Ok so I'm a 14 year old girl and I'm really giddy and excited because I just started dating this (named Kyle) who I've liked for a while. I texted him asking him out and he replied with "sure". Here's where my worries start: He can't say no to anyone. He dated a girl that he didn't like for three weeks (because she asked him out) until she got bored and dumped him. He's just a really really nice person with a fear of hurting anyone. So what if he doesn't like me and just said yes to spare my feelings? We joke around and talk a lot but he's like that to a lot of girls. Not flirty, just friendly to all. So is there anyway to know for sure if he likes me???? I'm not very pretty either, a little overweight and stuff. Thanks in advance!!!!
Dragonflymagic answered Saturday October 25 2014, 7:54 pm: So since Kyle said yes, find times to get together and not talk about surface level stuff like the grades you got in classes and what your parents do for a living, but talk and ask questions and find out more about each other to see if you have things in common. It doesn't matter for what reason he said yes. All that matters is the outcome. So after some weeks of hanging out together, you might ask him if he feels that he'd like to keep hanging out or whether he feels you both don't have enough in common to be close friends and date. You have to be okay with what ever he says. If he says yes too easy, perhaps now he will be truthful and if you give him a way back out, he's leave if he's not happy and said yes for the wrong reason. If he stays, he probably has a level of interest in you. [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
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