I like this guy, it's a stupid little schoolgirl crush, I just think he is the cutest thing so he tweeted something earlier today and I waited a little to favorite it so I didn't look crazy. When I did favorite, I kept scrolling to to favorite others and when I scrolled back up to his, my favorite wasn't there, so I favorite it again. My question is, did he get two notifications that I did that? Why did it even get unfavorited in the first place because I know I didn't go that? Help, please! I don't want him to think I'm a weirdo that I liked it, then didn't or whatever and liked it again because I know, for a fact, that I didn't unfavorite it.
Also, please don't tell me to just not worry that if he's cool, he'll understand. Because he is cool, like, super cool, goalie of the university hockey team cool and I just want to be friends with him and I can't do that if he thinks I'm a weirdo after that. Hahaha.
However, once you turn 18, it is time to seriously begin to take count of things you find you like and are attracted to in guys beyond just surface level things like his looks, his smile and laugh. It is important to pay close attention and formulate a list of what you like and don't like and some of the don't are going to be the not so good or bad relationship experiences but even those are important to help you begin to discover what you are eventually going to be looking for in a long term partner or for a husband someday. there's no rush to find him yet but if You're in college too, it is time to start paying attention, and keeping a list to remind yourself of what your preferences are. So even if you never get together with him, there will be things you can add to your list. So don't take the attitude of stupid schoolgirl crush. We human's are made to take attention of the opposite sex for a reason, however not all of us figure out how deeply we need to be gathering facts. [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
lightoftruth answered Wednesday October 29 2014, 2:53 am: If someone thinks you're weird over something dumb like that then you are interested in a really dull person lol.
MadameFrappe answered Tuesday October 28 2014, 6:45 pm: Hey Hey I'm MadameFrappe and this sounds kind of like something that happened to me in 8th grade.
Look, all you need to do is calm down/ I know you said not to tell you not to worry, but your being a wee bit overly dramatic. All you need to do is let whatever happens happen. I seriously doubt that this guy is gonna think your
weird because you favorited his tweet. Lol.
(Sorry if i was seeming a bit jerky. LOL)
Hope this helps. email me for more advice on anything you need at my email: madamefrappeadvice@gmail.com [ MadameFrappe's advice column | Ask MadameFrappe A Question ]
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