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The girl i like is now with my best frieand


Question Posted Saturday October 25 2014, 3:17 pm

So i like rhis girl for like 2 months and i wanted to tell her thet but meanwile she is in a relationship whit my best friend. :(

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Additional info, added Sunday October 26 2014, 10:01 am:
I am 15 .

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Dragonflymagic answered Monday October 27 2014, 5:58 pm:
Then you can't pursue her until she is single again. It doesn't matter if its a friend of yours or a guy you don't know, if she has commited to a dating relationship with someone else, then letting her know doesnt count if its whiles she's with someone else. Think it out. Lets say you did tell her tomorrow. Are you hoping that somehow she has wanted you for a boyfriend for a long time and has been waiting to ask you and got tired waiting and so took your best friend up on it. So, two different situations could exist here now. Either she has no feelings for him. Dumps him and starts dating you and your best friend becomes angry with you and you lose him cus he sees you as someone who stole his girl somehow. OR, she developed feelings for him as well and now likes both of you and feels torn between both of you, not wanting to hurt either. Do you wan to put her in that situation, really?
Want to learn a secret how to get a girl and keep her? Being young, you'll mess up from time to time but now in teens and 20 s is the time to learn.
Be the one who understands her totally, who get's who she is, who knows how to support and encourage her for who she is, who knows more about her than anyone else, all her hopes, dreams, fears, what makes her sad, happy, upset. Treat her like that, and if the chemistry is there between you, then eventually deeper feelings will develop and she won't want to be with anyone else. Cant say you'll get a chance with this girl but perhaps in the future with another.

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