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Boys.. Again
My bestfriends bestfriend took me out on a date... We flirted but before that he was calling me perfect trying to get me to go on the date with him trying to tell me he wanted to kiss me and all that stuff...the date was fun.. He tried to take me somewhere expensive but I made him take me to fast food. Then after that we hung out with our friends.. No interaction, but at threnody of the night we went to get gas. He went inside and came back with a soda and have it to me and told me to share with my brother... And I didn't even ask or tell him what my favorite soda was... But he got it... Two days later him and my bestfriend were "fighting" I made them make up and went to mcdonalds..he opened the door to our friends truck so I could get out...that weekend he but his hand on the small of my back... But a week later of barely talking, even though the week before he texted me nonstop. The week later I told him I liked him( which at the beginning of the date I went in not liking him like that) and he said.. You're fun to be around, but idk if I like you... And we left it at that.. Then that weekend he snap chatted me a lot.. And then nothing this week and now he's talking to a new girl now. And I'm over him and today he snapped me... But when I snap him or text him no answer so today i didn't answer...and he's a player...and I know I'm being played but my friends that are his friends too are saying he likes me.. Or so they thought.. Help guys?
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Using a cell phone and texting puts a barrier between you, or using the various social sites on the computer(like snap chat) puts a barrier between you, and makes it very hard these days for young people to get to know someone or date. The reason why is because most of their time being interested or pursuing each other or dating, or going together, is time spent apart at the other end of a piece of technology. You are NOT going to find the guy of your dreams that way. When I was your age, I didn't have hardly any dating experience and thought I had an idea of what I wanted. Ended up married at 20 to a man who began to verbally and emotionally abuse me after getting married. My advice, make a list of what you need and want in a guy. Use your mishaps with guys to recognize what the bad traits look right early on and make a list of what you're avoiding. A need is a must have in a guy, like if you want kids some day of your own...yes maybe a long way off, or you love cats or dogs and want a pet if living with a guy someday, if the guy doesnt feel the same way, that would be a deal breaker, meaning, he is not the right guy to pursue, so stop dating or seeing him. A want is something that is not a deal breaker but puts you in tune with what your likes are, what appeals and what you may have in common, If you like ice skating but he doesn't, that isn't a strong enough thing to not consider him as a dating partner. So get in touch with what you are looking for. this guy you mentioned has no clue what he's looking for. Right now, he's like a kid in a candy shop, wanting to try a little of everything out there thats offered. Once you have a better idea what you're looking for, you'll find it easy to tell if the guy who's showing interest in you at the moment might be mature or immature. It doesnt take much time to catch a sign or clue where he's at. Before I met my 2nd husband, I did on line dating and went sometimes on several dates before a guy showed his true colors. Usually always by the 3rd time meeting and spending time together,he will slip up and show or do something that is true to his character. No you can't change a person. So if he's not what you want once you see something that matches whats on your list of what to avoid, leave him. This means having to wade through many false starts. I had just about given up when i met my husband on a dating site. You may only want to have fun for now, but even so, you should be taking notes and updating your list because it will help you in the long run.
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Well if you're over him then don't stress out about it.
He went out with you, was interested in dating you but something didn't click with him, and that's ok. He straight up told you that he doesn't know if he likes you, and he was being honest. It's not like he lied and told you he liked you and never answered your texts or snap.
If they didn't hear him say that he still likes you, then don't read too much into it.
Plus, he's talking to another girl.
I think if you're offended when he doesn't snap you back or text you back, then don't snap or text him.
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i think that you should ask his friends if he has played an other girls if they know but if they dont ask them how many girl he has dated and then if they say alot or how many he has actually dated if its alot or medium he is definitely a player but if its a few most likley not but if you need anymore help and you liked this answer ask me
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