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Hi, so currently I am pretty sure I gained weight. Shorts that were huge on me now fit me perfectly and I feel like some of my pants are tight for me now. Does anybody know how I could possibly loose weight fast, like in 2 weeks or so? (link)
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Maybe like 5 pounds in 2 weeks or so but no more than that, because that'll be crazy unhealthy and you'll end up gaining it back really fast.
So you just need to watch yourself and take care of yourself.
Eat healthy, cut out junk food and soda. Drink a lot of water. Make sure to exercise like 3 or 4 times a week.
These things don't happen over night. If you want something, you have to work for it.
So just eat right and exercise.
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Hi. I am from India. 22/f. I recently brokeup with my boyfriend.actually i do not talk with him for a week. Because he always questioned and argued with me with my past. I do not told him about my all details about my ex boyfriend,because i was tortured mentally and physically by him. I current boyfriend do not ask me about all minute details,so i donot told him everything.now he heared some false rumour about me from my ex boyfriend's friend and he became mad.he always doubted me,treated me poorly and became verbally abusive.He thought i deceived him and i destroyed his life. What to do? Do i again call him and say sorry again?(i do it for 100times) i love him very much,wants to marry him. I know he love me but i cannot understand why he doing all this staff. He always rebuked me and considered me good for nothing!he doesnot think i hold any good virtues in me. What to do please suggest me. (link)
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I need you to step back and really look at what you wrote. If you saw someone else on here write this, would you tell them to stay with this person?
I will be honest. This is not love. If he abuses you at all, he does not love you. You said he verbally abuses you and treats your poorly. That is not love. If he considers you good for nothing and thinks you hold no good virtues, do no stay with him. He does not love you. He hurts you and abuses you.
He stays with you because he can control you. You sit back and silently listen so he thinks this is ok to do.
Leave him and break up.
He has no good qualities in treating a woman. It's disgusting and you need to find a better man.
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Please help. I love this girl, and I know "love" is used in many ways, but I just feel it, that once in a life time love. I truly love her! She said she liked me but she needed time to decide. Over the past few months, we've gone on a few I guess you could say dates, but still no answer. Then tonight, after I left her house she left her Instagram on my iPod. I didn't know at the time, so when I opened it up I realized it was her account. She sent a direct to a guy saying " you are my one and only forever" and calls him bae, vise versa. Please help! I love her so much!!! Please... (link)
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Ok, well since you guys aren't exclusive, it's fine to date other people.
But it is weird that she was saying, "You are my one and only forever", because that makes it more serious. Clearly, she has feelings for someone else more strongly and it sounds more serious.
If she does have a boyfriend or is exclusive with someone, then you shouldn't date a girl like that. It seems that you "love" a girl who doesn't have strong morals. I don't know all the details so I can't say for sure.
And like the others said, you may just really, really like her. Love is a strong word, and to be able to really be truly in love with someone, you need to really know them and know how they act around their friends and family, how she treats them. How she acts when she's angry or upset.
I don't know how close you are to her so I can't say for sure.
But I'd back off of her. Because you don't want to get involved with someone who has another guy that she's exclusively seeing.
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I hope some of you will read this.
The thing is, I've been in a long distance relationship with my ex for 3 and a half years, and he broke up with me 2 months ago.
We have been broken up before for the obvious reason, the distance, but have gotten back together again cause we couldn't let go.
but when it happened 2 months ago, we made a promise that we would still be friends and have contact and be there for each other, just not that often. And this week he texted me for the first time since, saying that he had felt really bad lately due to some trouble that is going on in his life and asked me if we could talk one day, only if I wanted to of course.
And even though I still need more time to forget about our past and because that I miss him, I accepted. Since I know he would do the same for me.
We talked this night, and it was allright. He explained to me what was going on in his life that bothered him a lot. Family, work, ect. And of course I listened to him and gave feedback.
Other than that, I asked him how his birthday was in October where he turned 24, how I was doing, and about my next birthday in april where I'll turn 20. He even said that he would definitely like to see me on my birthday. I said he didn't have to, but he insisted. That made me happy regardless.
But the thing is, there were many times in the conversation where as soon as I was about to talk about something that had to do with us (which I wasn't even trying to do), he didn't want to talk about it and tried to change the subject. I have 3 examples from the top of my head:
1) When I told him how weird I felt with him writing to me, he immediately joked with it (not in a mean way) by asking if I thought it was because he wanted us back together? and I firmly said no, because it was still kind of a rude thing to say and because he didn't let me finish. Of course afterwards he said he was joking and continued to listen. I explained to him it was because I still needed more time to myself to forget, as he has agreed on when we texted, and because I kind of felt like he didn't deserve it for what happened. But that of course I would still be there for him, as he would to me. But now I'm sitting here thinking if he really thought that about me, or if it really only was a joke?.. Because I really felt looked down at from hearing that from him.
the 2nd thing is) When I talked about that, and after I had explained how I felt when reading it, he said that we shouln't talk about that and wanted to change the subject.
the 3rd thing) is after our "Allright"- conversation, and we were in the middle of saying goodbye, I said "well, see you next time I guess" and he responded with something like "Well, maybe, I don't know when but yeah", but then again told me that he wanted to see me on my birthday. After that we hung up.
It probably doesn't sound like all that much, but I guess you had to be there.
But I just really felt like from the way he was talking from these examples, he tried to show that he didn't care at all, and even tried to make me look desperate in a way.
He is a really good guy so it's not his style, and I think that's why all that stuff got to me..I don't know if it's because he didn't want to look stupid since he was the one who wanted me to talk to him about his problems or if it's cause he's "hiding" his emotions or if he simply doens't care at all.
I hope my question makes sence and I'm really grateful for you reading this.
I hope I can get some helpful advice from you. (link)
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It's hard to tell what he's exactly feeling but since you guys are broken up, you shouldn't try to read into it.
Because he might really care and be putting it off like it's no big deal but then again, he also might not care anymore in that way.
Either way, whether he cares or not, he's not interested in dating again because he kept blowing it off when you were trying to talk about it.
The thing is, I don't think you're ready to be friends with him. You obviously still have feelings for him and hoping that he still cares about you in that way.
When you're friends with someone, that means still being a friend and being ok if he starts dating someone else. It doesn't sound like you'd be ok with it if it happened.
So my advice would be to talk to him, let him know you need more time before you guys can be friends again. And even though it'll be hard and it's easier said than done, you should move on.
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Hello, thank you very much for your answer. Perhaps I have my bases mixed up, but there was no penetration involved. Rather just dry-humping and fondling of the genitals until orgasm. Maybe this doesn't actually matter, because either way it was wrong to her. She still has her virginity essentially.
I do plan on marrying this girl. She means so much to me. I know you're mother said, "there's plenty of fish out there.." but not this one.
A day later she messaged me saying in her words" I really don't mean to hurt you ...just keep in mind that I am a little insane and nothing makes sense in my world at the moment.." to which i replied that "just know that i care about you, and i'm here whenever you need me and want to talk about anything".. She responded with a crying face and said ,I'm sorry and thank you.." You say theres not much hope, but I'm not going to give up on this girl. I vowed to her father moments before he passed that I would do my best to be there for her.. Now its just that I'm not sure if she means she's sorry, "don't mean to hurt your feelings but i'm still breaking up with you".. or if she means " i'm sorry for what i said last night, lets stay together.." I didn't want to ask because she may just rationally say in her current unstable emotional state that she does want to split up... What she said though was pretty hurtful.. never had she said anything like that before and seemed so cold the night that she said we should split up. Would you say that she's dealing with a lot of stress and pressure and just doesn't want me to get hurt if she doesn't talk to me for a bit? So she's intentionally trying to hurt me, to agree that we should break up? This similar siutation happened before.. randomly (on the subject that i said i would miss her alot)she wanted to break up.. a day later she said lets work it out and was so glad that she decided to keep the relationship... This is really killing me.. I think I should just give her space to think things through and she'll message me eventually right? IF not maybe every couple days i'll just email or send her a message asking her how shes doing? Before I give up, and try to find a new woman. I want to do all it takes to be with this one. (link)
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If she's the kind of girl who is waiting till marriage for sex, any sexual activity will be a big deal for her. Obviously, she thought she was ready at the time but in reality, she wasn't. She doesn't want to take the blame that it was her decision.
When things become sexual, the relationship changes and she wasn't ready for that.
I know you said you vowed to her father that you would be there for her, but I'm positive her father would want her to be happy and not be with someone she doesn't want to be with.
I think she's hurt. I think she didn't want to hurt you.
Give her space. Maybe in a couple weeks, talk to her, if she still doesn't want to work things out, then that's when you have to respect her decision and move on.
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well i have this one best friend who doesnt like my other best friend and i dont like my on best friend sometimes but i act like i dont like one best friend when i am around another and vise versa so i need help what should i do i mean it i need help! (link)
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You need to be honest with them.
That's their drama and you shouldn't be involved in it.
So talk to them, let them know you love both of them and you're not going to take sides. If they value your friendship, then they'll understand.
They don't have to hang out with each other with you but they do need to accept that you will still be friends with both of them.
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My girlfriend and i are 15 and she told me she wants to have sex i told her that i'm not ready i want to wait she has had sex before i haven't and now she's pressuring me i'm not sure if she is the right girl i'm not sure if i should stay with her what do you think? i'm just not ready for sex there's nothing wrong with that is there? (link)
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Don't be with anyone who pressures you to do anything you dont want to do.
Talk to her and tell her you're not ready and you'll let her know when you are.
If she keeps bringing it up, then you know she's not the right one.
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Hi, so for a while, I've been noticing this guy (we're in highschool) looking at me, like a lot. like he'll literally stare at me. And whenever I talk to him, he acts different around me and I'm not sure if it's because I piss him off or if it's because he likes me. Anyways, today I told my friends who are good friends with him (because one of them has an older brother who is his bestfriend) that I like him (I have spoken to him before, we've already had conversations) and they told me that he hooks up with people and all which I guess is normal... idk. It sort of hurt when I found out about this because I've never hooked up and I don't want to ever hook up and I really like this guy, so how could I make him only attracted to me? I mean I guess he already likes me face or something since he's always looking at it. How can I be even more conspicuous to him? I want him to only want me, how do I do that? (link)
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I agree with the other adviser.
You can't make him only attracted to you. Obviously, no one will only be attracted to one person. You may only have feelings for one person but you'll always be attracted to more than one person.
So if you actually want a relationship with him, you'll have to get to know him more. You don't know him very well right now so you have to see if both personalities click, if he's even interested in a relationship, or if he's just looking to hook up.
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My bestfriends bestfriend took me out on a date... We flirted but before that he was calling me perfect trying to get me to go on the date with him trying to tell me he wanted to kiss me and all that stuff...the date was fun.. He tried to take me somewhere expensive but I made him take me to fast food. Then after that we hung out with our friends.. No interaction, but at threnody of the night we went to get gas. He went inside and came back with a soda and have it to me and told me to share with my brother... And I didn't even ask or tell him what my favorite soda was... But he got it... Two days later him and my bestfriend were "fighting" I made them make up and went to mcdonalds..he opened the door to our friends truck so I could get out...that weekend he but his hand on the small of my back... But a week later of barely talking, even though the week before he texted me nonstop. The week later I told him I liked him( which at the beginning of the date I went in not liking him like that) and he said.. You're fun to be around, but idk if I like you... And we left it at that.. Then that weekend he snap chatted me a lot.. And then nothing this week and now he's talking to a new girl now. And I'm over him and today he snapped me... But when I snap him or text him no answer so today i didn't answer...and he's a player...and I know I'm being played but my friends that are his friends too are saying he likes me.. Or so they thought.. Help guys? (link)
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Well if you're over him then don't stress out about it.
He went out with you, was interested in dating you but something didn't click with him, and that's ok. He straight up told you that he doesn't know if he likes you, and he was being honest. It's not like he lied and told you he liked you and never answered your texts or snap.
If they didn't hear him say that he still likes you, then don't read too much into it.
Plus, he's talking to another girl.
I think if you're offended when he doesn't snap you back or text you back, then don't snap or text him.
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Ok so I'm sorry of this sounds confusing but bare with me because this is the first time in actually getting this out in some way
Ok so I'm 14 and I just started high school everyone knows that your clique when you were in middle school never stays together and I'm not the type of person to be in denial about that stuff I know it happens
So 2 of my friends I've known since the 4th grade and my other friend I've knowed since 7th grade I'm very quiet but I observe alot of things so it's kinda hard to make new friends for me but lately I've been depressed because I feel that I'm the most unliked in the group and since I'm so quiet and shy that it's really hard to make new friends the reason why I feel the most unliked is because little things like my friends not telling me that my other friend was in a wheel chair we have a group message thing and no one ever reply to me sometime they will read it and not reply they say that they love me and there is no one like me but it really hard for me to believe them and I know this well enough that most of you guys are gunna say just sit down and talk to your friends but I can't it's really hard for me to tell people how I feel
My questions am I being overly sensitive and should I just leave it alone or should I suck it up and try and make new friends either way it's gunna be hard for me (link)
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I agree with the other adviser. You shouldn't be depressed over friends.
You already know friends come and go when you grow up.
I'm quiet also so I understand how difficult it can be to make friends.
You already know what you need to do. Life is hard and there are some things we just need to do in order to be happy.
So talk to your friends and let them know how you feel. You don't want to lose them over something that might just all be in your head.
And be open to meet to people and make new friends. Just because you're quiet, doesn't mean you can't make friends. I have tons of friends. Just be open and if someone talks to you, listen, and you'll have something to say.
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I like this guy, it's a stupid little schoolgirl crush, I just think he is the cutest thing so he tweeted something earlier today and I waited a little to favorite it so I didn't look crazy. When I did favorite, I kept scrolling to to favorite others and when I scrolled back up to his, my favorite wasn't there, so I favorite it again. My question is, did he get two notifications that I did that? Why did it even get unfavorited in the first place because I know I didn't go that? Help, please! I don't want him to think I'm a weirdo that I liked it, then didn't or whatever and liked it again because I know, for a fact, that I didn't unfavorite it.
Also, please don't tell me to just not worry that if he's cool, he'll understand. Because he is cool, like, super cool, goalie of the university hockey team cool and I just want to be friends with him and I can't do that if he thinks I'm a weirdo after that. Hahaha. (link)
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If someone thinks you're weird over something dumb like that then you are interested in a really dull person lol.
You're over thinking it.
He probably only got one notification. If he got two, he probably thought it was a glitch on his end so don't worry about it.
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I have this friend that censures people 24/7 and she thinks it's hilarious but I do not. Recently, she saw my mom, my mom has a small cyst on her face and she made fun of her. It really offended me. She keeps telling me that her whole family criticizes people (as always, she thinks its funny), and I don't know how she can be proud of that. It just shows how immature her family is, and turned her into the immature child she is now. We had an obstacle course test in PE a few days ago (I'm the most unfit skinny person you might ever know) and we had the longest running time cause I'm not used to physical activities and all my groupmates are mad at me including the one that made fun of me, and she has this attitude where you tick her off just a little bit, she ignores you for a really long time. What should I do? I really dont want to go back to cutting myself with shards. (link)
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I think before you call off this friendship, talk to her.
At the end, you want to know that you gave everything to save this friendship. In everything relationship, not only romantic ones but friendships, it's a two way street. If she doesn't hear you out after you talk to her, then it's time to call off this friendship.
You obviously know her family background and that this is the way she was raised. So you already understand that but she needs to understand that there are boundaries and there are things that are appropriate to say and things that are not. And that some things might hurt other people even if she thinks it's funny.
So talk to her. Let her know how you feel.
The key to this is to not point fingers at her and make her feel defensive and angry.
Use the word "I".
"I feel hurt when you say things like this."
"It makes me feel bad when you ignore me."
If she doesn't work on this, then you don't need a friend who brings you down.
As for the cutting problem. I'm glad you're not cutting anymore. Have you had help for it? If not, you should see a counselor or therapist. Not because there is something wrong with you but you're still getting these urges and you don't want to fall back on that.
Nobody should have that kind of power over you.
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Age:13 gender:14 I really like this guy and he seems like he likes me , he asked for my number, we gone to places, and even my friends joke around about how we are a couple. but I don't know how to approach him. PLEASE HELP (link)
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He definitely is interested since he asked for your number and you guys hang out.
So I think just talk to him. Just ask him if he feels anything for you. Or even you could say something like, "So I think I've been developing feelings for you and I'm wondering where you're at" or something like that in your own words.
Be brave, it'll turn out fine.
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So, there is this guy and i have had a major crush on him for quite some time. (i'm 18, he's 23)
and all throughout the entire time it seemed like he was interested in me too. He'll often come up to me and hug me, touch and carry me up in the air jokingly, say that he missed me and will compliment me too. The first time when we met, he asked me if i had a boyfriend, during my grad, he said he should've been my grad date. Somehow in one of our conversations, he asked why we've never made out before, and kept joking how we should. We went on movie dates, like once or twice, the first time around he paid for me, but then the second time he asked if i could pay him back. One time at a christmas party, i asked if he could drive me home, he said yes, but then 5 minutes later he went behind my back and asked one of my family members to drive me home and when i called him out, he said he didn't.. when he really did....He said that he's never had a girlfriend because he's too busy with school.
And then this summer, he invited me to his house to watch a movie, i came over and in the middle of the movie he asked if i wanted to make out. i asked him what we were, and he said that he liked me but he can't risk being in a relationship right now because he's really busy with his masters in architecture, and that if we did end up breaking up he can't deal with going through a breakup. he said that he knows there just won't be time to spend together, and admitted that he had commitment problems. and so after him realizing that i wanted more than just friends with benefits, in the end, we never made out, we decided not to start anything up. he said that if i wait two years for him, then we could be together. We agreed to still treat each other the same essentially
but anyways so that was a big bummer....
and just today at work, he kissed me on the forehead.
like everything is just confusing me. like his actions are hot and cold. One day he'll be talking to another girl that looks like she likes him, the other he'll like talk to a girl and have long conversations with her, and then with me he'll like do stuff like that he just did.
why does he keep confusing me? do you think he genuinely likes me? and do you think he really means that he'll come around in 2 years? or is it best to just start seeing other people and move on ??
I like him very much , but i hate being antsy about him like this.
its just so hard to say no when he does these types of things.
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I'm sure he cares about you. But he's being honest with his intentions about not wanting a relationship. So don't get your hopes up because he's not interested in dating, just hooking up.
Don't wait around for him because he doesn't know what he'll want in two years. How can he be sure that he'll still feel that way for you in two years? How does he know that he won't be too busy for commitment?
What if you wait for him for two years and then it just doesn't happen for whatever reason?
So move on, date other people. If it's meant to be then it will be. But don't hold onto this one.
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One of my friends self harms, I am the only one who knows about it. I too used to self harm so I know how hard it is. I want to be there for her but she annoys me so much. She is clingy and she always insults me. The worst thing is she guilt trips me into everything she wants me to do saying "do my homework or I will cut myself and it will be your fault" or "if you don't give me the money I will cut myself and we don't want that". I tried to stand up for myself but she just guilt tripped me in to shutting up. I know she is a toxic person but I feel guilty if I cut her out of my life, what shall I do? I am only 14 and I can't handle it, I just want to focus on getting my GCSES please help. (link)
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You have to talk to your parents or a teacher or counselor at school.
Cutting is a serious problem. Any form of self harm is a serious problem. You can't just sit by and let her do this. Imagine if something went wrong and she cut in the wrong spot or cut herself too deep and ended up dying? You're the only person who knew and could have stopped it. So you need to talk to someone.
She might get mad or angry, but I think you'd rather have her mad or angry over dead.
If your parents don't talk to a teacher or her parents, then make sure you tell the school because they have to get help for her.
It's a serious problem so please help her.
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I'm 16 and I've had a thing with a guy that's 8 years older than me, since I was 14. He's had the same girlfriend since we started. They have two kids together. He tells her all the time that he doesn't want to be with her though and he tells everyone close to him, including her and his own mother, that he's leaving her when I turn 18, to be with me, since it's technically illegal with me still being a minor. I've known him my whole life, and he's stuck to the same thing since we started this crazy thing. Do you think he'll really leave her to be with me? And if it affects anything, the kids aren't really his, but he raises them. (link)
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Do I think he'll really leave her to be with you?
No, he won't.
What's the point of being with her now then?
If he actually wanted to be with you, then why be with another woman? That's not waiting for you.
I don't understand that at all. If he doesn't love her and doesn't want to be with her, he just shouldn't be with her regardless of you being in the picture or not.
The fact is, he wants her and he's just a liar and a cheater.
I'm also questioning what adult wants to be with a 16 year old. Think about it.
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Ok so im kinda very worried, well have been for about a week or two. So im 14 and i rhink i might be pregnant, but the problem is im still a virgin. I know its probably not posble but i read online on a different medical website its possible for sperm to be on a toilet seat and transfered that way and like 2-3 other possible answers. Im showing all the possible signs of early pregnancy and im pretty late on my period. I dont want to tell my parents yet because it might just be something else or nothing and i dont want to scare them so im seeking medical advice before i ask to take a pregnancy test. (link)
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You're not pregnant.
There are tons of reasons why a period can be late. Pregnancy is only one of them.
If you're a virgin and have had no sexual contact with a guy, you're not pregnant.
One of the main reasons is stress. And you're just making it worse because you're stressing over being pregnant.
Then there is sickness and tons of other reasons why your period is late.
If you're concerned about your period being late and this keeps happening, go see your gynecologist and they'll help you figure out why and fix it.
But you're not pregnant.
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(Please don't tell me to go to a doctor.. I realize most people here are not doctors, but I want personal opinions..)
Hi. I'm 14 years old, and my BMI is considered "Normal weight". Anyway, I've been counting calories since late 2011. I was quite young when I started. I was bullied for my weight when I was younger, so I didn't want to get any bigger. Anyway, I keep close watch on my sugar intake, sodium intake, etc. I eat less than 1000 calories a day.. Probably 500 a day or around there. I'm not limiting myself, I just don't really have a good past with food, causing me to not eat. I starve pretty frequently since I have trouble with figuring out what to eat (Like making sure it's not too "fatty"). I CONSTANTLY have my mind focused on food and my weight; Having negative thoughts like telling myself I'm so fat and gross. I can't stop them either. I always try to distract myself from these thoughts, but.. Do you think I have an eating disorder? I don't want to go to the doctor because I'm afraid they'll force-feed me, causing me to gain a bunch of weight. I'm pretty much afraid of gaining weight, and I want to be 100 pounds. It's so aggravating... What do you think? It's not like I'm trying to seek attention or even wanting to do this, I just can't help it. I don't want to be bigger than I already am. (link)
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It sounds like it. When you're obsessed with your weight, it either is an eating disorder or will lead to one.
And you said you starve yourself and that definitely is an eating disorder.
Either way, you do need help with this.
I'm going to tell you to go to a doctor. Doctors don't force feed you and try to cause you to gain a bunch of weight. Doctors help you become healthy.
With the way you're eating, you're not taking care of yourself and it can lead to sickness and many other problems with your bones and other body parts.
I'm guessing this started because you were bullied. But you're handling it wrong. You shouldn't be eating 500 calories a day or starving yourself. You already know it's a problem or you wouldn't be asking.
You need to eat a good amount of food, eat it moderately, don't eat junk food, and exercise. You won't gain weight that way. Maybe muscle but not fat.
Go to a doctor and seek help for your problem. You can't fix it on your own and at this rate, you're going to get sick.
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Me and my bestfriend have hung out for a week... And we so sleep in the same bed but on different sides until last Friday after his party... We cuddled, we weren't drunk. It was after his girlfriend and everyone left I went to bed first and he came in and tried to get on of the blankets from me and at the party he said he was gonna cuddle with me... And we did... All night but. My bestfriend massaged my back, caressed my thighs and stomach and butt Keep in mind that we are bestfriends but we've never done this even when we're drunk. The next morning I went to the bathroom and came back not feeling good so he put his arm around me more but caressed his finger on my bra and he was trying to hold my hand too as well as his morning wood on my back .. And no he wants no one to know. To be honest I liked it but i dont want to like him again. And i dont.. What the hell is up? (link)
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He has a girlfriend. So what's going on? He's technically cheating on his girlfriend. I mean this stuff isn't something you do with your best friend.
I'd talk to him and figure out what's going on. If he's into you, he shouldn't be with his girlfriend. If he wants to be with his girlfriend, don't sleep in the same bed with him anymore.
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okay so I met this guy a few weeks ago and we talked ALL the time and we ended up messing around a bit but we didn't have sex, and weve done that about 3 times now and he tells me he likes me but whenever I message him about 50% of the time it takes him FOREVER to read them or open them, but like the last time we hungout he wanted me to take a picture with him to snapschat his mom so im soooooooooo confused!! I really like this guy and I just don't want to get hurt again,......
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Some guys just aren't that into texting.
If you don't know for a fact that he texts people back right away, don't read into that. If you do for some reason know that he texts people back fast, then he's just probably not that into you.
Most of the time, when you're messing around with a guy, they won't want to take it any further because they're already getting that out of you. That's not all guys, but the majority won't date you when you're messing around with them.
If you want to know how he feels, ask him. It's either that or guessing how he feels or waiting around for him to say it..if he ever does.
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