start concentrating on your relationship. Tell her that she needs to let go of him because she is with you and if she continues to do this, you need to dump her because her feelings for you aren't true, since she still likes her ex-boyfriend and obsesses over him.
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xxxxxx answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 5:56 am: if she's YOUR current girlfriend, then she should of course be more engaged to you. but its completely normal to not forget your first love. it is time for her to move on, but i dont blame her for feeling this way. especialy since girls get emotionally attached and cant let things go as easily. its hard seeing your ex with another person. just be there for her whenever she needs someone to talk to! [ xxxxxx's advice column | Ask xxxxxx A Question ]
SAMzasis answered Monday February 28 2005, 11:59 pm: For both of your sakes.... DUMP HER. She shouldn't be caring so much about her ex when she got you. Be brave man. DUMP HER. PLEASE take my advice. Thanks. And If you feel like you need to talk to me about this, AIM me or e-mail me or whatever. [ SAMzasis's advice column | Ask SAMzasis A Question ]
AskHalie answered Monday February 28 2005, 11:39 pm: Show how much you care for her. Right her little notes. Let her know you care. Talk to her about how you feel. try to spend time with her (without crowding other people out). I think it's great that you care for her so much and you want you two to work. Tell her that and she will know how much you care. Trust me. ~*Halie [ AskHalie's advice column | Ask AskHalie A Question ]
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