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i am 13, and i live with my adoptive parents. my real mom had me at 16 and got me token away when i was very young. i have always said that i would not be a teen mom, that i would wait for after marriage. but yesterday i found out that i am pregnant. how do i tell my parents? and i will not get an abortion and i don't want to give my baby away. so how will i tell my mom( that is 6 months pregnant) and dad that their 13 year old daughter is pregnant and wants to keep her baby? (link)
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Hello I am MadameFrappe and I think I've got some advice for you. You should start off by asking them if you can talk to them about something serious. When the time comes to talk, start off by telling them that you just want to talk, and for them to just listen for now. Ease into telling them the news. Because of your young age, they may not take it as well as you might expect, so you might want to be prepared if they get upset. If they tell you that you want to keep your baby, but they tell you you should get an abortion make sure you tell them your side of the story. Make sure that you don't let things get out of hand. I have to say, depending in the kind of parents your mom and dad are, there is a high chance that's they may get upset. I am pretty close to your age, but I have never dealt with something like this before.
If you need any further advice, feel free to talk to me again, or send me an email on my advice email: madamefrappeadvice@gmail.com
Let me know how things worked out, or if you need any more advice hit me up
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Well the end of the school year talent show is my friends and I don't know what to do we are girls (link)
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Hey its me, MadameFrappe.
my advice to you is to just have fun and focus on how much fun yu and your friend are having and do not focus on anything else. Just have a great time, and make some memories
-madamefrappeadvice@gmail.com
if you need anymore advice
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Personally, I have been very miserable all of my life. I have suffered from OCD as long as I can remember. I moved from New York to Florida when I was five years old. It was very traumatic for me. I have tried to commit suicide, but I just ended up in a mental institution. I do see a psychiatrist, but she does not help me. In fact, I only see her for the medication. I am absolutely miserable right now, especially with my job. I decided that I will no longer give any types of hints about suicide because I don't want to end up in a mental institution again. That did nothing to help me. I am going through preparations (getting my house ready, cleaning, trying to pay off bills). (link)
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Hi.
Okay i am going to tell you exactly what i think about your situation. Everyone says not to kill yourself... always thats all people say when you tell them... they say:
"Itll get better" or "Someone DOES care." or something else. The truth is, think about why your wanting to commit suicide.. really think... think about this:
-Do i have a good reason to NOT live? To DIE and never see the sun? Never see my family and friends?? -Is this what i REALLY want? Or am i just hurt and think this is the answer and its not?
-You may think killing yourself will make things better, but thats not always true...
Please consider just... staying on this earth...
***PLEASE EMAIL ME IF YOU EVER NEED EXTRA PROFFESIONAL HELP AT MY ADVICE EMAIL: madamefrappeadvice@gmail.com
Thank you for your time to ask for help
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so, I have been friends with tracy for 15+ yrs and thought our friendship was a close one. ( she lived with my family for over a year when I was over the road truck driving). her daughter is getting married in july and dress fitting is this week. tracy and I haven't been talking lately and im chalking it up to her boyfriend.
you see, tracys boyfriend jeff wants to go to her daughters wedding. seeing jeff up close and personal and dealing with him for a week at another vacation we had taken. I really don't think this is the guy for her. he is an alcoholic and talks to tracy like crap whenever he drinks too much. I don't like it and wont put up with that at her daughters wedding. I don't know if I even want to go knowing he is going to be there and up tracys ass the whole time. she wants to introduce him to her parents ( dad recovering alcoholic from many moons ago). I don't think this is a smart decision. what to do (link)
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Ok, so it sounds like his father is a crazy alcoholic but the fact that he will be at his daughters wedding is not a good idea, and you know this, therefor you don't think you should be there...
Hmm... thats a tough situation and i think i have some advice for you:
Not having a parent at your wedding is probably going to be the worst feeling ever unless they are dispicable people... maybe you should give him a chance, or talk to the daughter abuot her father being at the wedding. If she thinks it will be okay, just let it be and if things go awry, then you can speak up or talk to Tracy... If the daughter doesn't think the dad should be at the wedding, then you have your answer..
Hopefully this advice was good. if not, please specify more or something :)
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So I've been talking to this guy for over a month now and he's sending me mixed signals. He keeps asking me to send him "pics" and I tell him that I don't send them to anyone else I'm in a relationship with them. But we flirt and everything. I just can't figure out if we have a thing going or if he's just a normal guy being a friend. (link)
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I think you should ask him.
LOL sorry it was a short answer but i think its most subtle and good.
Email me if you need more help for anything: madamefrappeadvice@gmail.com
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I like this guy, it's a stupid little schoolgirl crush, I just think he is the cutest thing so he tweeted something earlier today and I waited a little to favorite it so I didn't look crazy. When I did favorite, I kept scrolling to to favorite others and when I scrolled back up to his, my favorite wasn't there, so I favorite it again. My question is, did he get two notifications that I did that? Why did it even get unfavorited in the first place because I know I didn't go that? Help, please! I don't want him to think I'm a weirdo that I liked it, then didn't or whatever and liked it again because I know, for a fact, that I didn't unfavorite it.
Also, please don't tell me to just not worry that if he's cool, he'll understand. Because he is cool, like, super cool, goalie of the university hockey team cool and I just want to be friends with him and I can't do that if he thinks I'm a weirdo after that. Hahaha. (link)
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Hey Hey I'm MadameFrappe and this sounds kind of like something that happened to me in 8th grade.
Look, all you need to do is calm down/ I know you said not to tell you not to worry, but your being a wee bit overly dramatic. All you need to do is let whatever happens happen. I seriously doubt that this guy is gonna think your
weird because you favorited his tweet. Lol.
(Sorry if i was seeming a bit jerky. LOL)
Hope this helps. email me for more advice on anything you need at my email: madamefrappeadvice@gmail.com
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My entire life, I've been lazy. I'm not stupid, but unmotivated. There were times when I was focused and driven-- but, it was for a mere, temporary moment. I was never consistently passionate. EVER. I've done all activities when I was younger -- martial arts, ballet, and piano. Yet, I disliked them. I had played piano for nearly 8 years, but I wasn't good. Because I hated it. No one pushed me. Grade school to middle school, I've earned average grades-- with a couple C's there. High School, I took challenging courses freshman year, received 2 final average D's. Sophomore year, I took two honors and rest regulars -- hence, I received mostly A's. This year, I stacked up my schedule. Currently, I have 3 C's (the marking period didn't end yet). Honestly, when I attempt to focus, it just dies later on. I feel I could've achieved so much if i were not lazy. I attempted to change myself, but it did not work out. I want to become a marketing/advertising major, I'm creative, but I'm scared whether or not I have the capability to. I'm currently in marching band, but I force myself to do it. I despise it. What is wrong with me? If I were more driven, I could've been more successful than I am today. I'm so angry and bitter. (link)
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Hi I'm MadameFrappe. Dude, you sound like me right now.
Okay, what i did was i just thought of something to motivate me like good grades, or getting accepted into a good school. Sometimes i try and make what i am doing fun. Try this and if you still need help with ANYTHING else email me: madamefrappeadvice@gmail.com
Hope dis helps you
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Ok so I'm a 14 year old girl and I'm really giddy and excited because I just started dating this (named Kyle) who I've liked for a while. I texted him asking him out and he replied with "sure". Here's where my worries start: He can't say no to anyone. He dated a girl that he didn't like for three weeks (because she asked him out) until she got bored and dumped him. He's just a really really nice person with a fear of hurting anyone. So what if he doesn't like me and just said yes to spare my feelings? We joke around and talk a lot but he's like that to a lot of girls. Not flirty, just friendly to all. So is there anyway to know for sure if he likes me???? I'm not very pretty either, a little overweight and stuff. Thanks in advance!!!! (link)
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Hi, I'm MadameFrappe and I am be completely honest and try to help the best that i can.
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He's 27/m
We've been together for only 6 months.
A couple of months ago, we went to the bookstore and he told me that he has always wanted to read The Enders Game, since he has heard good things about the series. So, I bought him that book--he read it, and liked it. He then said that he wanted to read the second book afterward.
I went to the bookstore yesterday, and decided to buy him the rest of the series for his birthday. I also got him another book (as a joke) and then I also got him a sweater. My sister thinks it's enough but I wasn't sure if my gift would be good enough. She thought two books and the sweater is enough and that four was a bit excessive. I wanted to get him something else, but since I've only been with him for six months, I decided to wait until later to get him something nicer.
Is my birthday gift enough? Should I get him something else? (link)
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Hi, I'm MadameFrappe and i am going to try to help you best i can.
Okay, i agree with your sister. I think your boyfriend will be perfectly happy with whatever you get him. He probably knows you care so even if you gave him just a card with glitter and happy faces he'd probably still love it! :)
Love, MadameFrappe
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One of my friends self harms, I am the only one who knows about it. I too used to self harm so I know how hard it is. I want to be there for her but she annoys me so much. She is clingy and she always insults me. The worst thing is she guilt trips me into everything she wants me to do saying "do my homework or I will cut myself and it will be your fault" or "if you don't give me the money I will cut myself and we don't want that". I tried to stand up for myself but she just guilt tripped me in to shutting up. I know she is a toxic person but I feel guilty if I cut her out of my life, what shall I do? I am only 14 and I can't handle it, I just want to focus on getting my GCSES please help. (link)
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Hi I'm MadameFrappe and I'm going to help you best I can.
This sounds like a terrible problem, but I think I may be able to help you.
Tell your friend that what she's doing to you isn't right. I'm the same age as you and been here done this same thing.
What you need to do is tell your friend that your concerned that she's self harming but tell her its not fair she's using the fact that you care agaisnt you. If that makes sense.
*Basically just tell her her how you feel.
PLEASE: give, me feedback or email me and tell me how everything is going with you and your friend.
*My email address: madamefrappeadvice@Gmail.com*
HOPE THIS HELPS!!!
Love, MadameFrappe
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My Grandpa and I have never had a relationship. I don't dislike him or anything but we've just never bonded or had anything to talk about. Recently I found out he has stage 4 lung cancer. My mother has been guilt tripping me about how I haven't called him (he lives in Georgia and I am in California). I do not want to make him feel weird or awkward or anything because we have never spoke on the phone. We haven't spoke in years actually. Am I wrong for not calling? I feel it is a bit of a selfish act but at the same time don't want him to realize I am calling just because he is dying. This sounds so awful. Words of advice please. (link)
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Hi, I'm MadameFrappe.
Look, you just need to call him. don't bring up the fact that hes dying though. just talk to him. i know it may be too late to get to know him but maybe if you two just talk and stuff....
I hope your grandpa is okay. :)
Prayers for you and your family.
Love, MadameFrappe
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I saw a post you answered about injecting some poison, so I wanna know if you know anymore suicide methods (link)
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Suicide is NEVER the answer. Take my advice please, i should know. I conteplated suicide myself but then i thought of all the people who care about me. You may not think anyone cares, but someone out there truly does care for you.
If you need any advice on any topic, PLEASE email me for help:
madamefrappeadvice
(All one word, no spaces, no capitals.)
Love, MadameFrappe
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Ok so i met this girl at the airport and asked for her phone number and after that we kept on msging for months... I recently moved to boarding school and the same week i moved she said she loved me and we started this long distance relationship.. But a few days before she told me i got a blow job from another girl and i hid this from her till now... I felt really guilty not telling her and today i told her .. She says i lie too much and that she doesn't want to talk to me, but i really wont be able to get over her cause shes better than perfect! Id literally so anything for her and to find a way to make her forgive me.. This is all my fault i know but i just love her so much and i actually thought about suicide because without her in nothing... Shes really mad and doesn't trust me.. I need as much help as possible ASAP please! Thanks..
P.S sorry if its a bit rushed but in freaking out (link)
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Hi, I'm MadameFrappe.
I totally get what your going through and I', gonna try to help you best i can.
okay, it sounds like this IS your fault but it was total mistake. If you haven't already tried this, just assure her that you will NEVER do anything to hurt her ever again. Something like cheating on someone can be hard to forgive, but if you just tell her in a calm, compassionate way that is believable I'm sure she will understand that what you did was a mistake and you won't do it again.
I HOPE THIS HELPS! :)
Please contact me on my advice email:
madamefrappeadvice
(No space, no capitals, all one word.)
PS. Feel free to ask for any advice, or if you need a follow up for more advice on this topic. Love, MadameFrappe.
PS: Please don't do anything that you will regret doing. don't do anything crazy like suicide. I know times can be tough. Believe me I've thought about it too. But then i thought of all the people who CARE and how much it would hurt them if i did that to myself. Email me if you need advice about suicide.
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Hi. I'm 18, currently at college. There's a boy named Alex in my Sociology 101 class. I decided last week to introduce myself to him. I walked up to him, introduced myself, told him he was cute and asked if he wanted to study for sociology sometime. The only reason I asked him about the studying thing was to have a reason to get his number. Sadly I didn't get his number, but he said if he falls behind in class he would let me know. He also smiled when I said he was cute and he said he would talk to me after we took our test on friday. He was finished with his test before me so he left and I didn't have the chance to talk to him again. I need help, should I talk to him next class, or should I wait for him to approach me? I really want to get to know him and I'm just scared to approach him again. Please give me advice :) (link)
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Hi, I'm MadameFrappe.
This sounds exactly like a problem i had before. You want to really get to know this boy you like, but you don't know how, and you don't want to be pushy or a stalker, right? lol thats how i felt too. Heres what you can do:
1.) Wait and see if HE comes and talks to YOU
2.) Approach him (In a non-stalker creepy way) and just say "hey" and ask if he wants to hang out at lunch or sometime, anytime.
I hope this helps. Please feel free to contact me on my gmail: madamefrappeadvice
All one word, no capitals, no space. If you need anything else, any advice PLEASE contact me. I assure you i am NOT a weirdo. Im a teen like most people seeking my advice, and i just want to help people. :) So feel free to contact me anytime for help and advice.
Love, MadameFrappe
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any online websites that would help me a lot? (link)
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Hi, I'm MadameFrappe. I know some good websites you can go on that will help you with algebra. Like these: (They help, I've tried them)
1.) Math Planet
2.) Purplemath
and 3.) S.O.S Math
Hope these help! Ask me anything else you may need or ask me on my email: MadameFrappe@gmail.com :)
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I'd like to make some homemade chinchilla toys for my little guy and i want to know if they can digest paper mache?? My little Joey is a chewer to the core! and i dont want to make a mache formula that might be toxic in anyway. can they have flour? is there any ingredients in a traditional glue, water, flour paper mache mix that they cant have? and if so what can i substitute instead? (link)
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Hi, I'm MadameFrappe. I used to have a chinchilla and she loved to chew nonstop too. I used to make little play pins and toys for Chloe and here are some tips you should know:
1.) Animals know what they can and cannot eat. if they chew on the toy you decide to make for them, they'll know if it was toxic or unedible for them.
2.) Also, these pets (And others) can tell if they're eating/tasting something that isn't gopod for them. So, you can go ahead and make Joey toys, but if he doesn't chew them or play with them, it may be because its not safe.
Observe what you are using to make the toys. If Joey wont touch your toy, it, like i said, may be unhealthy or toxic for him. Try talking to a vet, or search online for ways you could keep ypur little guy busy! :)
HOPE THIS HELPS!
Love, MadameFrappe
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What is your opinion with online dating ? Do you think you can start talking to someone online and just feel inside you that this is it. You have so many of the same interest feelings and views especially with family and parenting life. You have been threw a lot of the same things and know those are things you don't want to go threw again. (link)
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Hi, I'm MadameFrappe, and I'm gonna be honest with you. i think online dating can be a good or bad thing. 50/50... for three reasons.
1.) You could possibly find the love of your life, or some 58 year old hobo. (YIKES!)
2.) You might also meet someone who will love to be apart of your kids lives as well as yours, or he/she may hate kids. *Remember that anyone who doesn't want to be apart of your kids lives apart from yours is probably not the person you want to be with.
and 3.) Once you meet someone who you think may be the one, don't give your hopes up. Just because it seems like you have everything in common doesn't mean you actually do. there are some liars out there who will do and say just about anything to get to you. Or, maybe you do really have lots in common. This is a decision your gonna have to make for yourself. :)
Hope this helps.
Love, MadameFrappe. Ask me anything else you might need!
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I am single,and am a christian. However,I this guy makes me soooo happy,and comfortable,he totally gets me and we can have the most random discussions with each other,he says he likes me,he told me and also my friends,I wud definetly date him but he's 15!!,and am 18 ppl wud talk,my family wud judge,and u know iht wud be ockward, but I like him so much,he makes me happy,and we have innocent fun together.. What should I do?? (link)
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Your an adult now, and he is just a teenager. everybody has the right to be happy, but maybe you should just wait until he is of age to be with you. you don't want to be considered a petifile.
Hope this helps and you don't think I'm just being a jerk.
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18/f
okay so I met this guy a few weeks ago and we talked ALL the time and we ended up messing around a bit but we didn't have sex, and weve done that about 3 times now and he tells me he likes me but whenever I message him about 50% of the time it takes him FOREVER to read them or open them, but like the last time we hungout he wanted me to take a picture with him to snapschat his mom so im soooooooooo confused!! I really like this guy and I just don't want to get hurt again,......
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Hi I'm MadameFrappe and I'm going to answer your question in an honest, empathetic way.
I totally get what you're going thru girl! I was afraid to get hurt by a guynp that I really liked too. Like you, we would talk, hang out and all that. But sometimes I felt like he was leading me on. I felt like somedays he seemed like he really likes me... and other days I feel like he just wants to be friends.
Here are 3 things you can try:
1.) ask him if he really likes you. For real. Tell him he's been giving you mixed signals and you don't want to get hurt.
2.) Pay attention to that way he acts around you. If he acts all sweet and funny and nice to you in a way he doesn't act around other girls... maybe he really does like you. :)
3.) Just act normal. Hang out and be YOURSELF! :) NEVER ACT LIKE SOMEONE YOU'RE NOT TO IMPRESS A GUY.
Hope this helps!!! Please ask me anything else you might need and I will SURELY be more than happy to help you.
Love, MadameFrappe
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I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years but I still feel like he doesn't trust me. He asks me the same question again and again as if I had lied.
He was previously engaged and she cheated on him multiple times, I just don't think he trusts me all because of her.
He's great, but he also yells so easily and he doesn't trust me. I just, i'm so torn.
Oh, and on top of that-- We live 4-5 hours away from each other.
THanks (link)
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Hi, I'm MadameFrappe and I am going to give you the best, truthful and thoughtful answer I can give to you.
If your boyfriend doesn't trust you and you've been together for almost two years maybe you two should talk about the concerns your having in your relationship. Tell him that you know his previous girlfriend cheated on him and you know he probably has some trust issues... tell him that he CAN trust you,and that you would NEVER do anything to hurt or sadden him. Make sure that he knows you love and care for him.
Living far away from someone you love can be really challenging. Make a plan for times you could meet each other halfway and hang out. Or, if the two of you are thinking about tying the knot (getting married) maybe you could talk about finding a good house for the two of you.
I hope this helps you! :) please ask me if there is anything else you ever need. I may be a stranger...but I am always looking for ways to help people. So in a way... I can be like your best friend who can give you the advice you need.
Love, MadameFrappe
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